Comments by lopaw (page 8)

@lopaw - "Common sense" and silent "understanding that what happens in the club stays in the club" is what I would sort of define as the bro code. Since I'm not a "bro", it's just "code". And even then I still feel it should be a given that you keep your mouth shut and never share things that were never meant to be shared.

I've run into coworkers occasionally. No "code"....just common sense and it's understood that what happens in the club stays in the club.

Unfortunately the SFV is a dead zone for decent clubs. You won't find good mileage and decent eye candy. Your best bet would probably be the Rhino in VN. Decent looking women and some mileage can be had despite changes to the VIP area a couple years ago that they never truly recovered from.

Sounds like a typical day or night at any COI club :)

Kept in glove compartment at all times: free passes gum pocket rocket (w/ fresh batteries) mascara dry shampoo lotion baby wipes

@nicespice - so when you visit as a customer do you get lapdances? Or just tip the stage?

"Get there and pay for a 30 minute VIP session with the doorman" So.......how was he? (sorry couldn't resist!)

^A bird in my hand is worth two in my bush? Lololol

LA is a given, but Orange County has some SMOKIN' hot asian women.

"Do any TUSCL dancers avoid PLs that wear sweatpants and athletic shorts?" I'm betting yes. And they probably ignore women & couples too.

I love chivalry and don't care what gender it comes from. I have held doors open for both men & women, and both men & women have held them open for me and I think it's wonderful. It's just people being kind to other people. Why does it have to be politicized?

I suspect the reason that some guys are ignored are for the reasons mentioned already, but in my case I get ignored if the dancer either has had a bad experience before with a female customer, she is intimidated by me, or is unsure how to approach lady customers. I have found it is rarely any homophobia at work - mainly just fear and uncertainty with something new. I have realized over time that when I approach dancers they are happy not only because they will get some money out of me, but because I try and make it easy for them to gain confidence with other lady customers that might wander into their club.

I'll forgive alot of stripper shit but when she starts taking me for granted that's when I cut bait and move on.

Longest was about 13 hrs at a topless joint that my coworkers and I visited regularly called The Wild Goose near LAX here in LA. It's gone now but back in the day it wasn't uncommon for us to arrive at 11:30am for lunch (they had a great spread there) and sometimes stay past midnight after many many many many pitchers of beer. Good times, lol.

Yeah it's annoying as fuck to walk into a club, see a group of strippers briefly look up from their phones, only to have them all revert back to it within a few seconds, their faces all bathed in an eerie cell phone glow in the darkened club. But every time I have approached one while she was on her phone I have had a good result, so now I don't think twice about walking over to one that catches my eye and plopping down next to her to chat her up.

I rotate thru them all as the mood strikes.

Yes. It's a tough burden to bear at times but someone's gotta do it.

I club alone by choice 99% of the time and will only consider clubbing with someone else who is at my mongering level (or higher, if that's humanly possible). I don't visit clubs with amateurs anymore. Just not worth the hassle.

Has it ever happened to me before? Yes, a few times. But their dances weren't necessarily any better then the bi or even straight dancers. One time a gay dancer vented all her drama to me figuring that I could relate. Yeah I could relate but not at VIP prices, lol. It doesn't matter to me who she sleeps with in her personal life. It's all about what she can do for me in the club. That's all that really matters to me.

No.

I hear more than my share of stripper venting and I see it as part of the price of admission. As long as she shuts up when we are in VIP then she can bitch all she wants to out on the main floor.

I wouldn't ever want to know her last name. I don;t really care about her real first name either. What would be the point? I love the anonymity of stripclub romps w/o anything to ruin the fantasy.

Evan Rachel Wood.

For the few strippers who do post here there are probably shitloads more who silently lurk, hoping to get just enough info so that they don't go home with less money than they came to work with.

Lol nicespice I liked TER and met plenty of great women there. It's still there and you can access it using a VPN but with no reviews or ads allowed from the US there really is no point, except to chat in the forums there and maybe share PM's with fellow mongers and hookers.