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9 years ago
I think that you're overthinking it. Just an routine question from a stripper in a stripclub. No biggie.
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9 years ago
Oh sweet jesus!
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9 years ago
Definitely- boob play & feeding,FOV,LFK,play outside pants
Often- all above, plus DATY, DFK, play inside pants
Sometimes-all above plus FIV
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9 years ago
Wow. Sounds like a complete fucktard.
There ain't a magazine rack big enough to hold all of his issues.
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9 years ago
Boobs and a va jay jay, for starters.
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9 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
in order:
- attractiveness of dancers
- lap dance quality (separate from "extras")
- availability of extras
- hours clubs are allowed to be open
- location of city (airport access, easy to get to, etc.)
- club expenses (cover charge, drinks, tipping, etc.)
- cost of lap dances / extras
- safety of city (crime rate, safety of club)
don't care too much about anything else
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9 years ago
Yeah...I miss him like a colon polyp.
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9 years ago
From jerikson: I don't know why every woman on the planet doesn't conform to my ideal of how a woman should look and act. Right guys? And I find lesbians particularly threatening.
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9 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
My pleasure, Diva!
It is kinda funny & ironic- by law you must be allowed to enter a business, but once you are in there all bets are off as to if anyone will give you the time of day!
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9 years ago
The hunky Indian actor, or the former OLB for the Cardinals?
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9 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
@ilbbaicnl - totally agree about the couples thing (where's seaboardrr when you need him?). Couples definitely have it tougher than single people of either gender in getting attention. I have had many conversations with dancers about that, and many of them just don't want to risk any drama, so they avoid them. It's a shame that the good couples suffer because of it. This lesbian couple sounds like they also had that working against them. But it also sounds like they weren't proactive at all. We don't know if they are newbies or SC vets, tho I get the impression that they are not regulars.
@carlos- it seems like the "disgusting old men" comment was said out of anger, but it was definitely unnecessary and uncalled for. If they had that kind of attitude upon setting foot inside the club, then their ugly vibe was probably palpable and its no wonder that the dancers stayed away.
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9 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
@ilbbaicnl - remove "lesbian" and "girl-girl" in your last paragraph and you've described just about every customer, male or female, in the club.
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9 years ago
I think that pensionking's prediction is more likely.
Besides if SHE's president then the interns better be blowing HER!
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9 years ago
@seaboardrr - that last paragraph of yours is priceless, and probably closer to the truth than we dare imagine.
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9 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I don't know what's confusing you, motorhead.
If you walk into a car dealership, not every salesperson will approach you. They don't have to if they don't want to. They'll likely get some shit from their manager if they don't approach at least some people....but if they want to sit at their desk all day and stay off of the showroom floor it isn't breaking any law. And while not every salesperson will approach you, you must be permitted to enter that dealership under ordinary circumstances. Same principle in a stripclub.....or any sales job for that matter.
And like you mentioned - for every type of person out there, there are dancers that won't dance for them. I stopped caring why a long time ago.
Capeesh now?
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9 years ago
According to my straight friends - women care very much about looks. They will NEVER be irrelevant.
Personally, I am a superficial pig (pigette?) and care alot about a woman's appearance. When I used to date guys, I was super picky with them & they had to have a certain look or it wasn't gonna happen. Whenever i see a hot girl with a dumpy guy the first thing i think is - he feels like he won the lottery, and she's taking full advantage of everything that he's willing to spend on her until someone better (looking) comes along.
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9 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I had to laugh, Papi, because guess where I was when I read this thread? Yup - in a stripclub!
But unlike my poor lesbian sisters, I was getting lots of attention :)
While I can certainly sympathize with their plight, like sclvr5005 said we all have felt the sting of being ignored at some time or other. And while it is nice to have the dancers approach you, sometimes you just gotta get up off your ass and approach them. I have often found that my first time visit to a club is more of a scouting mission - for both me & the dancers. Sometimes I get dances, sometimes not. On subsequent visits I will often be approached by dancers who saw me on my first visit, but were too intimidated to ask me for a dance. Once I buy a few dances with them, word gets around quickly. It's amazing how word about your spending habits gets circulated in the DR and suddenly you are the life of the party.
These 2 gals being a "couple" definitely didn't help things much. As a lone female I get way more attention than I ever would if I was part of a couple, either a female/female or male/female one. That's just the way it is. At least a couple of dancers approached them. I hope for their sake they were spending some cash and at least tipping the stage. If they sat there like bumps on a log all pissed off and not tipping it would have just exacerbated the problem. My advice to them would be to go back again, and talk to the 2 dancers that did approach them and buy some dances from them. Ask those 2 dancers if they know of any others who might be interested in dancing for them. Be proactive!!!
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9 years ago
Yeah I feel it, td. ;)
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9 years ago
@mikeya02- the recent SC decision was historic. The white house (along with the rest of the nation) was merely acknowledging it. I'm sure that by the time I write this the white house lights will be back to normal. Gay folk don't often get such nice gestures. Let us enjoy.
@tumblingdice- thanks for your LGBT support.
Ironically I also got a friend request from a tumblingdice. We're you ever a participant on RuPauls Drag Race ?
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9 years ago
The liberals already have the rainbow vote. They don't need to "pander" to the believers.
But you all believe what you want to.
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9 years ago
No.
It's showing love & solidarity.
Same reason a ton of folks, gay & straight, have rainbowed their profile pics.
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9 years ago
OK....crossing Vermont off of list of possible places to move to. EVER.
But that review is awesome!
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9 years ago
Normally hell no....but I'll make an exception for her.
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9 years ago
I worry about this constantly.
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9 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
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