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2 years ago
What shadowcat relates happened to me both times I was a Follies. In the clubs in Louisville, it's apparently a violation of some ABC reg, because I've literally never seen it happen in the 20+ years I've been going to local clubs. I heard of it happening once, and the dancer was fired almost as soon as she opened the door.
From the other side, Bottoms Up once has a restroom re-model and all the guys had to go into the dressing room to use the toilet. Talk about a disgusting mess. I didn't even want to touch the *wall*.
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2 years ago
No.
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2 years ago
Not planned, per se, but I have taken breaks. Sometimes it's just because I'm busy with other aspects of life, sometimes spending the money would be irresponsible, and sometimes it's just because I want to do other things.
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2 years ago
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minnowAny place that interests me.
I only have one bookmark; maybe that's why mine works.
Also, don't you think the "WTF" comment is a little harsh? I mean, it *is* all new functionality, or new implementations of existing functionality, so there's bound to be some glitches. Maybe it's because I've been a software developer for 40 years now, but it seems like a little consideration and patience might be in order.
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2 years ago
It really depends on what you're looking for in your sex worker. If you just want a no fuss nut or two, a reliable, well reviewed escort will certainly fill the bill. A good massage providers will give you a more "pampered" experience, even though it might be less common to get a full sex experience. A dancer who will do ITC or OTC is my own personal choice for reasons I and others have stated repeatedly over the years. The Seeking Arrangement site might provide yet another type of experience, more of a girlfriend thing.
Note that depending on your region, TER might or might not be the best option. For instance, in my area, USA Sex Guide is far more reliable than TER, simply because the escorts seem to have the ability to remove reviews they don't like, and far outstrips the reviews on escortbabylon, which are few and also disappear on occasion. On the other hand, I've searched some other areas on USASG where reviews in *any* category are *years* old.
You just have to look around and see what's going on with each service.
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2 years ago
@tjack128: "Is the new website moving towards a more VIP focus when it comes to viewing information on clubs?"
This site has gone back and forth on this issue several times since I've been posting. At one point you could read the first few lines of the latest review, then you might not be able to read anything again, then there was a time when you could read the latest review, then none again, etc., etc.
Given that the reviews are the bread and butter driving traffic to the site, I perfectly understand why founder tries different strategies to see what maximizes traffic and people actually writing reviews.
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2 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
Count me in the number who'd like to see my old posts and comments.
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2 years ago
It's pretty much a given that sex work will balloon in any mid to long term war zone. Whether it's because it's the easiest way to make money, or because it's the easiest way to extract intelligence from the enemy.
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2 years ago
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minnowAny place that interests me.
Hmmm, either it's been fixed or it doesn't happen for everyone for some reason. My link works.
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2 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
Liking the return to full width forum and thread listings. But even though the "Last X while ago" is now an actual link, it still doesn't go to the last post in the thread. I remember once long ago when this was because the last person to post was on my ignore list. I have no idea if that's the case now.
I presume the separation of closed clubs from open clubs into a secondary list by city was deliberate, and I like that too.
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2 years ago
She never thought she was good enough. Whether it was with regard to herself, or how she cared for the kids, or her job, she always measured herself against impossible standards. She'd improved greatly in the years I knew her, she still often though she fell short.
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2 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
@Dolfan, on the forum front page, I noticed that too. It works most of the time on the thread page itself, but there have been a couple of cases where it did not. Refreshing the page made it work.
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2 years ago
This was finally enough for ignore. See ya moron.
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2 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
The forum display seems to shrunk on my desktop. Even on the new site, it used to take up the entire browser window. Now it's only about 40%, and in the middle.
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2 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
No major issues that my casual perusal reveals yet, except the absence of PT's Louisville on the Kentucky page; it's listed in Clarksville, Indiana instead.
I'm kinda not liking the thumbs up and down all the way to the right. Less mouse movement if they were all on the left, I think.
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2 years ago
Ones, fives, and tens in my back pocket for my drinks and tips. Twenties and hundreds in my wallet for VIPs.
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2 years ago
Probably as a consequence of where I live and club the most, I'm OK with no nudity on the floor. For the most part, it doesn't matter to the level of fun I'm having. Obviously, I would absolutely prefer topless and nude, but it's not to be here, and I'm not willing to travel the hour and a half it would take me to drive to Lexington just for some tits. Not when I can see everything in VIP even here.
And since I don't drink when I'm out, if nude were only available with no alcohol, I'd be fine with that as well.
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2 years ago
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minnowAny place that interests me.
I don't remember ever getting a two girl dance in the club. Doesn't mean I didn't just that I don't remember it. It's been proposed a time or two, but as I tend to tell them, "I only have one lap to dance on.
OTC is a different question, of course.
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2 years ago
@Money: Good luck with that if you ever go to this club. Word will get around that you're a cheapskate. They'll take your money and give you the absolute minimum.
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
The site currently known as seeking.com used to be called seekingarrangement.com, or SA. Lots of people still just call it SA.
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
Subraman beat me to it. I would pay for the coffee/lunch/dinner/drinks, not the M&G itself. I would, on occasion, give her some extra if she "was cool" and I got the impression that it would sway her decision.
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
My one experience with SA was similar to your best ones. Hot as fuck petite redhead who could suck a basketball through a drink straw and just wanted occasional spending money. She understood what I was looking for, and I understood the desires she stated. It was great, until she had to move out of town. She says that if either of us visits the other, it's on for as long as the visit lasts.
I guess she kinda spoiled me on that site, because I gave up on it a few months after she left. Even though, as rick states, it's not too difficult to weed out the fakes, scammers, and pros after a while, it's *still* tedious as hell. And while Louisville is a relatively small market, Cincinnati, Indianapolis, Nashville, and St. Louis are bigger, and there seems to be a lot of spillover, and a lot of them were in the undesirable group. Even though my profile says that I'm inactive and unlikely to change that, I *still* get favorited and messages by accounts from those places, and those are almost certainly fake or pic sellers or other people I'm not interested in. It was jut no longer worth the time investment for me, not to mention the subscription cost for the "privilege" of wading through message after message of "hey wanna buy my pics" and "I read in your profile that you don't want a platonic relationship, but I thought you might make an exception for me" bullshit.
Within a week of quitting SA, I was back in the clubs more frequently and had plenty of prospects.
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2 years ago
🥺😔
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2 years ago
I gave her a household item that she really went gaga over. Less than fifty bucks, and it was exhausting. She flat wore me out. 🤣🤣
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2 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
Too bad it's not retroactive...