Comments by ei8ht_Ball (page 6)

She struck me as the most sober girl there.

"I’m assuming you likely make more income than she would? What would the temptation be?" I'm not so sure if that's a true statement. Some of the girls at this club make a lot, and she had a pretty thick stack for a Tuesday night. Motivation? I guess it wouldn't be much different than what motivates girls to over-count songs. She doesn't strike me as the type, though I don't know her very well. If she had ever done that to me then this would be my opportunity to take it back. But I'm more likely to just not buy dances from her again. Nonetheless, it surprises me that she left it lying around. The other girls tell me things get stolen there all the time, including their tips.

"If you gotta ask this question or post about this then you have some maturing to do." Normally I'd ask if you'd read any of the other discussions on here, but I'm aware that you've read them all.

I once sat down on the lap dance couch and accidentally to my hand in a great big wad of cum. I told the girl I was off to go wash up and I'd be back, but after I washed my hands I just left. LE has since put the place out of business. It wasn't my usual club, that's for sure.

"Lol! Invite her over to post here!" What? Invite my CF to socialize with a bunch or mongers happy to pay her for sex? I don't think so.

I only go to classy hotels. We feel perfectly comfortable getting between the sheets and doing whatever. However, the room is usually a complete fucking mess by the time we're done with it. The only problem I've had inside the club is ashtrays not being emptied or too many empty bottles lying around, so not a huge problem.

"NiceSpice just scared me! I feel stalked now! All strippers are looking for me?" I actually consider it quite flattering when a stripper stalks me. Yes, it's about the money, but I'd rather give it to the girl who goes the extra miles and makes an effort to impress me rather than just going through the motions. I've been constantly changing my sign-in over the past 18 months over paranoid delusions that my CF reads everything I write. She's made some comments in the past that really showed that she was on to me, so I changed sign-ins and stopped reviewing her club. I don't think she reads this anymore. I told her a couple of jackslahes's jokes over the weekend. I could tell from her response that she hadn't heard them before, but having told them, I'm now a little afraid that she won't see me again . . . life can be so difficult when you spend all your free time trying to win the pseudo-affection of a stripper.

"I freaking love you, 8ball lol!" It feels so genuine to hear that from a girl who I've never given money to. Thank you nicespice! Just curious - what's the worst thing on your criminal record?

""The ones with criminal records were easy to spot, but the actual nature of their convictions can be surprising." Do tell. Like, are we talking petty anty crimes or something serious like, IDK, say (attempted) murder?" two_bits - she was a sweet girl with a troubled past. What I was expecting to see was maybe some possession charges and perhaps solicitation. What I saw was grand theft auto and domestic battery. I stopped seeing her when she attempted to blackmail me over $50. If she'd have been willing to work for it she's have walked away with a lot more than $50. I still kind of miss her. But my current CF blows her out of the water.

What I still don't understand is why he cares so much when it comes to a girl he's seen OTC 3 times in 2 years. If you saw her regularly these things would unfold. She'd eventually have you pick her up and drop her off at her door instead of down the street, ask for other favors, and you would gradually find out all sorts of things about her, probably more than you cared to know. I do a background check once I get the last night, but i don't stalk the shit out of them trying to get the last name. I told my CF that I looked her up as soon as I learned her last name and she thought it was funny. Unlike other girls, though, she has a lot of accomplishments an is proud of the things I saw. but if I'd only seen the girl 3 times OTC I wouldn't really care. And the ones on drugs will never come clean about what they're holding until you get pulled over and it's too late. There's no amount of research that can prevent that from happening.

"So there's this stripper I've OTC with like 3 times over about a 2 year period" If I saw a girl this infrequently I'm not so sure I'd be concerned with her real name or her past. I have run background checks on girls I saw more frequently. Some were violent offenders, others were high school honor students. The ones with criminal records were easy to spot, but the actual nature of their convictions can be surprising. In the long run I think your gut feeling about a person holds more weight than their record.

"Seemed like a low mileage dive" Now, now, that's no way to talk about two_bits' mom's place of employment.

I saw it happen once in Indianapolis at PTs. The girl and the customer were both incredibly unattractive. I didn't stay long.

"@8-ball - so where are you gonna sell your food stamps now?" I've stopped selling them in an effort to help your mom fight her obesity problem!!!

Having been inside this place I have to wonder (1) why it took a 5 month investigation, and (2) why they even bothered. It's almost as if the authorities had something against both of the customers that patronized this shithole club.

I can't help this one. I only club where they hire classy girls, not truck stop whores. Maybe two_bits has some advice for her, though.

"Weird she would cut you off for that you should have pursued it" Girl had some serious issues. When the SS goes in the direction of "you're the only customer I've ever felt this way about" it gets seriously weird fast, but her tears made it believable.

Mnaz - I like your response. You were able to pick C without being a schmuck about it. I started out with C because when I first started this I was young enough to legitimately date those girls, and even though I now understand why that was ignorant on my part, I truly feel that they'd have been better off with me instead of their deadbeat boyfriends. After that it progressed to A and B, but lately I feel like I'm stick in D. I usually take a break from this shit every now and again, but I've found this CF who is so fucking amazing that I really don't want to. She might move on or who knows what, so I really want stick around while I can. I think she gets that this can't be a long-term path for her, and I know I'll miss her when she's gone, but when that does happen I feel like i'm going to need a serious (if not permanent) break from clubbing. When she's not there I feel like I'm settling for second (or third, or fourth . . .or tenth) best anyways.

It all depends on the girl and how much she's making without you. I would try to view it more in terms of a percent of her income rather than a flat dollar amount. But why do you care? You should be doing this for you, not for her? Just like she's doing it for herself, not for you. It's a strange world. When I get burnt out on it and complain about how fake clubbing can feel after a while, my CF listens, but she doesn't really care.

I'm starting to feel better now. I still had my buddy over last night, and though I was tired, I don't think he suspected anything. I exercise and eat right, but drinking with a 20-something from 3pm until 3am is really taking a toll on me. I'm thinking about cutting the alcohol (just mine, not hers) out of the equation and maybe adding in another girl instead. We'll see how that goes.

I like to think my CF would miss me, because she probably would . . . but it is a money thing . . .

She is!

She fell in love with me and cut me off. Other than that it's usually because it takes them hours longer to meet up than initially promised and I'm at the club getting dances in order to forget them. But I'll stick around if she's good enough that this is worth putting up with.

The one who actually developed feelings for me went out of her way to treat me like less than a customer, until the night she broke down crying and told me we couldn't do this anymore. All of the others have given it the requisite amount of effort, except my CF who goes above and beyond.

I only smoke after sex . . . so that pack a day habit is indeed starting to take it's toll on me . . .