Strippers that complain
TippingDollars
Maryland
So I've grown tired of listening to strippers complain in the club. I got a girl at home who I have to listen too complain. Now I try to let them know in advance I'm not cool with strippers complaining. It's a big turn off and I come to a club to be happy. Funny thing I think it's working. Less complaining and more about trying to make me happy. You guys should try it.
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It’s poor sales technique.
But anyway I don't make it a habit as I understand guys don't go to the club to hear us bitch. Just sometimes if they talk shit about a club I'll join in etc. Basically if they say something that opens up the discussion for complaining.
I never understood girls that bitch about their real life at the club or beg for money based on some bill being past due. That is just so pathetic as a "hustle".
I don't have any use for the ones who complain about dancing, but that is only because it is a tipoff that they are burnt out and likely will be no fun.
But complaints about money, outside life issues, etc., can be good intel that is helpful for OTC conversion to OTC. Especially ye 'ol pity hustle girls, who are often damned good OTC targets on nights where other options are thin.
So with that said, I would never shut a girl down like that and make her feel self conscious.
That sounds good in theory.
But if she bitches on the main floor are you just as likely to take her to VIP or would you be be more likely to opt for someone else?
PhatBoy99 - definite troll account
A couple of years ago I was at a small mixed dive (mostly Latinas and a couple of ebonies) - I enter the club and a mixed-race (black/white) Latina that had danced for me on maybe two previous visits approaches me and we have some chit-chat at the bar - I ask her how she's doing and she says not well bc she was about to be evicted from her apartment along with her 3-kids - I replied something along the lines of "oh wow" - we're sitting at the bar and she tells me she needs to go to the back but to wait for her bc she wants to talk to me - I did the manly thing and bailed as soon as the coast was clear - I don't have the thick-skin to sit thru that and not have it affect me or even less be tempted to be a captain Save-A-Ho - I'm also not big into OTC nor faves thus I wouldn't consider her plight as an "opportunity" nor am I comfortable with negotiating for sex due to a dancer's "between a rock and a hard place circumstances" - her story could have def just been a hustle but I did not get that vibe at all.
A dancer telling me how money has been bad in the club or how her babydaddy mistreats her def affects my PL-psyche - don't even like to hear about her problems with other dancers - being a glass-half-empty guy I already kinda have a negative-bent so I don't like additional drama/negativity added on top.