Comments by JMelbourne27

If a Private Investigator is hired, you are basically busted. Any investigator worth his salt can get an enormous amount of dirt on you very quickly. Not only can he GPS everything from your shoes to your underwear (yes I am serious) but he can dig up info on you all the back to that girl-in-high school who you got pregnant who then had the miscarriage (or adoption, ect.). It all depends on how much she is willing to spend and how much she has available. The more she spends the more she'll know. She can have your Cell Phone bugged so that everything it hears is recorded to a website whether it's on or off. The only limit is how good the P.I. is and how much she's willing to spend.

They canceled it because "...some players objected to playing in front of naked people." ARE THEY SERIOUS!?!?!? BAHAHAHHHAHAHAH!!!! Ok, a LINGERIE model OBJECTS to NUDITY!?! WTF?! Wait, wait, wait, let's start over here LINGERIE models objected to playing football in front of naked people......does anyone ever feel like you're living in Bizarro World where things don't always make sense? Next thing I'm going to hear is that Strippers have formed a national union and are refusing to dance in front of people with clothes on. One stripper is quoted as saying, "If I have to get naked then he does too!" LoL! Actually wait, that makes more sense than this does... AHHA! Football players refuse to play in front of 'scantily clad cheerleaders' because they are 'distracting and unprofessional.' Dangit! That actually makes a lot of sense too...

I'm young and I LIKE glitter on girls, tons of it, and I LIKE the 'pile of chemical around your eyes' i.e. eye liner, so it just depends on your preference. I saw an emo girl stripper once, guys she wasn't left alone the entire night. I think it was because she wasn't acting like a bitch, she was just being herself and she was cute and nice, which goes a LONG way with guys.

I have to agree with you. Places like strip clubs attract certain elements to them. Instead of dealing with the problem, i.e. actual police work, the police are sent off on wild goose chases like marijuana and enforcing racial quotas. Police are there to Protect the People, that is IT, but more and more they are being used to accomplish political goals or to protect the Rich from the Poor people they are using. For the record tho, there are still a lot of good Cops despite all the bad ones and the people who burned this girls alive will probably end up 'resisting arrest' and getting shot.

mmdv26: Holy shit dude that could be YOUR kid! Holy shit... Gridget: While I was in Mexico the News was spewing about a Prostitution ring all across Mexico. These girls were targeting rich American Business men, fucking them and then poisoning and robbing them in their sleep. But some of the men were tied up, tortured/fucked/tortured/fucked in order to mind-screw them submission, giving all the bank account info, passwords, ect to Everything they own. I think the cops killed a lot of them, but it was a huge and well organized ring...

I'm not sure who all's been there, but unlike a lot of the cretins that post here I am someone of discerning taste. Often you will hear someone from here go on and on about how GORGEOUS his latest lay/stripper/ect was, but when I meet her in person/see a pic I barely rate her as a 5... I prefer East Europeans and South American girls, but I will say that Adelitas DOES have some 8s. When you're in the room with them you HAVE to tell them what to do or most of them will get lazy and try to Dictate to you. Do NOT let them do that. You TELL THEM HOW it is going to be, Negotiate as much as possible UP FRONT, and if they deviate, tell them that you paid for the room for an hour and you can just go down and pick out another girl if they don't like it. But say it in a nice way and hold the $$$ in your hand while doing so. But yes, there are some VERY solid 8s at Adelitas and on slow nights you can DOUBLE UP on the 8s!!! Especially if you take a shower together. All boobs and slippery and soapy, OH MY! If you're looking for 10s your best bet is following Shadowcat's advice. He's somewhat of an expert, but there is some REAL talent in these strip clubs and don't believe the hype. Offer a stripper $60 for an hour in a room and she'll usually do it. In fact, most of the Private areas in the strip clubs are WELL WORN from the anything-goes action...

Tanga was closed after Road Construction years ago. There are no clubs in Tampa that offer 'extras.' There are strippers who have favorite clients that offer 'extras,' but every one I have ever talked to has a certain methods to ensure that you are not LEO. The LEO vice of most cities is so corrupt I'd wager $100 that EVERY SINGLE Vice officer in the US has paid for sexual contact (NOT on duty) at least ONCE in his lifetime, and if Sex isn't his Vice, it's probably something MUCH worse. You don't work Vice without getting mangled inside somehow, whether it's by what you see or the vices you come away with.

It could be that the girl has unfulfilled emotional needs and sitting with him fills them as well as fills her monetary needs because he is paying her to sit with him. Plus, if you could get paid to sit on your @$$ or dance and strip, which would you do?

