Bro Code / Running into someone at the SC
PaulDrake
Off again on again PL
So have you guys ever run into a random acquaintance at the SC? I have been thinking through what to do in that situation. I would expect that the bro code would be in effect as in you could trust some other guy to not out you to your wife/gf. But I don't think it would be a good idea to hang out with someone in my home club as a lot of the dancers/waitresses know me and it would be obvious that I am a hardcore regular which looks bad.
It seems like the best strategy might be to have a quick conversation. Say you are leaving and then say something like "It was nice seeing you but we never saw each other".
The good news is the PLs don't really look at each other so the chances of even spotting someone are low.
It seems like the best strategy might be to have a quick conversation. Say you are leaving and then say something like "It was nice seeing you but we never saw each other".
The good news is the PLs don't really look at each other so the chances of even spotting someone are low.
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BUT to your point. Yes, I think the Bro code should be in place. I"m not telling your wife as long as you don't tell mine. I would acknowledge them, probably even shake their hand and say How ya doing . Then wink and say "we didn't see each other, right ? "
The good news for me is that I do all my mongering on business trips so the chancing of me running into someone I know are very slim.
I texted him later and said "I'm assuming where we met stays between us" and he replied "yes, top secret."
On another occasion I saw someone I know from work, not well, but enough to know we work for the same company. He didn't see me, I had just parked and I saw him walking out. I not gonna say shit to nobody.
She ( customer, not a dancer) yells out — “hey I know you!”
After a brief small talk, i was convinced that she wasn’t going to say anything.... never heard of it, so I think I’m still safe.
So one of the things that got me thinking about this was a thread on the pink forum where an ex dancer tried to contact a current dancer to check up on what her bf/husband did at the club. I was surprised at how all of the dancers were not willing to break the bro code: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showth…
But, I agree, you utilize basic common sense if you see someone you know in a club. If the other guy doesn’t recognize you, it’s best to not say anything.
After you’ve seen each other in the club, and you bump into each other outside, it’s best to not mention it. Don’t try to high five the other dude - or slap him on the back and say “Hello Playa! Let me smell those fingers!”
It’s really easy and basic.
Since I'm not a "bro", it's just "code". And even then I still feel it should be a given that you keep your mouth shut and never share things that were never meant to be shared.
A liar breaks promises, trust, and hurts women's feelings and makes her question everything she knows. I think some men (like me) read too much into it at one time, and thought the bro code would somehow turn me into: serial impregnator , wife beater, liar, cheater, and all-round dirtbag. Well actually the last 2 might or might not be true but the first three DEFINITELY aren't.
Ain’t no shame, in my game! lol