Comments by nengneng (page 4)

To bring cash just as much as my budget is my way of controlling spending... otherwise, I tend to spend whatever I have on my ATF... Last time I brought money enough for 1.5 hr VIP, and I did spend that much...

Ha, I think my ATF said something even better. She says I am probably the nicest guy she has ever met, not just nicest within SC customers. But still, that's not a big achievement, according to pabloantonio's description of most dancers' life...

I have exact the same feeling/preference as Rod8432 does. For my VIP time, most often than not, I just hold my ATF on my lap, face to face (I really enjoy her face), kiss around her face, and sometimes try to hold her as tight as possible. I don't care much about dance. It feels better to just hold her still than let her dance.

It's not the first time I see someone mention lingerie modeling when talking about Rockford IL. Is it because they are the same person, or Rockford is famous for lingerie modeling as LV famous for casino?

Sorry, can someone clarify this to me: which party, Rep or Democrat, wants to kill this industry? "Superdude" seems to point to Rep while "troop" mentioned Democrat... I'm confused...

an endangered industry...an endangered hobby...

I will not tell the name of my ATF. I hope I can dominate her time during my visit, which could hardly be fulfilled if she is too popular! Fortunately, I am a face guy, thus my ATF is good-looking but her body is not that hot (small tits), and LDs are just so-so. I'm happy that for all the reviews for that club on here, or the strip club session of USAsexguide, or stripclublist.com, so far her name has never been mentioned by customers other than me. However, I think this is mainly for my case where I somehow have some emotional attachment to her. Otherwise, if I just randomly pass and visit a club which I am unlikely to visit again, I am totally okay to name any girl.

I think it depends. For regulars to go for their ATFs, the slow weekdays when she work should be the best. For random visits, I think Friday or Saturday should be the best when you have more girls to choose from.

Don't ruin Indy please!!!!!

Well, I always show up earlier than her coming to work, but since she knows that I am so into her, she tends to make money from her other regulars and let me to wait, and I also tends to wait my VIP half hour till the end when I suck her nipples. Maybe next time, I should put it clear that I should be served first!

I think it is still good to start with not touching. Different clubs/areas have very different rules. Like Cheetah Lounge in Atlanta, that's the place for air lap dance and no-touching VIP. The same case for those in Nashville. Since I start this hobby with the no-touching and overpriced Cheetah Lounge, I am pretty happy now as a regular to BBF. Having low expectations at first and wait to see what will surprise you seems to be a good strategy.

I suck my ATF's nipples sometimes, but her tits are small, and nipples are insensitive, which make me fail to feel any sense of achievement by sucking them...

How long it took you to become bored?

BTW, why you dumped her at the first place?

How to judge whether you are a (total) PL for your ATF? Is it that as long as you have ATF, you are a PL to her? Or not necessary?

I just wonder, is there any club named, like, "High mileage show club"? That would be interesting.

I can see the paradox here... I really appreciate your "looking at them beyond just a dancer, more about who they are as a human being", and I try to do the same myself, but paying for that make it less likely to be that case, though it derives from your kindness...

steve seems to seek the same thing I try to seek from my ATF... OTC more like dating experience rather than sex... Hopefully you will post the update! Good luck.

Got it...

You mean this Friday afternoon? I was there, too, but did not notice what you said...

I agree that chocolate is adequete enough. No need to buy sth. more valuable. If not, that means the girl is just too needy.

I totally agree with chimark!!! As for my ATF, her strategy seems like, since she knows that I am asking her to VIP anyway, she would like to make money from her other regulars who tend to only ask several lap dances because she knows I can wait... This bothers me a little. But my recent strategy is to take some work/reading into the club to make use of those waiting/wasted time.

Good hint. I'll take this advice from shadowcat. Hopefully such behavior will not be viewed as a tag of pathetic loser who has no one else to miss for VD...

me either!

BTW, she once told me that she thought prostitution was so wrong, thus I think she won't do OTC for money. Either free, or no OTC at all. (I agree the opinion that some of dancers are quite wary of prostitution, though that boundary between stripping and prostitution may seems trivial to some other dancers, and maybe most customers.)