What you have here is another example of 'Legislating Morality for the Masses' A teenage girl gets ARRESTED for sending a naked picture of herself to a boy who's already had sex with her, but Calvin Klein can PLASTER the WORLD(!!!) with pictures of teens in their underwear (For a while he had a 15 story picture of a teen in Lingerie in NY) and it is PERFECTLY REASONABLE, because afterall, Calvin Klein is 'ONE OF US.' He is one of the Elite's one of Ashcroft's Golfing buddies, one of Bush AND Obama's Whitehouse dinner guests. According to Psychology Today, Calvin Klein almost single-handled turned teenagers into sexual objects. Before Calvin Klein began his ad campaigns College Girls were considered the SEXIEST girls, but now it is 17 year olds (and younger for some). The problem with sexually objectifying teens in advertising is that you create a DISSONANCE between what is DESIRABLE and what is ACCEPTABLE. Your brain and the Law tell you TEENS are not acceptable!!! But the advertisements dangle the sexually objectified teens in front of your eyes and you SUBCONSCIOUS responds WITHOUT your consent. Calvin Klein did take his ads down for 1 year...in America. In Europe he spent 100% of the money he had planned for American Ad campaigns and the American Advertising Companies had a $#IT FIT in Washington. They started telling Congress people they would give their POLITICAL RIVALS FREE AIR TIME if they didn't help them. Hence, Calvin Klein is untouchable, despite the MOUNTAIN of evidence that he as much as CREATED the problem our society has with Pedophilia today.

I COMPLETELY agree with Clubber. I grew up in church and I am working on a Doctorate and there are SO many people on BOTH sides who get ANGRY with you just for not believing the way they do. So-called-Christians AND Atheists... Christians AND Atheists are trying to LEGISLATE morality when THAT is NOT what the laws were made for. They were simply made to Protect the RIGHTS of the people, not enforce Moral Viewpoints on Others.

I don't think it would be appropriate for a strippers 'clients' to be at her funeral...maybe if they were regulars and she confided in them?

Renting is going to be the Next Rags to Riches Real Estate Millionaires Infomercial. There are so many people with destroyed credit, and EVERYONE needs a place to stay. Add that to the THOUSANDS of homes that have now (and MORE) reverted to the bank. Well the bank CAN'T just sit on those, they have to CONTINUE to depreciate them until someone purchases them. Need for Housing + Falling House Prices = INVESTOR RICHES

HA! Yeah except that Nascar drivers get paid as Professional Athletes. I'd drive a Taxi in NY Rush Hour Traffic if it paid $50 Million a year.

In the Tampa Area Prices have DEF gone down. Some clubs are waiving Door Fees, drink prices are somewhat lower, and from what I hear girls are offering more for less. One girl said that more and more girls are going home empty handed, and another said she was going to have to start waitressing again to make ends. The economy will get better, it's just the BANKS that are not lending any money. People with PERFECT 740 Credit scores are having to put down 40% to buy a house. Perhaps that will just become the norm, so everyone is going to have to save up 40% of their dollars in order to purchase a house. What tha means thouh is that a house that is $100,000 a person will have to come up with $40,0000! That's going to take a while tfor people to save up that amount of cash...meanwhile, there are THOUSANDS of houses on the market. People are just going to start squatting in the empty houses, and the Banks are going to have to start hiring Security unless they start renting them out...but renting them out would help the economy too! It's just the banks SITTING on SO MUCH Currency and Hard Assets that is TRULY hurting our economy.

As much as I hate to Agree (I supported Prop K) I DO think that ANY measure that makes Prostitution must ALSO make Pimping HIGHLY ILLEGAL with a MINIMUM 5 - 10 Years Prison with NO POSSIBILITY of CAROL OR PROBATION (Fuck you, you POS Corrupt Eastern European Judges!) Prop K as it stood was not a Perfect Proposition BECAUSE it didn't make Pimping Illegal, so Kidnapping/Sex-Slave Trafficking would be rampant. There are Sex-Slaves in Tampa Florida. Next time you're at your Local Strip club, notice that BEAUTIFUL stripper who doesn't speak ANY English and consider how she got to America and passed the Visa Process without knowing English. She is most likely Illegal, was placed in the club by a pimp, AND for the right price, he will loan her to you for a few hours. Some of you will probably be happy to find this out, but I for one, will NEVER knowingly sleep with a women is not a FreeBorn. Karma everyone, she's a bitch, and she's in EVERY major religion. ALL of them.

ozymandias: CatholicSGs!!! YEAAA BOYEEE!!! I agree, catholic school girls are the HOTTEST and I don't even know why??? jablake: The only agnostic I've ever met was a PEDO who tried to drug me when I made the mistake of hanging out with him when I was younger... That being said, I DO agree with your view of the church, but there are MANY very good people in the church, and they usually mean well...usually...

