:"Let's talk later"

Each time I visit a club, I try to ask a girl if she wants to meet for take out. Whether or not I'm actually interested in spending the money, I still try to ask, because I think these things become easier with practice. I feel that I've gotten better at identifying which girls are down and which aren't.

I've only actually been successful at it twice, but I have a lot of 'almosts.' What I mean is, the girl will say something like 'Okay...let's talk about this later' or 'I'll come talk to you about it.'

The first time I heard this, I waited around in the club until closing time, and the dancer remained glued to another customer. The DJ announced that it was time for everyone to go home and people slowly made their way to the door. I waited as the club emptied out, but she still sat with him -- I got the feeling that she was waiting for me to leave, so I did.

The next time was a similar story, only I didn't wait. I just left when I normally would have.

Then, most recently, the dancer was quite enthusiastic about the idea and said something like 'Yeah, let's definitely do this...I'll come talk to you later.' But once we were back on the main floor it seemed like she was avoiding me, even avoiding eye contact if she walked by.


On my two successes, the girl either gave her phone number in the VIP or told me to write down an email address for her. This brings me to wonder -- Is 'I'll talk to you later' just a nice way of saying no?

16 comments

  • GoVikings
    13 years ago
    you said each time you visit a club, you try to get a girl to meet you for take out.

    but don't you think seeing them 2 or 3 times, AND THEN asking them would increase your chances of the girl saying yes? rather than just asking a girl after the first time you've met her?
  • gsv
    13 years ago
    If they say "Yeah, let's definitely do this" I wouldn't think they're trying to say no...but if they say "I'll come talk to you later" then it certainly could amount to a no.

    They might also have gotten caught up with other customers, etc.

    But I can relate to what you're talking about. I get a lot of 'maybes' from dancers. But I've successfully gotten those "maybes" into yes's in two cases, so I don't always consider it to be a no.
  • gsv
    13 years ago
    And yeah, I agree with GoVikings. While you don't want to be some crazy regular from whom she gets so much in the club that she has no purpose of seeing outside (and would rather look at as a simple club customer)...but if you see her more than a handful of times she'll get to you know more. It's worth it sometimes to buy the girl a drink and talk to them a bit in these cases.
  • shadowcat
    13 years ago
    sounds like typical SS to me!
  • SuperDude
    13 years ago
    It's also a way of keeping you on ice while she shops for a better deal. If all else fails, she knows you're still there with your tounge hanging out.
  • Digitech
    13 years ago
    All these comments are quite true. I should also mention that one of my 'successes' was a favorite dancer I had seen her a few times prior.

    I suppose I should also clarify by saying that most of the experiences in my original post were all one-off club visits in clubs several hours from my home that I probably won't visit again for a long time.


    The chances are probably increased if you cultivate some trust over a few visits.
  • JuiceBox69
    13 years ago
    When I get that I will normaly visit her once a week until she is comfortuble with me then take out is on. When I visit I spend no more than $40 on her so she knows if she realy wants to get paid its going to have to be takeout : )
  • lopaw
    13 years ago
    I think it's really hit or miss. I've been by far most successful in OTC trysyts with dancers that I've gotten to know (and dropped money on) over time. But it also has happened after just meeting the dancer. Ya never can tell.

    And yes...."talk to ya later" will more often than not equate to "buh bye".
  • farmerart
    13 years ago
    Letting the dancer know that you have some serious 'green' in your wallet often makes OTC possible on you first meeting.

    But, as lopaw says:

    'Let's talk later' = 'No chance!'
  • newmark
    13 years ago
    I use "maybe later" or "not right now" when I mean no. I figure they do the same.
  • GoVikings
    13 years ago
    i strongly believe that "i'll talk to you later" is a nice way of them saying no. many girls don't want to "hurt a guy's feelings"

    so, if a guys asks them out, and the girl isn't interested in going out with the guy, she'll give some type of excuse, hoping that the guy will just disappear or go away after a while, that way they don't have to say "no" to the dude's face.

    no is only a two letter word, but girls have a hard time saying it in a situation like this one.

  • GoVikings
    13 years ago
    but the problem with that is when a girl doesn't give a straight "yes" or "no" answer...it means they're leading the guy on, which causes things to drag out even more.

    it often causes the guy to get confused. they don't know what to think. they aren't sure whether the girl is interested or not because she didn't give a clear-cut answer.

    i've experienced this in the past and i HATE when girls do this. do you guys know what i mean?
  • Alucard
    13 years ago
    I know what you mean GoVikings. Been there, Done that more than once. It's not really polite!
  • inno123
    13 years ago
    Honestly "let's talk later' is also what I say when it is likely that I will say if I haven't seen enough of the dancers on shift and I believe that it is unlikely that I will want a lapper from her but you never know...

    So you know "let's talk later' may go both ways.
  • Player11
    13 years ago
    You need to spend serious money on them itc to get them for otc. Many just do itc sex bc they make more money that way - turnover with regs. Others dont play.

    I did F a coupla times in VIP for $120 FS. It seemed to really ring her bell - she did me CG and then I layed her down on couch and fucked her. A week later she agreed to meet me otc "I will fuk yer brains out" she said. We metup that afternoon and she lived up to her billing but it was $200. She is slim, 30 and blonde from East Texas. She started with BJ foreplay then sex. She told me she comes to Houston to work in club (and c customers) then back to her hometown for the weekend (fuck local customers?).
  • vincemichaels
    13 years ago
    Just whip it out next time and show her what she could have. :)
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