The Boundaries Hoax
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dam zaddy got all my lips smiling
99% of the time I've found that 'boundaries' is just a holier than thou term for:'negotiables', that magically disappear when they need the money bad enough, the tip amount is right, and/or when they're shitfaced.
Just another baseline for rob tactics.
Looking for the hoorawed white-knight responses here. Thanks.
Just another baseline for rob tactics.
Looking for the hoorawed white-knight responses here. Thanks.
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We had a user on here whose "system" with zero-extras dancers was opening negotiations at $1,000. He seemed to have a high success rate...
It comes down to whether or not a guy can afford (or wants to afford) the price at which a boundary becomes a negotiation.
It's also worth noting that a boundary could be weakened or reinforced based on the guy asking. I suspect that a guy who looks like George Clooney's body double will cross boundaries for less money.
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I know that we have many armchair lawyers here, but I'm really not going to be the guy who tests all the theories in an actual courtroom.
Your attitude comes across. It could be the reason for said boundaries.
I think pushing a woman or anyone into anything is wrong.
Make it their idea and go with it. If a woman is attracted to you and you give her an opportunity she will go for it.
If a hooker rejects you then something is wrong with you
SJG
Can I get an example Icee?
But you see that if you treat the strip club dancer like you would any other girl, it can be just like a first date, instead of just being a mark who gets separated from his money.
SJG
Wicker Park School of Rock
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oLrQ_oDC…
After things are well along and it is time for your own pants to come down, then you invite her to the back room.
SJG
A.k.a,
Manipulating women to do things they aren’t comfortable doing with money
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This is yet another reason why I detest LDs in general, on top of their general pointlessness. Having to sit there and think about how I can and can't touch the girl for 3 minutes is unnatural and more than a little annoying. I'd much rather tip a sexy girl barside than pay her to sit in my lap and gyrate a bit. If I'm going to end up touching her, I want the full package, not some half ass contact experience.
In any case, if a dancer were to use boundaries as a negotiating tactic, I don't want to play that game. Play enough of those games and you almost certainly will become a toxic person. Many people seem to gladly embrace being toxic, but I'm not one of them.
Ilb, Toxic how? And to whom?
I almost always pre-choreograph first-time LD/VIP, and find out her limits.
Maybe I just like the term 'limits' better. Boundaries sounds more flexible? (fuck dg, semantics? really?)
Dunno, I'm pretty faded right now. lulz
agreed doc. plus being cucked by the robs to appear chivalrous.
you're being played sons.
you're being played sons."
Comparing normal employment situations, including increasing pay to incentivize an employee to assume additional responsibilities, with pushing for additional access to a girl's private parts is comparing apples to bananas.
If a girl tells me that she doesn't want to do xyz with me, I'll usually take her at her word. There are more than enough other girls willing to do whatever I want for the right price that I don't feel the need to haggle with one who's showing signs of discomfort.
CACAPLOP RULZ AND KNOW ALL. BWAHAHAHA
But if you were a movie star, they'd be doing anything with you.
So you can't argue with them, you've just got to understand that all of their limits are completely subjective.
You just have to learn to approach them and get under their skin. So DATY is important, but the real key is always FRMOS. Don't take then into any back room until this is happening.
SJG
If only you could be so open-minded about what other guys want out their strip club visit.
to person, mood, money, and neccesity.
thanks sjg.
SJG
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If a woman wants you you don't have to push anything she let's you know.
"Make it their idea and go with it."
from sjg
"orchestrate things so that they give it up"
youse seem to agree on that anyway.
You don't have to do much when she wants it.
That's different from pushing her or coercing her
lulz
You just learn to work it so that she is completely giving it up for you
SJG
Sasha Allen, Gimme Shelter
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=clGX_J19…
boundaries are negotiables, bringing us back to the op.
now that sounds more like a woman.
i can live with that.
off to monger.
carry on.
SJG
Sasha Allen
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=clGX_J19…
Hey, it works with his goats, he's projecting that it might possibly work with women even though it didn't work with his EX wife!
SJG
Just like your EXXXXX wife?
You're talking about gfe. You called it that just a few years ago