Sure, usually after being a regular for a few months I learn their real names. Not useful at all.
I usually continue with dancer name, because that's what was normal for so long until I learned their real name.
If you know the girl, are picking her up at her home, and are banging her in your own bed, I would not presume that there would be much she would not tell you.
SJG
Ha, Trollwarnbot signing in from the wrong account.
I've known the last names of every ATF and nearly every CF I've ever had. Keeping in mind that I'm a confirmed one-stripper ATFer, and can easily stick with a stripper for 6 months to multiple years, real names are just something that ends up unavoidable knowing, once you get to the ATF phase ... and especially as they invite me onto their Facebook, etc.
With CFs, sometimes they tell me or just don't hide it; sometimes, because their real number is in my phone, I get their real name because Facebook or some other app puts them in my suggested friends list; sometimes, I get the real name right away because I always run a reverse phone search on their phone numbers.
What I don't do is just ask... either it comes out naturally, or through social media, or through my due-diligence reverse-phone-# search
Several. I have traveled with some and needed their names for tickets. Several tell me once we know each other well enough. Facebook, IG and other social media often suggest them to me with their real names. A few when they gave me their test results.
Damn, Until now, I don't think I realized just how many.
This is several years ago: stripper gave my chlamydia which showed up on routine testing. I had to tell her. She went to her doctor, got an Rx, and texted a pic of her azithromycin Rx bottle (antibiotics) and it had her full, real, name printed on the label.
Romantic story, I know.
We're not much into stalking around here for the most-part - plus I don't see why I would need her last name in order to fuck her - gotta keep one's priorities straight
Anyone ever run a background check expecting to see something ordinary, like maybe a possession charge or solicitation, but when you see all the stuff they've got against her you're just like damn, that's fucked up, she seemed like such a sweet girl until now?
I don’t have CFs, but I have had three one night stand OTC girls tell me their real full name and even show me their drivers licenses. I don’t know why because I never ask dancers for their real name. I recall the context was they told me their real name and I joked “how do I know that’s not a fake real name,” and they pulled out their DL to prove it to me. But I really don’t care. I’ll call them whatever they want to be called. I think at least 50% nowadays introduce themselves by their stage name and then immediately say “ . . . but my real name is ____.” I really think some might have a fake real name that they volunteer to make their mark feel “special.”
I've had a few tell me and a couple I spotted on Facebook but they weren't favorites. I could tell one dancer didn't care for me looking at her Facebook page probably wondering how I found it. Real easy if a dancer dies and you look her and her friends up in Facebook if they have all that shared as public. I'm not the one she needed to be worried about though. I'm not a psycho or SGJ type of guy.
^^^^^ Is your world one where women are divided into two categories, and where a man is looked up to for his sexual experience, and where a woman is looked down upon for the same?
SJG
Family man obv spice troll account and to be honest yes and no. I wouldn't be here if I preferred unskilled women, but at the same time I live in reality and know that a gal 20 years younger most likely 'doesn't really like me' and if she does she probably has some daddy issues. I respect the sex workers but draw a firm mental line that underneath it all it is a transaction and nothing more. And after too many cocktails I've raw dogged a few lashes which I don't do anymore, so checking out their saltiness level is a way for me, personally, to check myself. It has nothing to do with the lass.
gal 20 years younger most likely 'doesn't really like me'
Not necessarily true, and especially if you never treat her like a prostitute.
SJG
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"I've known the last names of every ATF and nearly every CF I've ever had."
Well, they have to use their real names on the restraining orders, don't they?
^not always - I agree - and depends on the age of the gal. 20 years ago, agreed not the case. These days there is a clear demarcation based on how one uses technology. The 22 year olds these days seem more vapid that those of 10 years ago and it's just technology. At the same time, they stuck better dick because of it. So. Not complaining. Lol.
My ATF DS is the only one who ever shared her last name with me and it was completely unsolicited. It isn't important to me because I'm not sharing mine.
“Nice spice would love me in person and probably divorce her bf. Lol”
Sure thing. I’ll get married to my boyfriend just so I can divorce him for you. :) I’ll be the sister wife of that stripper you claimed that followed you around like a puppy after you told her to fuck off.
