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13 years ago
What gmd said. He is a wise man indeed.
Geez.
Just TALK TO HER.
That way there will be no surprises,disappointments or awkward moments that could ruin the "adventure".
She might be game for some sexual fun w/ you, or that may be that last thing on her mind.
Like gmd noted - she may just want to explore her bi side, and is too shy to do it alone. When I first started clubbing, I would often ask a male friend to accompany me to help me get familiar with the SC environment. But my attention was strictly for the ladies - and my friends knew that and respected it.
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13 years ago
lol gmd - you kill me.
On one particularly strange stripclub visit, I saw both a man in a kilt (no I didn't check to see if he was commando), and a guy I christened Wolf Boy - he was about 18 yo and furry. He looked like a werewolf. I think I even heard him howl once. Very odd indeed.
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13 years ago
I tried taking my better half with me on several occasions (images of g/g/g fun!), but it was never meant to be. She wanted nothing to do with it. So I took one for the team and have been flying solo ever since ;)
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13 years ago
I've had by far the most mileage (locally) @ Rio (the one on Figueroa near the 110 frwy). The club is heavily latino, and the chicas are thick and lovely, with a few other ethnicities sprinkled around. The Jet Strip is another club that doesn't guarantee crazy mileage, but after I got to know the ladies they take proper care of me ;).
If you don't mind a longer drive, there are the clubs in the COI - the mileage there is unparalleled. But like I mentioned in my first post, going there as a couple (which I don't do) can be troublesome in clubs that don't know you, especially in high mileage clubs that aren't used to seeing couples. As you have probably already encountered, some dancers might not approach a couple.....but a well placed tip can often do wonders.
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13 years ago
Thx motorhead
I've had a serious thing for her ever since "Pineapple Express" back in 2008.
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13 years ago
As a woman, I pretty much get high mileage wherever I go, but I'm not part of a couple, which definitely makes it more difficult. And if you're looking for alcohol, your mileage won't be nearly as good as in a nude club. Topless clubs generally don't have near the mileage possibilities. If you're serious about mileage, better to pound some drinks elsewhere, then hit a nude club.
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13 years ago
lol shadowcat.....I agree ;)
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13 years ago
Amber Heard
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13 years ago
I have alot of incriminating evidence in my cell, which is the reason I never let it leave my side....EVER! I know where it is 24/7, so that the SO never gets 5 feet near it.
In fact, my friends have explicit instructions that the very first thing they must do, should I succumb to an untimely death - is DESTROY MY CELLPHONE!
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13 years ago
Never tried PM's here. Interesting thought, but I think I'll stick to texting.
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13 years ago
Tons of clubs spread out all over LA/OC/IE, but my fave 5 are within a 20 minute drive of me. I'm spoiled in that I don't need to drive far to find alot of variety, which is what I crave.
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13 years ago
One of my most surprising moments was when a floater poked his head through the curtain in VIP to see me & a dancer in a 69 position. The range of facial expressions this guy went through in about 30 seconds was hilarious: at first bug-eyed surprise, then gape-jawed recognition, then the biggest smirk I've ever seen. He muttered "carry on!", then closed the curtain and walked away. Throughout this unexpected interruption, the dancer never even came up for air ;)
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13 years ago
Not only would I spread it amongst many dancers, I'd probably venture out across many clubs as well. That guarantees even more diversity!
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13 years ago
Like farmerart, I go to clubs with the sole intention of getting dances, so I'm not the type to be happy with only tipping. But it's not an obligation for me - it's why I'm there. If I leave w/o getting a single dance (for whatever reason), I consider the visit a major disappointment.
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13 years ago
I know it's chickenshit, but I'll excuse myself from her clutches to go to the head, and then return to the opposite side of the club and lay low so that she doesn't see me. If that tactic doesn't work, I'll bail on the club (of course, in my case she might follow me into the bathroom). It's a crappy position for a dancer to put you in, and honestly short of making a scene there's often no tactful way to dislodge her. Best to bail to another club.
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13 years ago
I've got a phone full of dancer numbers and honestly I think I've regularly called the same 6 or 7 in the past year. Not all that long ago getting a dancers number was a BFD. Nowadays it seems like they offer it up as they pass by your barstool or table. The thrill and exclusivity of it is long gone.
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13 years ago
This is why I use reviews strictly for factual info, such as prices, parking & layout.
Looks (& mileage) are far too subjective to be applicable to everyone, and must be taken with a grain of salt, so I don't give them much weight.
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13 years ago
There are a handful (!) that I socialize with outside the club. I certainly consider them "friends with bennies".
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13 years ago
I used to do it all the time - every chance I could get. No more. Not worth the risks involved.
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13 years ago
Sometime you want prime rib, and sometimes only a greasy hamburger will hit the spot ;)
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13 years ago
I know I'm prolly in the minority here, but if a dancer plays any Garbage, Green Day or Stone Temple Pilots I will become her money slave....at least for the evening ;)
Sadly, it's pretty rare that I become anyone's money slave at a SC, since I almost never hear any of the above.
I did once hear a divey club play a Leonard Cohen song, and I actually did a double take to be sure I was hearing right!
Welcome back, fetish_dancer!
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13 years ago
lol
It really is true, farmerart.
I would never joke about OTC activities.
Some things are indeed sacred. :)
Although there are plenty of les/bi dancers out there that are always up for some girly OTC fun, you'd be surprised at the number of bi-curious dancers that are more than willing to let me help them "explore" their g/g side. Many younger dancers have never really been "all the way" with a woman before, except in "gay for pay" pretend at the club or playful kissing while drunk at a bar with their girlfriends.
And who am I to deny them that experience? ;)
Remember....I'm just a giver at heart!
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13 years ago
heeheehee ;)
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13 years ago
wow.
just wow.
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13 years ago
I prefer Lil Darlings, since it's pretty much the only decent nude club left (no club that ends in the word "cabaret" should even be considered). My fave daytime club usued to be Deja Vu, but since they've gone topless I haven't bothered even checking it out.
The last time I visited LD was on a Sunday @ 2pm. For about an hour I was the only customer, and there were 5 or 6 dancers working (find a coupon in one of those rag newspapers along the blvd and pay only $10 to get in). Most were 5 or 6's, with one 9 that came in as I was leaving. The girls were friendly enough, and most came and sat and chatted with me. I left w/o getting any dances. Wound up later that night @ Talk of the Town, where I had a blast on their beanbag beds in VIP with a smokin hot little 18yo brunette. Ahhhhh......vegas!