Comments by brewerfan (page 3)

I'll be honest, I get suprised overall by the descriptions of the lap dances. Some states in the US vary big time. I read about guys getting full service, BJs,two way touching, etc. So the ratings depend on where you live and its limitations.

I think that's the problem. I think that she got a better deal with someone else with money mentioned afterwards with you. Also, I never heard of free lappers. Why were they free? It sounds like that you didn't give her much direction on what the night was gonna be like.

I have a couple of more ideas as I, too, confront this problem. If you are at the bar having a drink and a girl comes and sits to talk to you for a while, excuse yourself and tell them that you're going to the stage to tip the girls. That always works. Here's another helpful hint. Most of the time, the girls will ask permission to sit by you; if this happens and you really don't want her to, then tell them you are waiting for someone else. They will leave. My worst problem is them asking me if I want a dance and I say no, not right now. Then they ask why not. Fuck, I hate that. What I wanna say is, "I really dont want one from YOU at all. But, I take it easy and say Im waiting for someone else. There is a couple of hints without being rude at all.

Almost every woman that I know, has a tatoo somewhere on there body. It's hard to find a woman without one actually. The most common spot on a girl that I know is the lower back area, near the waist. I am not a tatoo person myself, but a tat here and there isn't gonna kill me. It's more likely, in the norm, nowadays.

People are getting their taxes done at this time of year. That'll get people out to clubs and everywhere else.

I will agree with you completely!! To me, high mileage should mean getting most of everything without it being illegal. Now, when you hear OTC, otside the club, that is illegal; when you hear FS, meaning fulls service, meaning fucking a guy, that is illegal; when it comes to BJs in the club, that is illegal; do guys get away with it, yes! as far as the girls, do they get away with it--that answer depends on whether they are in jail or not. Honestly, there's more to life than sex!! can't believe im saying that!!

Years ago, I got a free dance from a girl. I was walking around the place and all of sudden a girl grabs me by the arm and tells me to come with her. As we walked back to to the private dance room she tells me that she wanted to give me a dance on her. I didn't know who she was at the time, but I did get the free dance. I started to take my wallet out to give her a tip and she reminded me that she has this one. I did manage to give her a nice tip, which she accepted. After the dance, I looked around to see if anyone sitting around was someone I knew, but, nope, I didn't recognize anyone. So, the dance really was on her. I have no idea why, and that was the only time that this has happened.

don't get too excited! Be cool!!

Well, you also forgot, do you have a lifetime membership pass to your ATF club. lol!!

NO shorts allowed? WTF? Are you kidding me? Even in the summer when it's 95 degrees outside? They honestly expect you to wear pants? Wow, that's crazy.

Wow, $50Ks. I have no idea how to respond to that. I mean, you have got to be kidding me if you spend that much on a girl over a weekend.

Stayed home. Super Bowl is once a year. Strip clubs are 365 days/yr. I'll be watching the game at home with no distractions.

She's a fucking stripper!! She'll tell you anything you wanna hear to make you feel good about yourself!!

Never believe everything someone tells ya!! How much did you give her after she said that to you?

If you can't go 8 hours a day without looking at porn, you got a problem. Internet exploring is usually banned in almost every workplace now, unless its work related, of course. But porn, by no means is work related. You just lost a job over a pair of boobs, lol!! Silly!!

Steve, before I could read the rest on your topic, I was gonna say, that sounds like she has ocd written all over her. Does she fold her skirt in squares while a song you're paying for is playing? If so, it sounds like she's buying time. Or, perhaps, she does have ocd. I know about ocd, cuz i kinda have it myself. Now, as far as snowtime, yes, you are exactly right about repetition as far as their dances are. I noticed that in all girls that I've had repeat dances. Some are great and some are good. So, those dances don't mind continuing them with that particular dancer. And tip them even more than the last time. But for god's sake, don't do another dance with a dancer that gave you complete air, cuz she'll repeat that same type of dance.

My question about that is, "What's the catch in the dancer talking during the dance?" I mean, there has to be a reason behind it. Are they trying to keep you from following the song in hopes of them getting you to do another song without notice? Or, do they want them to get you to concentrate on what they are saying instead of their nakedness? I dunno, just kind of weird.

I totally agree with gatorfan. I think that the dancer outta do the negotiating. I mean, how do you really know if the customer really has the funds. And if they are gonna be steeper than other dancers, they outta let them know that ahead of time. After all, it's her pay. Seriously, what happens if you don't have the full amount that they require. Now the question is, "Is that what the dancer requires, or is it was the club requires?" Next time there is a discretion in dance prices, go see the bouncer/cashier for a final answer.

Don't ever think that a stripper is a normal girl. AT least not inside the club. Think about it, they're there to make money, not friends. Trust me, strippers have plenty of friends. Sometimes I think that strippers have a right to snap-- look at the way we treat them for cryin' out loud. Yes, it's their choice to do what they do, but sometimes they'd appreciate a little respect too. Besides, didn't you ever have a bad day at work? Give her another chance.

2 girls and a guy sitting on a beach and blowing a smoke. Big fuckin' deal! Do you not get out much stripclubsy?

And the reason that you are on this site is because you.....?

I use my own computer. I can't even check my facebook account at work cuz it's blocked. And besides, I don't want HR to know what my personal sites are, for the can see that!! I think that I can wait til I get home.

Shadowcat, you're really starting to piss me off!! Dancers don't have computers? What era are you even coming from? Gosh, Shadow, can you please say that dancers are computer-illiterate any more? Many dancers that I know are very smart and very intelligent! And yes they have computers. Smarter than me even sometimes!! They know what's going on, at least here in Wisconsin!! You pay their goddam phone bill cuz they know that you will. See, smart!! They are a girl, just like any other girl!! You're the one that's nieve!! I mean, when you die, do you really think that they will show up at your funeral?

Gross!! Totally gross!! Who the hell want to see a prego dancing on stage? I don't. And i would feel bad for the infant inside her. The damage that she risks to her own child!! Makes you wonder what kind of mother she'd be after the kid is born. Scary!