Do some women lose interest in sex as they get married/older?
Hey guys,So after talking with many SD's it seems one of the reasons for them getting into Sugar dating in the first place was because their wives and/long term partners stopped being interested in having sex. Meanwhile, they themselves kept their interest high.
Hence this discrepancy. On one hand the men kept wanting to have sex while their wives weren't interested anymore. I wonder how common or uncommon is this situation.
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But, I think often married couples lose interest in having sex with each other specifically regardless of age. Not the man or women specifically losing sex drive, but rather boredom or other factors reducing the desire for each other specifically. I think men often interpret that is the woman losing sex drive as they seek out sex with others, which kinda exaggerates the perception. I'm not suggesting I don't think there's some truth to it, just that there's other factors.
And then there are some people who don't care about sex that much, while for others, it is their central driving force in life.
One thing I have read that I believe is valid: It is very important to be physically attracted to your spouse's looks. Living with someone long term, you are constantly subconsciously assessing little details about them. If you are temporarily pissed at them over something anyway, it is very easy to find their gross toenails, for example, repulsive. In my experience, that does not lead to great sex.
I am relatively certain that there would be many less sw’s in the world if this were not the case. Of course there are always exceptions.
Fortunately mine hasn't.
Frequency is down from decades ago.
Quality is high.
Love being among the lucky ones ❤ 💕
I agree with this poster SKIBUM 100%
Take her on the couch, the car, bang her on the kitchen countertops, then order a pizza - make it fun and she will want sex.
Otherwise I blame SEX TOYS for being too good these days. 95% of all sex toys target women - all I get as a man is a set of anal beads for my ass!! (and I don't even like my ass licked)
Yes, and so do some men. But surprise, surprise some women and some men don’t lose interest.
As far as my own anecdotal experience, recent divorcees are hot to trot. Quite possibly because they weren’t having sex at all with their ex while hating his ass during the divorce process. Their devil may care sexual behavior seems to wane after a while based on my experience.
Now IME married women cheating on their husband are a different story. I’ve been lied to by numerous women who told me they weren’t or were no longer married. They were all horny as all get up and did not seem interested in ever stopping getting fucked by someone not their husband.
I was seduced by an RN in California who was 52 at the time we started our four year adventure. I had business that required my presence about every six weeks. For a week to ten days each month she would come to my hotel after her shift and we would fuck and suck many more times than I would have ever thought possible. She would go home and be back at 4 in the morning with coffee. We would fuck once or twice before she had to go to work. She was literally insatiable.
She had told me she was separated and her husband had moved out. I came to strongly doubt that. In four years time she only spent the entire night one time and while she didn’t mind being seen with me away from her city she was adamant that we not be seen together locally. I often suspected her husband was listening in on our phone calls. I don’t know if he was a cuck or what the real story was. I called it quits after seriously becoming tired of being her sex toy. She was not happy.
So no, not all women lose interest but as others have alluded to, they may lose interest in their mate.
Guys need to put some effort in to keep it going. I find the older women get they often want a man to initiate more than when they were young (just my opinion).
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