Fear Factor
doctorevil
Evil Lair
So, I’ve been seeing this dancer OTC for a couple of months now. She’s a roller coaster. You know, that exhilarating mixture of fun and fear?
The fun: She’s hot, 22 (just turned 22 a month ago), the face of an angel, super smart and witty, and a total freak. Every meet up is a GFE. That is, if your girlfriend happens to be a hardcore porn star.
The fear: She doesn’t like condoms. This afternoon I visited her at her club and had an ITC session. After some BBBJ foreplay, I took the initiative to cover up before the main event. This was after several OTC sessions where she just jumped on me raw, and being the gentleman I am, I tried to accommodate her desire. Luckily, due to age and medical status, the risk of procreation is minimal, but non-zero. Nevertheless, after the last session, I suggested to her that raw sex was not the best course of action for either of us, for multiple reasons.
Anyway, this time, after me taking the initiative to cover up, she tells me this isn’t the same, jumps off, grabs the tip of the condom, stretches it about two feet like it’s a party balloon until it snapped off, and the then jumped back on. I acquiesced given my natural preference to defer to the fairer sex. Again, due to age and medical status, the risk of pregnancy is very low. I’m not really concerned too much about disease as the risk of a significant incurable disease from heterosexual sex is relatively low, and at my age, why do I even care?
But she scares the shit out of me anyway. Thoughts? I’m hoping I will get enough “you are insane” comments to change my behavior. But probably not. She’s super hot.
The fun: She’s hot, 22 (just turned 22 a month ago), the face of an angel, super smart and witty, and a total freak. Every meet up is a GFE. That is, if your girlfriend happens to be a hardcore porn star.
The fear: She doesn’t like condoms. This afternoon I visited her at her club and had an ITC session. After some BBBJ foreplay, I took the initiative to cover up before the main event. This was after several OTC sessions where she just jumped on me raw, and being the gentleman I am, I tried to accommodate her desire. Luckily, due to age and medical status, the risk of procreation is minimal, but non-zero. Nevertheless, after the last session, I suggested to her that raw sex was not the best course of action for either of us, for multiple reasons.
Anyway, this time, after me taking the initiative to cover up, she tells me this isn’t the same, jumps off, grabs the tip of the condom, stretches it about two feet like it’s a party balloon until it snapped off, and the then jumped back on. I acquiesced given my natural preference to defer to the fairer sex. Again, due to age and medical status, the risk of pregnancy is very low. I’m not really concerned too much about disease as the risk of a significant incurable disease from heterosexual sex is relatively low, and at my age, why do I even care?
But she scares the shit out of me anyway. Thoughts? I’m hoping I will get enough “you are insane” comments to change my behavior. But probably not. She’s super hot.
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In some ways this situation is somewhat analogous to saying “I like eating steak – should I avoid it for my health”.
This is the old risk/reward equation where there are often several factors at play one of those being what-stage-in-life (i.e. age) one is; etc - so the course-of-action one can say can vary depending on stage-of-life
As one that hates condoms and often prefer to not engage b/c it means using a condom, my unprofessional opinion is similar to red-meat; perhaps you should do it sparingly if you don’t want to give it up completely.
One thing I *would* do, if possible, is making sure the risk of pregnancy is as close-to-zero as possible (read get snipped if you aren’t).
Although I’m not a big extras-guy in that I don’t go looking for extras every time I club: I do get them from time-to-time kinda on the spur of the moment.
Anyway – this dancer was one that was kinda a freak and I’d done extras w/ on several-occasions over the years and many of those occasions it was bareback-city – I then stopped clubbing for a while – when I returned to the club she was there and we did a VIP – this time she put a hat on me (she hadn’t in the past) – I went with it – I was hitting-it in her fave-position (doggy-style) – after a couple of minutes, she reaches back, pull the hat off, and we continue the festivities like old times.
How long do we live anyway? fuck it. See me I judge if I could do that by how hot she is, that tells me how ok it is. I'm also a complete fucking moron, so take it for what's it's worth.
Papi: Humble brag? Maybe, but I don’t think so. I’m not saying she wanted to jump on me raw because I’m a stud. I know I’m not. Whatever I’m the motivation, her insistence on raw sex is a little scarey.
Muddy: Sometimes being a complete fucking moron is nirvana. So far, it has been for me. Sometimes it gets you killed.
You wrote and I quote:
“ She’s hot, 22 (just turned 22 a month ago), the face of an angel”
Pics and Vids or it didn’t happen.
:D
Good Times, Good Times.
As far as your concerns, those have been the two biggest items of fear society has been indoctrinated with since birth and then the 80's, pregnancy and aids, respectively.
I'm not mentally or physically strong enough to return to properly raising a child under the age of hmmm, how olds my youngest 10. I will do a disservice to society if I'm forced to participate in that in anyway and, it will be an intentional disservice to society.
As far as the other, I'm relatively confident something else will do me in way before aids could ever make a dent . in fact, whatever is planning to kill me may kill the aids just outta spite, if something like that ever made the unfortunate mistake of seeking me as a host.
But most of us have been intentionally conditioned to shit ourselves endlessly for a period of 15 - 30 days after engaging in what we've been taught could ruin our lives or kill us.
TL/DR:
A bit frightened of the first but DGAF on the second due to age exemption clause.
Apologies, I still need to sharpen and polish my brevity gentle-ladies and men.
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At the end of the day you have to ask yourself: How many more of these fun times you really have left in you? You can't do this forever, so you have to make the most out of the times you still have left.
The one opposing note I'll add relates to pregnancy. Normally I'd say not to worry about it because a young girl is likely never going to admit to her family and friends that an old John got her pregnant. They all have boyfriends and/or other casual sexual partners, so I'm sure she has someone more age appropriate to blame. But in your particular instance I'd say there may be other considerations (without getting specific).
Now that's funny. Doc already knows my take is gonna be YOLO, but now the rest of you do, too.
Until a little more than a decade ago, when I met my ATF, I was all about condoms and dams. I'd get handjobs most of the time bare, but everything else would be covered.
Then <em>she</em> corrupted me. 🙃 With her, everything was bare. I'd occasionally get a BBBJ from someone, but everything else was covered. Then shit happened. I haven't had covered sex in years, and even with outright escorts, the BJs are bare. Of course, I'm a lot pickier about who I put my dick in these days, and being snipped eliminates any concerns about pregnancy.
So, keep a Plan B or cash for an abortion on hand if the need arises.
That said I do understand the natural fear/anxiety that can be triggered by a young lady that seems to be a little bit crazy and living on the edge..but like a rollercoaster, it is exhilarating.