:"Let's talk later"
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Each time I visit a club, I try to ask a girl if she wants to meet for take out. Whether or not I'm actually interested in spending the money, I still try to ask, because I think these things become easier with practice. I feel that I've gotten better at identifying which girls are down and which aren't.
I've only actually been successful at it twice, but I have a lot of 'almosts.' What I mean is, the girl will say something like 'Okay...let's talk about this later' or 'I'll come talk to you about it.'
The first time I heard this, I waited around in the club until closing time, and the dancer remained glued to another customer. The DJ announced that it was time for everyone to go home and people slowly made their way to the door. I waited as the club emptied out, but she still sat with him -- I got the feeling that she was waiting for me to leave, so I did.
The next time was a similar story, only I didn't wait. I just left when I normally would have.
Then, most recently, the dancer was quite enthusiastic about the idea and said something like 'Yeah, let's definitely do this...I'll come talk to you later.' But once we were back on the main floor it seemed like she was avoiding me, even avoiding eye contact if she walked by.
On my two successes, the girl either gave her phone number in the VIP or told me to write down an email address for her. This brings me to wonder -- Is 'I'll talk to you later' just a nice way of saying no?
I've only actually been successful at it twice, but I have a lot of 'almosts.' What I mean is, the girl will say something like 'Okay...let's talk about this later' or 'I'll come talk to you about it.'
The first time I heard this, I waited around in the club until closing time, and the dancer remained glued to another customer. The DJ announced that it was time for everyone to go home and people slowly made their way to the door. I waited as the club emptied out, but she still sat with him -- I got the feeling that she was waiting for me to leave, so I did.
The next time was a similar story, only I didn't wait. I just left when I normally would have.
Then, most recently, the dancer was quite enthusiastic about the idea and said something like 'Yeah, let's definitely do this...I'll come talk to you later.' But once we were back on the main floor it seemed like she was avoiding me, even avoiding eye contact if she walked by.
On my two successes, the girl either gave her phone number in the VIP or told me to write down an email address for her. This brings me to wonder -- Is 'I'll talk to you later' just a nice way of saying no?
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but don't you think seeing them 2 or 3 times, AND THEN asking them would increase your chances of the girl saying yes? rather than just asking a girl after the first time you've met her?
They might also have gotten caught up with other customers, etc.
But I can relate to what you're talking about. I get a lot of 'maybes' from dancers. But I've successfully gotten those "maybes" into yes's in two cases, so I don't always consider it to be a no.
I suppose I should also clarify by saying that most of the experiences in my original post were all one-off club visits in clubs several hours from my home that I probably won't visit again for a long time.
The chances are probably increased if you cultivate some trust over a few visits.
And yes...."talk to ya later" will more often than not equate to "buh bye".
But, as lopaw says:
'Let's talk later' = 'No chance!'
so, if a guys asks them out, and the girl isn't interested in going out with the guy, she'll give some type of excuse, hoping that the guy will just disappear or go away after a while, that way they don't have to say "no" to the dude's face.
no is only a two letter word, but girls have a hard time saying it in a situation like this one.
it often causes the guy to get confused. they don't know what to think. they aren't sure whether the girl is interested or not because she didn't give a clear-cut answer.
i've experienced this in the past and i HATE when girls do this. do you guys know what i mean?
So you know "let's talk later' may go both ways.
I did F a coupla times in VIP for $120 FS. It seemed to really ring her bell - she did me CG and then I layed her down on couch and fucked her. A week later she agreed to meet me otc "I will fuk yer brains out" she said. We metup that afternoon and she lived up to her billing but it was $200. She is slim, 30 and blonde from East Texas. She started with BJ foreplay then sex. She told me she comes to Houston to work in club (and c customers) then back to her hometown for the weekend (fuck local customers?).