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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
@rickdugan: "Actually I like when I have a good thing for a while. 5 years ago I would have given you a different answer, but nowadays when I have something simple and excellent I stick with it for a while."
This part. Before I met my ATF, I was a "variety is the spice of life" kinda guy, but others that I'd been seeing at the time gradually dropped off, and rather than picking up replacements, I starting seeing my ATF more instead. Since she passed, while there have been periods when no one really floated my boat and I was a slut, when I *do* find someone who treats me right, I tend to get in a rut with her until one or the other of us moves on. It's going on two years since I started seeing my current fav regularly, and while I do still go to clubs, and get an occasional BJ, I'm almost exclusive with her. And yes, she knows I do stray, but she's developed a knack for messaging "hey, want to come over" right before I go clubbing. 🤣🤣
I've likened her to "comfort food" before. She's not the spiciest, most thrilling sex I've ever had, but when we're done, I'm fully satisfied in the same way as I was for my wife and my ATF.
So, while strange will always have its appeal, I'm not gonna denial the appeal of long term "comfort food."
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2 years ago
Any sales person who does *not* approach customers is a low/no earner, regardless of industry.
As for how to make them go away, a simple "I'm not buying anything right now, I'll let you know if I change my mind" will suffice in the vast majority of situations. I've seldom found it necessary to actually be rude, even if they don't take the hint the first time.
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2 years ago
Is that where those posts are from? I wondered what was going on.
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
@rickdugan: "I know that some of the USASG guys would be booing me right now if I posted it there"
Been there, done that, because I've made the mistake of telling someone how much I paid someone. He was pissed because I'd priced him out of her market. Like yours, she was gorgeous, blonde, skinny, giant perky tits, perfect skin. Exactly his type, and he'd been trying to get with her for ages, and was actually about to when I managed it. Then I "vastly overpaid" her, as he put it, and suddenly she wasn't interested in him. 😂🤣
For my part, it's not just because I feel bad for low-balling a really sweet, skilled, enthusiastic provider. It's paid dividends in the past with regard to getting her to answer when I message, instead of not.
Unfortunately, she's gone now, moved to SF for a really well paying job, so I haven't seen her in a couple of years, though she's still on my FB.
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2 years ago
There's a local massage place that apparently employed a couple of trans women, and for quite some time. Was all over the local USASG boards for a while. What surprised me the most was that all the complainers never seemed to notice one thing. If nobody was going to see those women, they wouldn't remain there making no money. And I don't buy the "they tricked me" bullshit that some of the flamers tried, since the place's website had them, for a while anyway, clearly listed as trans.
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2 years ago
Also be aware that all the clubs in Louisville (with the possible exception of Wild Horse/Classy Lady; haven't been there in years) now have a cover charge of at least $5. Some are more, and PT's is a *lot* more the later you get there.
I personally wouldn't bother with Blue Diamond at all. Complete waste of time. Not even sure it's open anymore. The manager hasn't answered my texts in months.
Pussycat has a largely Hispanic clientele now. That's not intended to be a detriment, just something to consider. They're no worse fellow customers than anyone else, it's just that I've noticed that some people who don't speak Spanish aren't comfortable around people who speak almost nothing but... My personal problem with Pussycat these days is their tendency to hire "larger" women. There are still a few nice ones over there, though.
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2 years ago
The best era for hot girls is right now. And always will be right now, irrespective of what right now is.
I can't fuck women from the past.
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2 years ago
It might not be as fun as it was years ago, but things can be fun if you know where to look. If the girls don't recognize you, you might not see anyone naked.
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2 years ago
Three times in recent memory.
One, my pants are down, and she's blowing me. Waitress brings in her drink. Without even slowing down, she just points at the table.
Two, same club, different dancer sitting on my lap with my dick in her pussy, grinding back an forth, with my pants around my ankles,. Again, (same) waitress brings the drink, but announces herself this time, dancer says, "it's fine, I'm just sitting on his lap."
Three, different club, but I'm again seated with my pants down, dick in her mouth, when the waitress brings her drink.
Both were extras clubs, and nothing happened, except for the waitress was very helpful after that. Mostly because of the tip the dancer gave her.
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2 years ago
What drew said.
