Blowies

3/2/2023 5:27:56 PM

Til recently I would have never chosen to receive a BJ over FS. I think for the most part it was always just part of foreplay. It was just the warm up for fs. And mostly I just enjoyed fucking so much.

Probably a component of my experience was that my real life wives and girlfriends have never been fans of performing oral. And in retrospect, most weren't very good at it compared to my recent SA and ITC encounters.

I will say, I've never minded CFS but I really don't enjoy CBJ. I don't mind the typical Inkster foreplay of a little CBJ before CFS.

Recent encounters have me rethinking my approach. I've found a new appreciation.

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georgmicrodong

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2 years ago

You know why men like blowjobs so much, right?

Because it combines our two favorite activities: having sex and laying around doing nothing.

shadowcat

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2 years ago

It's easier and safer to get a BBBJ rather than a BBFS.

Call.Me.Ishmael

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2 years ago

#whynotboth

drewcareypnw

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2 years ago

I have recently begun the move from my go-to chj (yes I know this is eccentric) to cbj. Not 100%, but incrementally. It is a 50/50 mix wrt these services at the moment. The quality ranges widely from provider to provider. There are the dancers who are “doing you a favor” with a little momentary blowie action before getting to whatever main event, and there are also experienced pros who can DT gobble a cock and suck the paint off of it. I have had one of each this week, and must say that the latter is pretty impressive in comparison.

I kept wondering, “where did it go?”

Warrior15

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2 years ago

It all depends on if the girl knows what she is doing . Some have the technique and some don't .

3131

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2 years ago

@shadowcat bbbj safety is pretty well documented for the blow-ee. The blower assumes a little more risk.

3131

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2 years ago

ITC I'd say at least 90% of dancers who I've negotiated fs will start with a cbj. Many put the condom on that way with their mouth.

SA dates are 90% start with a BBBJ then progress to cfs.

Mate27

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2 years ago

Do you know why stripper boyfriends don’t like blow jobs?

Answer: they don’t like any jobs!

JimGassagain

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2 years ago

^^ bippitty boppitty bacon!!

Mike Rotch

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2 years ago

Oh man you've been missing out. Get yourself a girl who will let you fuck her throat. Best feeling! There are girls who don't know how to suck. I've had some that felt more like handjobs, zero tongue action. But a throat pro can make her mouth feel even better than her pussy or ass.

bang69

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2 years ago

It's cfs or just a few dances. Then on to the then stripper.

Tetradon

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2 years ago

What Mike said.

Sex, you know how it's going to be, and it's going to be pretty good. A blow job has a broader range of outcomes, it can be a harrowing or otherworldly experience.

rattdog

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2 years ago

several years ago a girl approached me and tried to convince me to take a vip with her. she grabbed my hand and decided to blow on one of fingers to demonstrate her bj skills. i gotta tell ya my dick momentarily became jealous of that finger. unfortunately i was unable to accept the offer, as the lord above decided that she be facially challenged. think a younger version of cat lady wildenstein.

Studme53

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2 years ago

Remember your first blowjob?

How long it take to get the taste out of your mouth?
Paulie Walnuts
2001

Cashman1234

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2 years ago

Calling a blow job a blowie makes the OP sound like a juvenile.

When you find a dancer who knows how to suck cock, it can change everything. There are some girls who make it feel incredible and the orgasms are intense.

Cashman1234

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2 years ago

Mate27 - that’s a great joke! Lol!

drewcareypnw

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2 years ago

@cash oh man, now I am questioning my term for hand jobs: handys.

Studme53

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2 years ago

For some reason, me and my buddies referred to it as getting “blowed” instead of “blown”. Is that just an Philly region thing?