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15 years ago
Book Guy - you bring up the woman who travels also - which reminded me of something I read. That women marry the nice stable guy but play with the mysterious stranger full of intrigue. So even if you married that babe, she would be making you a cuckold anyhow.
You want to get laid - lie to them. Be the mysterious adventurer guy.
I also have had my collection of loser bitches full of addictions, car wrecking, and gold digging. I don't know if it is women or this culture.
I have stopped going to strip clubs. I figure I can be frustrated with money in my pocket as well as without money in my pocket. So I lurk here basically to flock with my own kind. I have come to accept it whether by choice or circumstance.
I will say I have been looking forward to a Vera Farmiga nude scene for a long long long time and finally got to see one!
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15 years ago
It's hard to be ROBbed when one has low expectations. Which should be the moment of the mind when dealing in this business.
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15 years ago
Don't you worry little lady, I'll protect ya.
Men are their own worst enemies.
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15 years ago
To stupid to know the right thing for her until its to late.
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15 years ago
Only cell phone companies have less customer service than strip clubs.
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15 years ago
Plenty of them are intelligent. Doesn't mean they don't have a screw loose someplace though. (Same can be said of us.)
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15 years ago
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Book GuyI write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
If you are blowing money on stuff that doesn't make you happy - that is a problem.
If you are emotionally stuck in a rut and want to get out - that is a problem too.
If you don't know how to interact with people outside of the protocol of "Wanna dance" "Yea, sure" - that is a problem.
It sounds to me like you have a slight if not big time sex addiction thing going on. A little more can be had here http://www.slaafws.org/40questions to determine what might be going through your mind.
SA isn't about having sex all the time - it's replacing something else - or multiple something elses - with the high one gets from the 'mones running through your blood.
Sometimes, it is simply social laziness - which I admit I have. I'm not willing to put the effort into some social aspects.
And maybe it is a touch of social anxiety. Like I said, a strip club has a specific social protocol. Everyone knows what is expected and what is not. What is to be talked about and what is not. Out in the open - the randomness of the interaction can be dizzying and confusing.
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15 years ago
Hopefully there is no church or sanctuary there - often there are laws about how close a strip club can be to a church.
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15 years ago
If you were giving the other girl money, you were her customer.
And men complain about women giving mixed signals. :)
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15 years ago
I agree Dudester, no money = no consent. As a man and especially a member of the system, he should have known the risks he was taking.
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15 years ago
They will have to. No chance to strike in the New World.
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15 years ago
Nice, but, I am not married. I do ditch clubbing when I have a regular girlfriend though.
Anyhow, God certainly gifted that cheating diabolical murderous King David with plenty of rewards. Obviously it has little to do with behavior. Job is a play thing with Satan and God - and when he dares ask why he is cursed so, God rebukes him with something along the lines of "who the fuck are you to ask me such questions."
Instead of relying on some old book a lot of people take no heed of, why don't you stand on your own two feet and call it how you see it.
I don't go clubbing when I have a girlfriend because I know it will hurt her feelings. I know it will cause drama. I know that I can get a lot more emotional kick out of it. I know that I am getting a best friend I can confide in. I know no one is talking shit about me in the dressing room. I know I am being treated better for who I am instead of what I can give.
There are a fuck load of reasons not to go clubbing, but hollering brimstone and fire isn't one of them. Have some fucking guts man and don't rely on a God who gifted freedom of choice anyways.
There is nothing wrong enjoying a little female pleasure.
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15 years ago
Someone once said "You pay strippers to make them go away!"
Before sharing any banking shit with a girl, she has to go through a lot tougher interview questions than getting laid!
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15 years ago
Everyday I am thinking flash mob strip clubs will be the next thing. Temporary sites set up that can be left behind if the police come streaming in. Use the internet to build social organizations of dancers and customers, alert them in half an hour where the party is, and go hog wild for about six hours.
As the star wars fanboys like to say: The more you tighten your grip, Tarkin, the more star systems will slip through your fingers.
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15 years ago
Noting Phillip's picture and your reply, I have to admit I busted out laughing! Excellent retort, sir, excellent retort!
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15 years ago
Why is this important?
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15 years ago
Lopaw's purpose is to change the subject. Let us not discuss women becoming violent/destructive and their victims subjected to a double standard under the law.
Slash his car tires and paint vile messages on it? Ha ha! Internet joke!
Hit or stab him with a weapon? He's a man. He can take it. And no, he has no right to break her jaw defending himself. That's domestic violence!
No. Lets keep the agenda correct!
Hell, attacking Woods, wrecking his property, and getting a divorce, she will probably take him for half of what he is worth.
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15 years ago
I would open a regular club. Then after a year, add strippers. Running a regular club, will probably widen your access to women with less 'tude anyhow.
Studio 54 became "the thing" because it paid some of the more interesting characters to come in (shills basically). That beget more who came in on their own. Same could be done with babes.
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15 years ago
Besides, I think these programs are making people more racist. They become more aware of how some classes of people are better protected by the system than they themselves are.
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15 years ago
So what if there is an "incident report." Be concerned only when they try to act to prevent something. Less concerning than a parking ticket if you ask me. The paper they are most interested in - yea - that green kind.
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15 years ago
Some DJs go past annoying and into being flat out insulting. They attempt to insult the customers into spending more which for me had the exact opposite effect.
DJs should do only the following:
Announce the dancer.
Thank the dance.
Remind people of the rules.
Remind people dancers paycheck and only work for tips.
(I wouldn't mind knowing what some of the songs are.)
If they want to tell a joke that's OK too I guess.
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15 years ago
pink taco, cock holster, gate to heaven
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15 years ago
You will go back and find it very different or you are different and pretty much feel like a stranger in a weird way. Then recognize all the old bullshit is still the old bullshit and head off to do what you have done all this time outside the club.
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15 years ago
Bingo Chandler. Dating real girlfriends is work.
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15 years ago
How much more lazy can a girl get? Not even strip while being a stripper?