Taking a strip club virgin to a club for the first time
crecat03
If you decided to take a friend for his first visit to a strip club, where would you take him? A fairly fancy and low mileage place like the Cheetah, a high mileage place like Follies, or one of the truck stop kind of strip club on I-75? Do you tell him the rules or what sort of contact he should expect (or what lap dances cost) or do you let him explore for himself to start?
I typically prefer going to strip clubs alone, mainly because I am afraid what my conservative friends might think. Every time I am in a place that is known to have good strip clubs, mainly Atlanta and Columbia, I make sure to get away from my friends and family for a couple of hours in the late afternoon. However, on my last trip through South Carolina, I decided to stop at Platinum Plus Columbia with a 22 year old friend who had never been to a strip club. He was afraid it would be all ugly girls since it was on a Monday around 3pm (fortunately there were lots of cute ladies there that day). For the first 30 minutes or so he was obviously very uncomfortable. Eventually he got up to tip a girl on stage and then got a lap dance when I said I would pay for one. I failed to explain the way things work at the club ahead of time and he didn't ask, but he seemed to get by just fine and not get ripped off. As soon as he went into the lap dance room, a favorite of mine appeared and we went to the other lap dance room.
Afterward, all I said was “you didn't just sit there with your hands to yourself, did you?†“No, I'm not an idiot.†Maybe he did more research than I thought.
I typically prefer going to strip clubs alone, mainly because I am afraid what my conservative friends might think. Every time I am in a place that is known to have good strip clubs, mainly Atlanta and Columbia, I make sure to get away from my friends and family for a couple of hours in the late afternoon. However, on my last trip through South Carolina, I decided to stop at Platinum Plus Columbia with a 22 year old friend who had never been to a strip club. He was afraid it would be all ugly girls since it was on a Monday around 3pm (fortunately there were lots of cute ladies there that day). For the first 30 minutes or so he was obviously very uncomfortable. Eventually he got up to tip a girl on stage and then got a lap dance when I said I would pay for one. I failed to explain the way things work at the club ahead of time and he didn't ask, but he seemed to get by just fine and not get ripped off. As soon as he went into the lap dance room, a favorite of mine appeared and we went to the other lap dance room.
Afterward, all I said was “you didn't just sit there with your hands to yourself, did you?†“No, I'm not an idiot.†Maybe he did more research than I thought.
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We ended up going to Good Guys in Georgetown; all nude, all the time. Both of us were in pretty decent shape at the time, in contrast to most of the othe customers. He turned out to be almost as big a ho-dog as me. We both ended up having breakfast with a couple of the dancers there. Among other things.
Never did it again, though we talked about it. He left our main duty station shortly after that, and I never found anybody else in the same league.
Never again.
I once asked someone if dancers went out with guys in the club. The person I asked said no. Of course I had to try it. Second dancer I asked said ok. However she said something about a private party and I was pissed when I found out she wanted money.
Yes, a nice visit, but hardly my first. Like you, I've been at this job for many years. :)
Think of all the time and MONEY you have spent earning your stripes and finding your...rhythm...for lack of a better term. Only fair to act the mentor to maximize what may be a friend's only trip.
Of course they have to have their own experiences to learn, and let's face it, even those of us with our strip club black belts still fuck up from time to time, but I'd do what I could to maximize the experience for someone.
Give them the briefing, set em loose, then dit back and let them know you're there for advice as needed.
Oh, and I'd probably opt for a lower-key "gentlemans club" experience. Remember that the atmosphere in a club can be quite jarring the first few times for someone not used to it. A couple of the more "aggressive" places in Providence (where I party) could leave a guy scarred for life.