Friends with benefits?
Thursday, July 28, 2011 8:33 PM
Last week I was getting a nice lap dance from a hot spinner with lots of 2-way contact. A couple songs in she feels "Jr." thru my shorts and turns around with the same shocked expression(O-face) that I've received my whole life. She then pulls it out through my shorts and gives me a very dangerous genitals to genitals lap dance. I was so caught in the moment, it didn't matter that we were in the middle of the club with people walking right by us the whole time. Like an idiot I even slipped in a few times. After all was said and done she happily gave me her number and took mine.
She text me the next morning to come see her before she went to work, but I couldn't get to her in time. A few days later she calls me saying she wants me to come over again, it's her day off and her kid is at day care. Again, by the time I was free to go see her it was time for her to pick up her kid. So, I told her I'd be out of town for a week but I'll call her when I get back.
The thing is I'm not completely easy with the idea. I've gotten lucky a few times because a girl accidently brushed against "Jr.", or because a girl I hooked up with told her friends about me and they were curious. But, I've heard too many stories about guys being set up like this. I don't know her and she doesn't know me, so my cautious side is saying "this could be a set up", while my adventurous side is saying "she just wants a sex buddy who's packing".
She never said anything about money, and she keeps contacting me so, should I assume it's free and she just wants to hook-up? Or should I play it safe and not trust this situation at all?
Sorry for the long post, but I'd really appreciate others thoughts on the matter, especially those who've been here before.
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