A timetable for bringing up OTC to your ATF?
Hi, I just wonder, for those of you who had or have OTC with your ATF, is that you or the dancer who brought up OTC firstly? Or that should be something happens spontaneously?
Is there a timetable for bringing up that, just like typically how many months since the start of a bf/gf relationship should the couple have sex?
I have been seeing my ATF since last October, once to 3 times per month. I really want to make it one step further.
BTW, I totally agree the point made earlier on this discussion board that an ideal OTC should be free, deriving totally from the mutually emotional attachment.
Is there a timetable for bringing up that, just like typically how many months since the start of a bf/gf relationship should the couple have sex?
I have been seeing my ATF since last October, once to 3 times per month. I really want to make it one step further.
BTW, I totally agree the point made earlier on this discussion board that an ideal OTC should be free, deriving totally from the mutually emotional attachment.
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You should read www.stripperweb.com forums. Most of the users on there are strippers who brag about how much they have ripped off their regulars.
Best of luck to you though...
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That said, sam may have the right of it. She may have you pegged in "no need to put out" category.
Unless you're just talking about *meeting* OTC, and not OTC sex. I don't know about that; I've never bothered meeting unless it was for sex, even though dinner or something might have been included afterwards in a few cases.
Nowadays I don't stick with the same girl for very long and go for OTC right away, so I'm not sure which is more likely. My guess is that with the economy in the shitter girls will be more willing to meet our reasonable requests for them to suck our dicks if they want money.
Big red flag there. Months???
Ask her as soon as you know you want it. She's a businessperson. She'll say yes or no or not yet... whatever, and you'll go from there. She won't be insulted. She won't dump you. She wants your money.
(I agree the opinion that some of dancers are quite wary of prostitution, though that boundary between stripping and prostitution may seems trivial to some other dancers, and maybe most customers.)
I think you're wrong about this. Most dancers I know will do extras but they don't consider themselves prostitutes. They think of themselves as entertainers, and that's how you should think of them too, if you want to hook up with them. They will be insulted if you refer to what they do as prostitution. What you have to do is have sex with them OTC, and then give them a "gift" of money.
Women constantly amaze me. They look down on other girls who do "dirty" things, even if they are doing some pretty dirty things themselves. I was once out with a dancer who noticed a wall calendar with nude women on it. She expressed her disapproval. I had to restrain myself from saying, "You're a stripper. You make your living from getting nude!"
Then there were a couple of dancers around my age at the time that were interested in dating and they sat and talked with me for hours on different occasions. Who did I end up going out with? Not the ones who sat and talked with me for hours.