OT: FATHER DAUGHTER SON IN LAW QUESTION
rattdog
New York
over the years of being on this site i have noticed that there are several guys here that have daughter(s). so i'll ask the question at the end.
say you have a daughter who is married to a guy i'll call j. they've been married for let's say 2-3 years. j is a good catch. earns 7 figures through a few business ventures. provides real well as the meals and all materials purchased are the direct opposite of the word suck. owning a mclaren 720S is an example of that along with a real nice house you poppy never ever mind stepping inside to. j treats her like a princess. as a father there is no other better guy for your baby girl princess.
one day you're at dunkin donuts/starbucks that's located at some shopping center to buy a cup of whatever. after the purchase you sit by the window. you then see a blue mclaren parked say 200 feet away. you check the license plate. what do you know? it's j's car.
moments later you see j walking with some blonde with a hooters t-shirt and they're heading to his car. hes' got his arm around her. once they get to the car they make out for 10-15 minutes. then they get inside the car. 15-20 minutes later hooters gets out of the car. she's wiping away her mouth with her wrist. i'd say that yeah more than likely j had his DNA imprinted all over her fuckable face, and there were probably no napkins in the car.
question: as a father how would you react?
say you have a daughter who is married to a guy i'll call j. they've been married for let's say 2-3 years. j is a good catch. earns 7 figures through a few business ventures. provides real well as the meals and all materials purchased are the direct opposite of the word suck. owning a mclaren 720S is an example of that along with a real nice house you poppy never ever mind stepping inside to. j treats her like a princess. as a father there is no other better guy for your baby girl princess.
one day you're at dunkin donuts/starbucks that's located at some shopping center to buy a cup of whatever. after the purchase you sit by the window. you then see a blue mclaren parked say 200 feet away. you check the license plate. what do you know? it's j's car.
moments later you see j walking with some blonde with a hooters t-shirt and they're heading to his car. hes' got his arm around her. once they get to the car they make out for 10-15 minutes. then they get inside the car. 15-20 minutes later hooters gets out of the car. she's wiping away her mouth with her wrist. i'd say that yeah more than likely j had his DNA imprinted all over her fuckable face, and there were probably no napkins in the car.
question: as a father how would you react?
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Not a dad of daughters so I can't really answer, but I can ask, did you ever step out on your daughter's mom?
It’s hard to morally judge someone when you’re not being “moral” yourself.
So, as the dancer leads him into VIP by the hand he passes his father-in-law, who is being led out of VIP by another dancer. They clearly see each other, react with dumbstruck shock/shame, but don't engage at all.
Later, they chose a path of many awkward months of never talking about or acknowledging the encounter.
I think it's easy for guys to advocate an egalitarian, non-hypocritical approach to the son-in-law when it's an abstract situation and you don't have a daughter.
That said, I think a lot of guys who actually have daughters would put on their hypocrisy pants with a belt and suspenders and kick the son-in-law in the nuts until he pissed out of his eyes.
The only hesitation would be as to whether or not busting the little turd would be a net gain or loss to my kid.
be at ease as no i am not a member of any sort of moral police department. the scenario i brought up - my response would be: hey j i get it. we're guys and we're wired a certain way to do the things that we do. does your hooters girl have any friends? if yes think you and hooter can set something up as i also wanna play? the daughter doesn't need to know shit. i would like to think that j and i are already establishing some sort of this secret thingy of ours.
here's the main point as to why i brought all this up: i was watching some panel on youtube and a guy was saying he was ok if the son in law cheated. i was going, "da fuck? really? no fucking way." i always thought the common response would be a bat or gun to the head or hiring a private eye to gather as much evidence to go to divorce court and take the son in law to the cleaners. so i was wondering how other fathers with daughters would react
Maybe that’s the first red flag - a guy living beyond his means - who is attracted to extravagant cars and eats at a Hooters regularly?
I am a father of daughters and I would have a talk with that guy. It would be direct and simple. He drops the side pieces, sells the sports car, gets STD tests for the next few years, allows me to track his cell locations, and never says a word of this to my daughter. If he scoffs at that proposal, he would be a fool. I wouldn’t tell my daughter, but I know that women are far more insightful than guys (especially guys thinking with their dumb stick).
If my daughter is being taken care of financially, I think it’s fine to let her know what you saw and let her decide. That’s what I would do, but I would also tend to confront the son in law first to gauge his reaction and let him know the score.