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2 years ago
I like women. Pretty much all of them.
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2 years ago
Unless she's eating <em>em</em>, I don't really care.
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2 years ago
I used to on occasion with my ATF. It was fun.
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
I've also gotten some surprised reactions when I offer to buy dances again after they've told me "no" to extras.
"I'm surprised after last time."
"Sex isn't the only reason I come in here; I like to grope too, and as long as you let me do like last time, I'll still get dances occasionally."
"But you won't get a VIP."
"Not unless you change your mind about the 'no'. [with a bit of a smile] But I'm ok with just dances if you are."
Drinks I don't generally buy unless it's someone who's gonna fuck me, as a dancer drink is $22 or $31, depending on the club, and I ain't doing that for anyone other than a favorite.
PT's and the Frog I'm more likely to buy a drink, because they are more rationally priced. Still expensive, but not ridiculous.
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2 years ago
So now, not only am I glad for <em>my</em> sake that I'm snipped, I'm also glad for any potential partner's sake. Even though most of my adventures are covered, shit happens, and I'd hate like hell to be the cause of someone's legal trouble just because they didn't want my baby.
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2 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
@SJG: "If people gain the ability to lock down threads, then anyone who still has something to say will just make their own thread. TUSCL is best when threads are open for reuse."
Prove it. You make this claim repeatedly, and repeatedly fail to show any evidence at all supporting it.
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2 years ago
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ilbbaicnlKeep it in my pants when I do OTC. If I were a stripper it would stand for I like big bucks and I can not lie.
Dancer was a bit of a bitch, however justified. Customer was definitely a douchenozzle.
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2 years ago
Up with dresses, down with pants.
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2 years ago
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ilbbaicnlKeep it in my pants when I do OTC. If I were a stripper it would stand for I like big bucks and I can not lie.
@san_jose_rapist: "S and M people need safe word because they are role playing things that are not always consensual."
No. No. No.
If you think BDSM gives you carte blanche to do whatever the fuck you want until they say stop, you're dead wrong. Contrary to how it's often portrayed in movies and books (50 Shades is trash), it's the <em>sub</em> who is actually in control, in charge, not the dom/domme. They're just temporarily abdicating some of that control to someone else who understands and respects their limits. <em>Everything</em> must <em>always</em> be consensual, and limits should be discussed before hand so that everyone knows what's allowed beforehand. Anything else is just an excuse to take advantage.
Why am I totally unsurprised that san_jose_rapist would get it wrong.
Fucking creep.
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2 years ago
I don't want to be some kind of conspiracy theory kinda guy, but has anyone else noticed that Fox News doesn't seem to carry <em>any</em> news stories about actual foxes? Seems like a credibility problem to me.
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2 years ago
@C.M.I.: "They weren't allowed to have their own money and often weren't considered capable of managing money beyond buying groceries and housekeeping supplies."
My dad died in 1970. Virtually the only the reason mom had control of her own finances after that was because she and dad had the foresight to put <em>everything</em>, the house, the cars, the (then very few) credit cards, bank accounts, etc. in her name alone before he passed. Had a heck of time doing it, too. He literally had to have a judge rule "do it" on a couple of occasions.
Twenty years after he died, she would still occasionally get male officials and salesman give her, "well, let's see what your husband has to say." Her general response to that sort of thing was "I'd ask him, but he's dead." Straight up throw it in their face. I remember one guy, a car salesman, without a bit of shame, follow that up with, "what about your father?"
So yeah, that shit happened. I hear people lamenting that "my grandparents were married for 75 years; marriage doesn't last any more because of social media blah blah blah." Nah, marriage doesn't last anymore because women literally don't have to put up with men's shit.
So yeah, color me skeptical of claims that women are primarily looking for providers nowadays. Is that <em>part</em> of what they're looking for? Certainly, but not anywhere near as much as a few decades ago.
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2 years ago
@heaving, I read the OP's post in the context of a "date" like encounter, not a night out with friends.
Different thing entirely, IMO.
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2 years ago
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ilbbaicnlKeep it in my pants when I do OTC. If I were a stripper it would stand for I like big bucks and I can not lie.
Nothing?
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2 years ago
@C.M.I.: "My default method now is that I will get the check, and if she asks to chip in, I ask if she's sure because I'd like to treat her. If she again asks to pay for her food, or cover the tip, or whatever, then I let her."
This.
If <em>I</em> am the one asking for the date, then I expect to pay. If she offers to pay for hers, or cover the tip, then I will take that at face value and let her. If that turns out to be some kind of stupid "test", then I would consider myself lucky to have failed it.
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2 years ago
You won't get any such "are you insane" comments from me.
Until a little more than a decade ago, when I met my ATF, I was all about condoms and dams. I'd get handjobs most of the time bare, but everything else would be covered.
Then <em>she</em> corrupted me. 🙃 With her, everything was bare. I'd occasionally get a BBBJ from someone, but everything else was covered. Then shit happened. I haven't had covered sex in years, and even with outright escorts, the BJs are bare. Of course, I'm a lot pickier about who I put my dick in these days, and being snipped eliminates any concerns about pregnancy.
So, keep a Plan B or cash for an abortion on hand if the need arises.
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2 years ago
Used to be a Mormon dancer at a club in KC. She was a bloody freak. No idea if she was telling the truth or not, but even though <em>marrying</em> multiple people is still illegal, polygamous relationships are apparently still pretty common among some of the Mormon communities. According to her, lesbian sex among "sister-wives" is pretty common, and in some cases, the wives have more sex with each other than they do with their "husband".
I know she herself was more extremely open about her preference for women (this was in the early 90's), and she demonstrated that preference quite graphically on more than one occasion.
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2 years ago
One thing that a lot of smug EV owners don't realize, or don't want to admit, is that in many areas of the country, charging an EV <em>still</em> burns coal.
Unless you're in an area where power is generated solely by solar, wind, geo, hydro, or nuclear, you're using electricity generated by a coal fired plant.
Go nuclear. It's the safest form of power generation, by at least an order of magnitude.
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2 years ago
They're desperate. They can't make money any other way, so they beg, cajole, plead, threaten, shame, taunt, or disrespect customers into giving them some. They'll do anything but <em>earn</em> it.
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2 years ago
She’s a freak. Sometimes she just wants to let go. All work and no play and all that.
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2 years ago
Fucking creep.
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2 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
The lack of commuting has saved a crapload of gas, and since my job doesn't require any travel, I've unregistered and uninsured one of my cars. It sits in the garage, and I take it out to fun it back and forth around our cul-de-sac once or twice a month. My wife and I share the other car now.
We also don't eat out nearly as often as we used to, and she often brings leftover food home from where she works, so our food costs have gone down. The house was paid off last year (because I lump-summed the payoff from a windfall I had) so we don't even have that now. The tax deduction for mortgage interest was almost non-existent by this time anyway, so another free 1500 per month is welcome.
My 401K appears to be doing pretty well, so thanks to whoever is managing that, I haven't lost nearly as much as some folks I've heard of.
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2 years ago
Because nowhere else in the entire world are things, including boundaries, negotiable...
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2 years ago
Ok, I realize that while I could tell <em>my</em> wife, not everyone feels like they can do that. YMMV.
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2 years ago
If I trusted her not to try any kind of blackmail, I'd be tempted to email her so she isn't surprised. Something like, "if you happen to see me at your work, I don't know you if you don't know me."
I said, I'd be tempted, but I'm totally not sure what I would <em>actually</em> do in that case. The fact that you might see her on more than one occasion makes me lean in the direction of warning her.
Did you meet the dancer before or after you were married? If before, you might consider warning your wife, or at least "funny thing today..."