Fear Factor

I'm 80 and haven't used a condom since I was a teenager. I've never caught an STD. So you won't hear it from me. :)

There isn’t a “right answer” for this, as I’m sure you already know – and part of me thinks this is more of a humble-brag-post 😛

In some ways this situation is somewhat analogous to saying “I like eating steak – should I avoid it for my health”.

This is the old risk/reward equation where there are often several factors at play one of those being what-stage-in-life (i.e. age) one is; etc - so the course-of-action one can say can vary depending on stage-of-life

As one that hates condoms and often prefer to not engage b/c it means using a condom, my unprofessional opinion is similar to red-meat; perhaps you should do it sparingly if you don’t want to give it up completely.

One thing I would do, if possible, is making sure the risk of pregnancy is as close-to-zero as possible (read get snipped if you aren’t).

I don’t have fave/regulars that I stick-to; but pre-Covid there was a dancer that I knew for about 8 years that I would usually get dances w/ if I saw her in the club b/c she was very-good at her job.

Although I’m not a big extras-guy in that I don’t go looking for extras every time I club: I do get them from time-to-time kinda on the spur of the moment.

Anyway – this dancer was one that was kinda a freak and I’d done extras w/ on several-occasions over the years and many of those occasions it was bareback-city – I then stopped clubbing for a while – when I returned to the club she was there and we did a VIP – this time she put a hat on me (she hadn’t in the past) – I went with it – I was hitting-it in her fave-position (doggy-style) – after a couple of minutes, she reaches back, pull the hat off, and we continue the festivities like old times.

Dr. Evil just out here living the dream, don't mind him at all.

How long do we live anyway? fuck it. See me I judge if I could do that by how hot she is, that tells me how ok it is. I'm also a complete fucking moron, so take it for what's it's worth.

Lockjaw: I actually asked her the first time she jumped on me. Her response: “No. my birth control is Plan B or abortion “ or something like that.

Papi: Humble brag? Maybe, but I don’t think so. I’m not saying she wanted to jump on me raw because I’m a stud. I know I’m not. Whatever I’m the motivation, her insistence on raw sex is a little scarey.

Muddy: Sometimes being a complete fucking moron is nirvana. So far, it has been for me. Sometimes it gets you killed.

Roller coasters are fun though ;-)

I usually were a condom on roller-coasters just to be extra-safe

@doctorevil

You wrote and I quote:

“ She’s hot, 22 (just turned 22 a month ago), the face of an angel”

Pics and Vids or it didn’t happen.

:D

Good Times, Good Times.

Sounds like an average girl nowadays. They hate condoms.

I had to stop reading for a moment when you stated "grabs the tip of the condom, stretches it about two feet like it’s a party balloon until it snapped off" goddamn that doesn't feel good!! At least you had a lubricated warming pad readily on-hand to soothe with the sting that usually accompanies that snap.

As far as your concerns, those have been the two biggest items of fear society has been indoctrinated with since birth and then the 80's, pregnancy and aids, respectively.

I'm not mentally or physically strong enough to return to properly raising a child under the age of hmmm, how olds my youngest 10. I will do a disservice to society if I'm forced to participate in that in anyway and, it will be an intentional disservice to society.

As far as the other, I'm relatively confident something else will do me in way before aids could ever make a dent . in fact, whatever is planning to kill me may kill the aids just outta spite, if something like that ever made the unfortunate mistake of seeking me as a host.

But most of us have been intentionally conditioned to shit ourselves endlessly for a period of 15 - 30 days after engaging in what we've been taught could ruin our lives or kill us.

TL/DR: A bit frightened of the first but DGAF on the second due to age exemption clause.

Apologies, I still need to sharpen and polish my brevity gentle-ladies and men.

[something about not looking gift hoes in the mouth]

I would like to say that I would never do that. But that would be an outright lie. It's very common for sugar babies to not want to use condoms. So several of them will do it raw with me after they get comfortable with me. I'm terrified about the pregnancy part of it so I do confirm they are on birth control. But bareback sex is SOOOOOOO much more enjoyable. The girls I'm with are not high volume providers though. At least, I don't think they are.

There is rick in every part of life.

^ There is risk in life. Typo.

“There is rick in every part of life”

Duly endorsed by Rick the Zebra

Just have fun. The risk of F to M transmission of the more serious STDs in normal hetero sex is almost non-existent and most of the less dangerous stuff is treatable with anti-biotics.

At the end of the day you have to ask yourself: How many more of these fun times you really have left in you? You can't do this forever, so you have to make the most out of the times you still have left.

The one opposing note I'll add relates to pregnancy. Normally I'd say not to worry about it because a young girl is likely never going to admit to her family and friends that an old John got her pregnant. They all have boyfriends and/or other casual sexual partners, so I'm sure she has someone more age appropriate to blame. But in your particular instance I'd say there may be other considerations (without getting specific).

"There is rick in every part of life."

Now that's funny. Doc already knows my take is gonna be YOLO, but now the rest of you do, too.

You won't get any such "are you insane" comments from me.

Until a little more than a decade ago, when I met my ATF, I was all about condoms and dams. I'd get handjobs most of the time bare, but everything else would be covered.

Then she corrupted me. 🙃 With her, everything was bare. I'd occasionally get a BBBJ from someone, but everything else was covered. Then shit happened. I haven't had covered sex in years, and even with outright escorts, the BJs are bare. Of course, I'm a lot pickier about who I put my dick in these days, and being snipped eliminates any concerns about pregnancy.

So, keep a Plan B or cash for an abortion on hand if the need arises.

Free gifts. Enjoy.

Won't hear it from me either. Life is short and the enjoyment outweighs the risk....by a long way.

That said I do understand the natural fear/anxiety that can be triggered by a young lady that seems to be a little bit crazy and living on the edge..but like a rollercoaster, it is exhilarating.