Here I'm at a computer just typing away. In strip clubs I'm distracted and if I try to say something it's more like "WHAT DID YOU SAY?" as I shout in a dancer's ear. I do occasionally visit one strip club where you talk without shouting but even then I'm not usually saying too much. Of course that could change with the right dancer and some alcohol.
So are you stone cold in a strip club compared to here or about the same?
I say more in a club, because I don't have to look at the keyboard to talk.
Usually I'm even more quiet in person...unless I've got a nice buzz going in which case I can BS much better.
Kinda hard to talk with a mouth full of boob, so I would have to say, on here. :)
sc,
Here's to a boob feast this afternoon! CHEERS!
I talk more truth here.:)
I don't speak my mind in the club, for obvious reasons. I will make small talk though. I should also mention that I don't like to think alot when I'm working. I meet, in one shift, one of every type of guy, then have to proceed to convince him there's no one better than me, even if I'm not his type. That's enough thinking for me
I talk a fair amount with girls that I like. It is tough to arrange OTC if one is an introvert.
I tend to converse better with a cunning linguist....
I am your basic introvert, but have learned how to overcome it. I talk more here, though. As Rick suggests, it's tough to arrange OTC if you won't talk.
I type here I dont talk
I use hand signals in some clubs. You can't hear anything above the modified jet engines errrr.. I mean DJ and speakers. Sometimes I do feel like I've been to a sports game shouting so much just to be heard above the noise or music.
shark,
Volume is less important to me than what they are playing. Good ol' rock, let her rip. Other, just turn it off.
same.
Last evening at sc's BD party, a dancer that set with us liked the rock they played occasionally. I noticed it tended to make her stick shift, a bit, when it was playing. A benefit I'd not received before.
So Clubber, did she put you into overdrive, or did she double clutch you?
I'll talk to the dancers I like,and quite a bit, but if one sits with me that I don't want, I'll be quiet. Eventually, they disappear.
m,
No sir. To be honest, I really didn't see any dancers that really floated my boat. At shift change they had all their dancers on stage for the "special" (free drink coupon). I saw a new dancer (Asian looking, of course) up there that piqued my interest. As she came off stage she bee-lined right to a customer and spend the rest of the time I was in the club with him. : (
I agree with rick
Clubba, love the stick shift and the shift change references...Love it when she's rotating on all the gears...drives me nuts
MAD,
Ssshhhh! That's top secret code. Don't want anyone here to get what's going on. : )
Clubba, lol, excuse the momentary lapse....
you either hit if off with a girl or not. if you really do as rick says, you gotta talk right. should flow, feel nice and natural so you real can enjoy her company as well as her tits.
but gawd, a lot of the talk can be so boring, when it's is someone you in the end just want rid of.
now lads, the music bit, nice point, so gonna start that discussion!
It depends on how well the Dancer communicates. If she or other possible companions in Club are good conversationalists I'll talk as much or more than I may Here. If there is not much between the ears of the Dancer(s), I'll be quiet & sip my Sodas & look at Tits & Ass. LOL
But that is ONLY if I'm in a new Club & not with my ATF.