Reluctant to name a fav?
looneylarry
As you review clubs, are you reluctant to name a fav of yours? There are ways of vaguely stating that she gave a fantastic LD and you can hint that there may have been extras or even OTC. But don't you want to keep it to yourself, for fear that the crowd will come rushing over to check into it? I don't name crappy LDs, since they are the rule and not the exception. But I have mixed feelings about naming great LDs; it is better for disclosure and for the purpose of this site, but I also kind of want to keep her to myself. Or is the cat most likely already out of the bag?
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* If it's a dancer who stays wholly within the legit guidelines of the club, BUT who is friendly, sweet, attentive, and beautiful, then I'm usually fairly free with the information. I have a couple "fav's" at Pink Pony in Atlanta that are true sweethearts and always make me feel good, but from whom I've never received more than the typical Atlanta air dance.
* If on the other hand, it means a dancer who seems to give amazing service during LDs or in the VIP, then no, I generally keep her to myself. And I do this because (perhaps wrongly), I think she and I've developed a little "thing" together, and if I went blabbing about it, she might feel betrayed and/or get trouble with the club. Plus, I don't want an army of other guys going in there demanding the same service, as she truly may only do it for guys she feels good about.
No stripper that I know wants to be known known on a public site as either REALLY good or particularly bad, and I agree with shadow that good dancer relations can often be a matter of trust.
I also get PMs from guys asking me to tell them which girls I get OTC/ITC services from. I usuaully tell them that I'm bad with names. No offense intended, but I don't feel comfortable casually sharing the names of a girls that have serviced me - I just don't know how the recipients would use the information.
I get chills at the thought of some guy from here saying, "Hey, Rick from New York said that you really know how to polish a knob" followed by a goofy look or a wink. Last thing I need is my future action jammed up by something like this.
However, I think this is mainly for my case where I somehow have some emotional attachment to her. Otherwise, if I just randomly pass and visit a club which I am unlikely to visit again, I am totally okay to name any girl.