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5 months ago
Some people are better than others at learning a new language. I say that in defense of the Cubans who don't learn it; and myself, as I am pretty clueless.
And you can see that with people who spoke a different language as children, and do their damndest to learn English. Heard an Asian professor from an American university talking on the radio this week. He had the vocabulary, but his pronunciation was brutal.
However, if I was moving to Cuba, I would realize learning the new language would be part of the deal. And not only would I not be good at it, I fear most people would react to me with blank stares.
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5 months ago
Some good insight, James. I would also say autism wouldn't seem to align with the tease and subterfuge of dancing. Seriously, it seems an autistic woman would understand the role of a prostitute better. Less deceit involved, and a straightforward transaction. Also, she may have less comprehension of why paid sex acts would be considered "wrong".
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5 months ago
We get to choose, and they get to choose. As said above, there is no point in trying to force an unwilling dancer. That's not the type of dance I want.
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5 months ago
They ain't takin' my fingerprint! Stopped reading there. The rest doesn't matter. Fuck that.
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5 months ago
Huh? Are lap dances a thousand dollars there, or what? Why not feel the excitement of taking a tiny gamble on an unknown dancer for what I assume is 20 or 30 bucks?
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5 months ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
They talk about replacing meat with some fake plant based protein. I ask how could they ever do that when they can't even make a diet cola that I can stand to drink?
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5 months ago
I was at the King of Diamonds in Inver Grove, MN 10 years ago. I was so unimpressed by the impersonal and unremarkable dancers, plus the security cage around the cashier, that I never went back. Now, this site lists KOD as Number 13 overall nationwide. What the hell? Either it has improved a lot, or the top 40 list is bogus.
I don't see anything very compelling in the recent reviews. I remain skeptical. I don't know Claudia, though.
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5 months ago
That sounds fun!
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5 months ago
Foolish for me to judge, 'cause she is better looking than me. However, I have zero interest in that. Too plastic. Midriff of a Komodo dragon.
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5 months ago
I can hack a lot of music, so long as there is variety in what is being played. Years ago, my taste in music may have aligned better with the dancer's. Now the age gap means that is unlikely.
I have had discussions with dancers in the past about whether it's better for the music to suit my tastes, or theirs. Yes, they are the ones that have to dance to it. But the club is trying to get me in a generous mood. When things are going good, I like to imagine ("imagine" being the key word) that there is a vibe going with me, the dancer, the music, and whatever alcohol was in the weak drinks I've been served.
If the music is to the dancer's taste, not mine, we are not in the same vibe. I think the shrewd dancers know how to put on an act, and go with the illusion the customer is trying to immerse in. That warm glow of his, and money flowing out of him, helps.
Whereas I don't care how much a self centered dancer is enjoying "her' music, she is never going to be deluded she is doing anything other than dancing on some old bald fucker. And I can feel that.
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5 months ago
How old did Stassi look? Not a common name. A favorite dancer of mine once upon a time was named Stassi.
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5 months ago
Similar situation was a dancer I used to frequently spend time with. She was pretty enough. I am into natural breasts, no matter how small. And she had smaller ones, and was fairly young, yet her breasts were sagging a little. That was OK too, except she had pierced nipples. And the overall impression created was that the piercings deflated her breasts. Of course I know that didn't happen, but that was the impression created. Made her breasts look a little sad.
I never mentioned it to her, but I think she cost herself a lot of money with that look. So, yeah, it's her body. But I think she hurt herself in the business sense, not the physical sense. So the temptation is to say something to open her eyes. But I was not so close to her that I felt comfortable doing that. Plus, time has shown me I am not so smart as I think I am.
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6 months ago
I have never had a good time in The Seville. Gave up after four tries.
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6 months ago
I've seen waitresses agree to lap dances in Minneapolis clubs. First time was a guy from Sweden paid what I only remember as way too much to get a dance from an AA server who was just not as attractive as any of the other dancers on the floor. I figured he had a lot of dough, and just wanted to see if he could get the forbidden fruit. She seemed pretty experienced at what she was doing, though, so I don't think the experience was new to her.
Reason I am posting though, is that I turned down a dance proposition from a server who I had known quite a while and had fun with, so often tipped well. Cute brunette. I believe she was flirting with the idea of becoming a dancer, and was going to break in with me, who she was familiar with. Ultimately, I decided her asking price was pretty bold and I opted not to do the deal. Still thinking about what I may have missed years later, so probably stupid on my part. I also think she was fantasizing about just how much she could charge, as an ego boost. I never understand why some dancers take a shine to me when I feel I am just another bald pervert in the club. (Maybe I feel better than that to them!)
And I tried to put the bite on another brunette server who I had a longer/even better relationship with. Was sitting with my atf dancer already, and she was into girls, so I could see she was keen to know what the server would decide. But she turned down $75 for one dance, several years ago, and regular LDs were $20 then. She seemed to be thinking it over pretty hard though.
Sometimes you pass something up and regret, but generally I have more regrets about extra money paid out only to be disappointed. Fun to go where you have these calls to make though, isn't it?
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6 months ago
Mr. Eddy: This is a good review, in my opinion. It's a big "stay away"! What more do we need to know?
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6 months ago
What. The. Fuck.
Safer to walk around town with a wad of cash than yield your credit card to these fuckers.
Thanks for letting us know. Stories like this make paying for a membership at this website well worth it. 50 bucks in a strip club can go as fast as the pennies on a gas pump.
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6 months ago
I was impressed with the tactic of I guy overheard once when a dancer wasn't taking "no" for an answer. He finally said: "No. I appreciate the effort, but no."
I guess my approach is if they don't accept a polite "no thanks", the "no" gets a little more firm and less polite. Same way I answer the door for a Jehovah's Witness, I guess, now that I think about it.
Now if the Jehovah's Witness was in her underwear...
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6 months ago
OP, what did you mean to say when you typed "Collar t shirts or shirts allowed". Also, I agree with MrEddy's analysis. If the bouncers watch the whole dance, I wouldn't participate even if it was free.
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6 months ago
I remember the first thigh gap that caught my eye. I was in a cafe and a young woman in a skirt walked out the door. Sunlight was streaming in - and that made her short dress semi-transparent - and revealed a thigh gap. And my 13 year old brain was transfixed for the first time...
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6 months ago
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Book GuyI write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
If I was as choice as the lion, I probably wouldn't have to pay women to be nice to me. But I am not. So I take a shower, act polite, and pay.
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7 months ago
@Dofan. I am not judging the strippers when I suggest they don't ask if someone is married. I am only giving them a suggestion that I think will help them make more money. If they choose to ignore my advice, fine. I am no expert.
As I say, I don't lie when asked, and I have had them give me a piece of their mind and walk off when I tell them I am married. That is their right as well. If it is the first question I get from her though, I expect she is about to get indignant. If the question comes after we develop a rapport, it doesn't get my guard up.
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7 months ago
I don't follow you on the "stupid" pricing. The price per minute should go down for longer times, but he total price has to be higher. The 15 minute one is screwed up, but the rest seems not too crazy?
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7 months ago
Yeah, now that you mention it, I suppose those little "flashlight" looking things are scanners. I think this may be one of those things where management is losing business with their policies, and they are too dense to figure it out. Not everyone who is uncomfortable is going to bitch, but they may never return.