Comments by BocaOnt2019 (page 2)

I have learned that TUSCL discussions never disappoint. :)

@heaving - no problem - was curious to hear what others responses would be. At the very least glad to have started it if only to get the link to Call.Me.Ishmael exchange @Call.Me.Ishmael - thanks for sharing that! @K thats awesome yet funny at the same time.

Jefferson Airplane - Someone To Love

I am glad this discussion hasnt gotten too ten-se. :-)

I always love hearing that story - thanks rogertex! :)

@SerenitySinn - Amen. @lapdanceking82 - or so one would hope!

I use twitter mainly for my other hobby. Twitter does have its uses for this hobby if a SW is on Twitter - DMs can be safer form of communication than texts?

Hmmm maybe I should go to Austin.

@Fishhawk - ah too bad - always disappointing when a good line is wasted like that.

@fishhawk - any success? ;-) A little envious of some of the good lines so far!

@rickdugan: Obviously different tactics will work for different people. The OP said he was non-confrontational - hence the suggestion that let them start off the negotiations. However absolutely, if one wishes to take a more direct approach and are comfortable doing so, that would work too . Also obviously depends on the club and the frequency of extras. @Nixur68: Quite agree - but you can hopefully, with a bit of experience, usually get an idea of how interested the dancer is in the idea - and how that will play out.

2 of 3 or 3 of 3 depending on definition of Q2.

I am a big fan of organic interaction / discussion. I also find many dancers will get to the point quickly, either about dances or extras, if they are looking. So let them start the discussion, and go from there. You can certainly hint & confirm interest, but allow them to suggest/open the 'negotiations'. Not to mention looking too eager is never a good starting point. What Wiffle Waffle said about "My budget is $___, and I refuse to spend over $___." definitely is a good idea. Saying I am interested but I feel X is about my limit rather than Y is a respectful negotiating tactic and if the dancer is looking for the sure $ they will likely be willing to accommodate or meet in the middle.

Thanks for sharing that! Had been wondering how frequently those shoes would need replacing.

A sports forum would be nice. :)

Maybe even 2 in some cities. ;-)

Barbarellas closed in March (or early April) of 2019 I believe.

Very interesting discussion. Good topic choice. Another solution that no one seems to have talked much about - and I guess it depends on city - is visit other clubs. For example there are currently 6 clubs in my city, so if I was tired of seeing a dancer at 1 club, simply frequenting another club(s) would solve that.

Rick: Don't really care if anyone does - but someone has in the past. Some people prefer to discuss certain things discretely. If I can be of help great - if no one care no loss. desertscrub - if you read all the recent Playmate reviews the majority are favorable - in fact it was the prior reviews that convinced me to visit the Playmate (the Canadian forums also helped). My biggest complaint was the exhorbitant ATM fees. I cannot have high review #s if I was only made aware of TUSCL recently despite 15 years of SC experience *shrugs*

If anyone needs details on how much things cost feel free to contact. I can vouch that all the dancers that Ive met there seemed very inclined re: nipple play at the very least. And that the dancers there come in all sizes (skinny, thick, tall, short).

Appreciate the tips - curious to see how they work in my neck of the woods. :)

Apologies if this was already mentioned but the actress who played Mrs. Robinson (Anne Bancroft) was only 36-37 at the time of filming.

Happy New Year! Best wishes to all in 2020!

All in pursuit of the SC Holy Grail I presume. ;-)