It seems very strange that stripper would lecture you about Alcohol because the Clubs make $$$ off the Alc. Unless she considers you one of her Regs, then of course she will treat you like a friend or co-worker and tell you what she thinks. Honestly, I would RATHER have a stripper who is completely honest with me, because you really know where you stand with her, and friendship is all about 'caring' ;) Seriously though, I don't think strip-clubs environs should be as 'hospital' as they are. Strip clubs with too many rules are like loveless marriages and it's not good for anyone. Strippers make more money going the extra-distance, clubs attract more patrons that are more relaxed, and customers are happy with the experience when clubs aren't so strict. One day I'm going to create a Paradise-like club where girls make $$$$$, the club makes $$$$, and customer satisfaction is guaranteed. ;)

It is steady here in the Tampa area, but there is significant Job loss because Florida is supported by: 1. Tourism, 2. Old People, 3. Construction, 4. Importing Tourism is still booming, but it is almost all the International Crowd, Old People have slowed down moving to Florida because a lot of their pensions are hurting, Construction is essentially GONE from Florida, Imports are increasing. So overall the economy isn't as much declining as it is CHANGING. America MUST become an Energy Economy if we are going to continue our Dominance. Time Magazine wrote "The End of American Dominance" Well, if we can COVER Florida and Nevada with Solar Power Plants (and Our Homes!), COVER TX and OK with Wind Power Plants, and COVER our Deserts in Nuclear Power Plants and Oil Wells THEN we will see AMERICA RISE to heights NEVER BEFORE SEEN!!! Look at the cities that have grown the MOST in the last decade: Las Vegas(HydroDam), Dubai(AlmostFreeOil), Paris (SolarPower), and I could go on and on but I don't want to. LoL We HAVE to get a handle on this energy crap, nip it in the bud, turn it around on those other countries and start SELLING Energy to EVERYONE. We have the Intelligence, the Industry, and the Land! All we need is Tax Breaks for these Power Plants to get off the ground. And we need to keep Corruption OUT of these projects!!!

snowtime: I'm young and I HATE tats on a girl. Tats on a girl take a pretty, wholesome, attractive looking girl and turn her into a walking advertisement, a cheap-billboard. That being said, tattoos are permanent, piercings are painful and permanent, and according to a study I recently read girls who smoke cigarettes are 50% more likely to give you a BJ than girls who do not. Apparently cigarettes are associated with an oral fixation and deaden the taste-buds to a certain extent. So, all generalizations aside, there is most likely a link between smoking, tattoos, piercings, and BJs/Extras.

Book Guy is right, I will only pay the 'room fee' before hand, and any money I DO pay I consider it gone. After the room fee, I offer tips for whatever service I want afterwards, and if there services is unsatisfactory I tip BADLY. You've gotta make these girls stand correct and stop playing the fool. Dancerhusband: SOME girls will ask to SEE the money first, but if I don't completely trust the girl, she doesn't get to hold it. And if she isn't compliant then I get up in the middle, and start to leave. Most girls will stop you before you even get up. They don't want to get into trouble and they DO want your money. You guys just have to get your $#it together, tighten your game, and stop letting these girls rule you. I know a few dancers here and there and they actually RESPECT the men who know how to play the game, as long as those men pay well.

I use: http://www.watchtvsitcoms.com There are also a number of Free new programs that have just come out such as VUZE. And YouTube has a number of TV shows as well. I hardly ever watch TV on TV anymore, because it's just so damned inconvenient. lol

LoneLurker: Did you know her? Maybe she just needed some male attention or maybe she actually was interested in you?

I think the State Definition is the Most Appropriate Definition, and we all know how the state defines sex. I don't think Lap Dances are ANYTHING like casual sex unless the dancer is offering extras.

Thanks for the Answers! You are very enlightening, and I think (at least I hope) it helps a lot of people here to see that strippers are people with feelings and not just sex puppets to be discarded. There's another Stripper who sometimes weighs in on stuff under the name Banana I think. You mentioned Tampa. What clubs have you worked at in Tampa?

I'm pretty sure it makes her a Prostitute if he's paying her, Whore's give it away for free.