'Sure thing. I’ll get married to my boyfriend just so I can divorce him for you. :) I’ll be the sister wife of that stripper you claimed that followed you around like a puppy after you told her to fuck off.,
Perfect. This means you have health insurance and are probably on the pill for at least a month or so. I didn't tell anyone to fuck off' well I've said those words before, I just happened to say it in such a way with proper wordsmithing and congeniality that she got wet. Then we dated. Then her dog loved me. Then we broke up. Not my fault I'm a charmer.
“with proper wordsmithing and congeniality”
Nice phrasing. Next thing you know, you will be writing long and pretentious posts. Just like certain people on here you like to talk shit on.
I wouldn't ever want to know her last name. I don;t really care about her real first name either. What would be the point? I love the anonymity of stripclub romps w/o anything to ruin the fantasy.
"Nice phrasing. Next thing you know, you will be writing long and pretentious posts. Just like certain people on here you like to talk shit on."
Thanks for the compliment. No pretentiousness here, Youre a tad bit cooler in my eyes than you were a few weeks ago when you were writing SJG like pages in wannabe high school debate club, so I'm glad to help out and advance your website thread communication skills. No tip necessary. Now show us ur tits. Lol
SJG took the time to ask me to reply to him, and so I did. And I think he forgave me for being a libertarian lol.
And I’ll update my avatar whenever I want. But there’s two reviews now that mention me if you look up Perfect 10 in San Antonio, TX. Feel free to fap to that instead.
@NS make yourself useful and show us your tits. Thx. I'll read the reviews but doubt they are useful as they are probably from guys that came in their pants before they met you because you acknowledged them on TUSCL.
Read the P 10 reviews. Meh. As suspected suspicions confirmed. They saw you on here got excited and visited then you took care (smart) of them so they would write good reviews. A newb and a super fanatic fan. Lol. A pasties club fuck that. Didn't even know those still existed.
I don’t care enough to ask.
I don’t care enough to wade through the stripper shit that might come from asking either.
As far as I’m concerned it says Bubbles O. McBooty on her passport.
I knew one with her own business and she gave me her business card. I also knew one who was a teacher away from the club and she told me to look her up once, because I didn't believe it. There she was on her school's website. I also found one out after I got told she got arrested and they had her mugshot in the paper, or at least the website for the local paper.
I know many strippers last names. I assume if I know stripper last names, some strippers know my last name.
I did do OTC once with a dancer I met that day. She told me her last name (not sure why) right before she tried unsuccessfully to set me up for a robbery. Later I searched her name and low and behold, she had numerous arrests including some nasty robberies.
I know all my CF names...In one club, I knew some of their real names before their club name...sometimes I get confused when they're using their club names....Its all good....They all know my real name for better or worse.
I don't seek it out, but some have volunteered the info. It doesn't really change anything, but I suppose that it might give some guys a false sense that they are somehow closer to a girl.
-->"I don’t recall ever actually asking, but some have told me and I’ve discovered others using social media. "
Ya, OP's mistake is wording it "gotten your CF to reveal her last name", which connotes some sort of skulduggery and manipulation is afoot here. I don't think I've ever actually asked either, she'll just tell me or invite me onto her facebook or social media will suggest her (or, obviously, the restraining order). No skulduggery or manipulation needed
"but I suppose that it might give some guys a false sense that they are somehow closer to a girl."
I think a little speck of trust in a world that doesn't revolve around trust can be kind of cool. But you're right, it's best not to think it means more than it does.
"Ya, OP's mistake is wording it "gotten your CF to reveal her last name""
I re-read my question several times after reading your comment. I get what you're saying, but I don't think the insinuation is as straightforward as your interpretation. I would say there have been a number of times where I "got" my CF to reveal her last name just by being a decent customer who she felt comfortable with, and though I wasn't prodding for it, I do enjoy running background checks should the opportunity present itself. I prefer the former high school honor students over the hardened criminals, but looks are also a deciding factor for me.
I believe you that you may not have meant it that way; but I think that's the way it reads (at least to me) -- you purposely chose to word it that way, instead of "has your stripper ever told you her last name?". Like I said, IME just by being a good regular customer of hers, you'll end up knowing her name 100% of the time. And sometimes, just having your number in her phone is enough for Facebook to tell you her last name (and yours to her, if you have a real facebook account).
I’m Facebook friends with a few of them, I dated a couple of them. Other than that I haven’t known any last names, haven’t asked and I don’t really care about that info.
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