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2 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I find it useful, but only if the reviewer also includes details of drink, dance, and VIP prices. "I spent $" without context is meaningless except as a flex.
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2 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
@founder, the links in the emails I get are no longer actually links, they're just text. And the ones I get for someone reacting to a post only go to the top of the thread, not my actual post, like they used to do.
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2 years ago
@rickdugan: "The one type of guy I can't stand though is the desperate jerkoff who can't control himself long enough for a girl to free up or can't shift his attention elsewhere if he's on a clock."
Oh gods, completely agreed. Mind you, if it's someone I know and haven't seen in a while, I might wave and say hi, but I'm not interrupting. The vast majority of these dancers know how to get away from a customer if they want to. They don't need me giving them the stink eye.
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2 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
The fact that some people will find a way around *any* restriction in no way means founder shouldn't *try* to stop it, or at least slow it down.
Do you lock your car when you park at the mall? Lock your house when you leave? Same principle. *Most* people won't bother to try when the bother gets to a certain level.
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2 years ago
In my area, it's ABC, not vice. And they're more interested in the bar than the dancers or customers.
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2 years ago
You know why men like blowjobs so much, right?
Because it combines our two favorite activities: having sex and laying around doing nothing.
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2 years ago
I don't know about anywhere else, but here in my town, the presence or absence of "back room agreements" are known of by virtually all the dancers. I'd almost suggest reading the reviews for your destination on TUSCL and other sites like USASG. If it's not explicitly stated in reviews (and it often is,despite this site's guidance on not outing dancers), there are usually enough hints. You could *try* DMing frequent reviewers in your destination area, but I suspect that would be more likely to result in a proposition than useful info.
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2 years ago
@rick, here in flyover country, unless I'm at PT's, I've never had to use anything bigger than a 10. 🤣🤣🤣 And most of the time going to the stage and tipping standard, with "hey if you're interested in dances, come seem me" does the trick 4 times out of 5. The other one is she has a whale in tow and doesn't want to give it up until she's in the harbor.
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
@dogchain: "Everytime she txts you about it or asks you about it just give a two word answer until she gets it. 'Earn it'"
Nah. While a good many of these girls know the deal, there are a significant percentage who don't want to face that fact. On average, the latter are the kind of girls I want to spend time with, and saying the semantic equivalent of "hey whore..." isn't in my nature.
If you're not interested in the girls who don't think of themselves as hookers, then you do you. I'll continue to be circumspect about the whole thing.
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2 years ago
You'll likely get a split in responses, both from guys who believe that a dancer who doesn't approach isn't doing her job and doesn't deserve their business, to guys like me who regularly approach. For my own part, my time in a club is too short to be wasting it waiting for a possibly busy, possibly high, possibly drunk, possibly waiting for a regular, possibly having a bad day, possibly tired dancer to get around to talking to one more creepy old pervert in a club. Of course I'm going to approach someone I find interesting.
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2 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
Hmmm. This one is kinda tough for me. You've done pretty much everything I've ever asked for, and while some of those features haven't carried over from the old version, I would guess that's a "yet" thing. Things like the "last Comment" link from the main forum thread list not working.
I guess I'll just reiterate my desire for a better ignore, even though I know you consider the idea anathema. I'm not gonna be butt-hurt when you don't do it, but I'm gonna keep asking every time you solicit these kind of suggestions. 🤣😏
But there was one thing that used to work, and then stopped, and as far as I can tell, doesn't in the new version either. I keep the main forum list sorted by "last comment", and unfortunately, if the last comment was made by someone I've ignored, that thread moves to the top. Note that I'm not talking about when an ignored thread is authored by an ignored person; as far as I can tell, those don't show. So if possible, I'd like my forum view to be sorted so that ignored people aren't considered in the sort.
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2 years ago
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SpecialjBorn in NYC, conceived at Woodstock.
They have names?
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2 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
Supernatural
Burn Notice
Buffy the Vampire Slayer
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2 years ago
I'd def let her know, and I'd be showing the pics/vids I took of the incident. If she already knows, fine. If not, now she does, and she may do with the information as she pleases.
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
Been there, done that. Many times, maybe even most, it works out in my favor. Often it does not. Ya plays the game and ya takes ya chances. At least you didn't throw good money after bad, and she *does* know how to get more help, even if she doesn't want to right now.