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13 years ago
I've "hidden" more dancers than I can even remember. Most of the time it was because either she didn't want to go onstage, or more likely, was avoiding an annoying customer.
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13 years ago
I haven't seen too many couples in the clubs I visit, but the few I have seen did not impact any of the other customers in a negative way. Most customers are focused solely on the dancers, and could care less what other customers do or who they are. Sadly the only negative impact I've witnessed is the avoidance from many of the dancers who aren't couple-friendly.
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13 years ago
m00tpoint-
Since I am in fact a woman, I think you should have said "experienced customers", and not specified gender.
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13 years ago
About the only thing that individual club websites are good for is a coupon or an address/phone number for the club.
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13 years ago
This is an ongoing problem for many of us. There really is no clear cut answer on how to deal with this and come out unscathed.
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13 years ago
lol Club_Goer's got it right!
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13 years ago
YMWV big time here in LA. Truth is you usually have a choice - gorgeous low mileage eye candy, or 5-7's range UHM. Rarely will you find both.
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13 years ago
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minnowAny place that interests me.
Not a Pat's fan....but I was rooting for 'em big time today.
And the fact that it was a spanking was total BONUS!
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13 years ago
lol they just wave me through. They really don't have much of a choice, if there are no "dressed" females available to do it.
Believe me - I'd LOOOOOVE to have one of the dancer's come out and pat me down. Hell - she can do a gyno exam while she's at it if she wants too!
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13 years ago
same.
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13 years ago
lol farmerart - I guess the LAST thing a guy like you would need is a Redbull!
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13 years ago
LOL Clubber!
i swear i was underneath a hot brunette in VIP in a club far far away during this heinous crime....and i volunteer to swab my dancer for DNA samples to support my innocence ;)
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13 years ago
Although waiting for a girl to approach may work for most, IMHO life's too short to wait around and hope that the hot dancer that's hopelessy busy will find time to come to you. Although I also prefer to be asked, I have no trouble approaching a dancer to get her attention.
farmerart - perhaps you're too caffeinated......slow down on that RedBull! ;)
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13 years ago
Los Angeles.
Used to focus close to LAX, but as clubs close there I have been venturing further away - and reaping the rewards.
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13 years ago
Everybody's definition is different.
It's like asking someone "What do you think is pretty?" If you ask 100 people you'll get 100 different answers.
And anyone that makes a generalized statement that "strippers are great in bed" is a completely clueless idiot.
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13 years ago
The only time I ever had the misfortune of actually going into the men's room was by a troll who refused to sell me a stick of gum until I went in to his "lair" so that I could pick out the flavor that I wanted. He was like 200 years old and could barely walk, so I felt sorry for him and went in....and got out again as fast as I could. At least it was in an "upscale" club, so it wasn't too ratty in there.
Lesson learned to ALWAYS make sure that I have a pack of gum with me BEFORE I enter the club!
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13 years ago
Sometimes you have to get nasty with the really pushy ones. They often give you no choice. Problem is that they can label you to the other dancers as an asshole, and you risk being ignored all night (if you're in a new club that the dancers don't know you). But often these pushy dancers are annoying to the other dancers as well, so if she badmouths you, it might not matter.
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13 years ago
I'll often continue spending time & money on dancers ITC even after we've established an OTC relationship. I enjoy the SC environment, and so far no ITC activity has affected our OTC time.
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13 years ago
oh HELL YES!!
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13 years ago
Most dancers know that I post on other SC sites, but none seem to know about TUSCL.
On those other sites I have to remain tactful and courteous. But here on TUSCL I can say anything I damn well want to, since they won't know. Heh heh heh.
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13 years ago
Sorry, but my approach wouldn't work for you.
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13 years ago
The only SC virgins that I have taken have been women, and they were absolutely no fun at all. All the dancers assumed that these girls would behave like I do in a club, but instead they acted like freaked out & scared little rabbits.
Never again.
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13 years ago
I hope founder addresses this issue soon, as it seems to be getting worse, at least for some of us.
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13 years ago
what's even weirder is that some posts are being ignored and some aren't from the same poster, who was never on ignore in the first place. wtf?