When bouncers step in

Titus23
Kansas
I mentioned last week about a dancer tripping and falling when she was coming over to meet me. Well, I went back to that club this week to spend some more time with her. She's a pre-law student at a prestigious local university. Sharp as a tack, and gorgeous to boot. We spent about 5 hours talking before we even thought about dances. We read eachother things we've written, shared pictures from facebook, etc. The connection felt natural. After a while, she told me she was afraid to ask if I wanted dances because she didn't want to ruin what we were having. I told her I felt similarly, but would enjoy the opportunity to have a bit of privacy with her.

We went to VIP for about an hour or so. While we were in there, she started by telling me she normally didn't allow touching above the shoulders. She's dancing and we're talking, and things are shifting away from current court cases and more towards the erotic. At one point, she turned and asked me how I would choke her. I explained a blood choke to her, and how her trachea would be unharmed. She replied simply with choke me. As she laid back across my chest, I wrapped my arm around her and started squeezing her throat. My hand had caught some of her hair, and I could feel it pulling tight.

As I squeezed, I was careful to release every now and then so she wouldn't black out. We kept dancing and eventually the hair pulling got more intense, as did the choking. At one point, she tilted her face to me, and I leaned in, our lips mere millimeters from contact. I felt a tap on my leg and looked up. The bouncer was there, standing over us, and he tapped his lips. Watch the mouth he said to me. I shook my head yah, sure pal, and pulled back a bit. After he walked away, the dancer asked me what happened. We both shared a laugh about how the guy was perfectly fine with me nearly choking her out, or pulling her hair, but was worried that my mouth might touch her.

After about half an hour, we moved from that area to another more private area. She put us in one of the corners and told me that the cameras couldn't see us there. We spent the rest of the night in there, not really dancing, but holding eachother and whispering about various things. Conversation slowly died down as we stared into eachother. She leaned into me, resting her forehead on mine, our noses brushing together as she leaned in. She brushed her hair forward to cover our faces, and hidden, we finally kissed.

Skipping forward a bit to the end of the night, she grabbed my phone and put her number into it, telling me to call her so we can get together. I asked her how many dances we had so I could pay her, and she laughed. No idea she said. Just give me whatever you want. I gave her what I had and we sat waiting on the club to close. We couldn't help but think back to the bouncer. I mean, seriously.. I'm choking the shit outta her, nearly yanking her hair out, but no.. He stops me for almost touching her with my lips. We both thought that was pretty funny.


So, TUSCLers, do you have any good stories about bouncers trying to step in, but completely missing the plot?

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max_starr
7 years ago
oh you need to OTC.....you can't expect the bouncers to give you free reign....so funny I just mentioned choking in a post...
max_starr
7 years ago
I used to forget the rules when back in the club with my atf.....bouncer would come running over screaming at me...lol....I then found he couldn't see far at all....so we'd sit in one particular area and break the rules like crazy as long as he stayed in his chair..
shailynn
7 years ago
The slow con.
Salty.Nutz
7 years ago
^^^yes, the slow con and its always these pre-med/law students. Funny how they are always at the club but still have time to go to law/med school. they are excellent time managers.

Bouncers arent that nice, i usually just leave before i get beat up, rolled in carpet and get thrown in the trunk of my car
RandomMember
7 years ago
"She's a pre-law student at a prestigious local university. "
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As far as I know, there aren't any prestigious universities in Kansas -- only corn fields and cattle.

I have to wonder about you, @Titus? Irresistible 29-yr-old guy. Why do you bother with paying for sex in strip clubs?
Titus23
7 years ago
@random - I don't pay for sex. I've never paid for extras or for an escort. I am married though. She's fine with what I do and knows everything. I also have anxiety in social situations, so the club provides an environment devoid of that pressure.

As for Kansas universities, there are a few big ones, particularly in the basketball world.

For those saying slow con. Maybe. We'll see.
twentyfive
7 years ago
^^^With prestigious law schools according to Wiki two legal programs U.of K. & Washburn between them less than 230 lawyers graduate annually doesn’t exactly sound like NYU or Columbia.
Titus23
7 years ago
I wasn't implying its a prestigious law school. Just that the school itself is well known. I certainly didn't expect that part of my post to cause the most consternation. There must be a significant contingent of lawyers on TUSCL.
twentyfive
7 years ago
Not a lawyer just laughed at the combo >prestigious law school in Kansas.< Now if she was studying agriculture we might be impressed. ;)
Salty.Nutz
7 years ago
your phone is unblocked? did she snatch if from you, thats rude
Titus23
7 years ago
@25 - I just thought it was fun to have a two hour conversation about some of the recent laws that were passed. She's writing a paper on SESTA/FOSTA for one of her classes and shared some of it with me. She's very sharp. A lot different from some of the other dancers I talk to about how certain drugs don't mix well.

@salty - she asked for it and I handed it to her. Nothing bad there.
Cashman1234
7 years ago
Glad you had a great time. It seems that you connected with a great dancer.

Hopefully things will go nicely otc too.

I agree. It’s bizarre where bouncers draw lines. However, I’m glad it didn’t effect your experience too much.
Titus23
7 years ago
@cash - we both just thought it was funny. Literally no problem with me choking the shit outta the girl, but oops, my lips brushed her neck.

We talked a lot via text yesterday and things are looking good for another get together in a few weeks.
larryfisherman
7 years ago
5 hours talking to her in the club before dances? Goodness gracious! Good luck, don’t get addicted or fall in love with her, it won’t end up well.
Titus23
7 years ago
@Larry - that's pretty standard for me. I'm a 7-close kinda guy. I don't do dances often, and there's more than a few nights that I'll just sit on the couch and shoot the shit. One of the dancers I hang out with knows to bring a sweatshirt and slippers when I come in. She gets comfy and we chill.
Salty.Nutz
7 years ago
Strippers usually hate it when celebrities go to the club and dont spend any money. you most have game then...Other than your looks, do you mind sharing a few conversation topics you share at the club? is this a skill you learned or are you a natural? im envious
ppwh
7 years ago
The strangest thing to me was going to a club with one-way couch dances and cameras all over the couch room. I had been giving the dancer a back massage while we waited for our dance to start which was fine by everyone. As soon as the song started, though, a bouncer came back to put an end to it since the couch dances were one-way. Prior to that, I had always figured that spending money meant getting more leeway than in the front room rather than less.
Dolfan
7 years ago
A few years ago I was getting dances at a club nearby that's generally fairly low mileage, but wasn't always. We were in the last little cubby at the end of the aisle with no cutout in the wall separating it from the main club. At the time, it was generally known that's where the "bad" dancers went, but bad usually meant maybe a little FIV or a quick hands up the pants. Well, on this evening we took it a little further. She was on top of me cowgirl and we were fucking. I had my hands on her ass and she had leaned in with her head and long hair on my shoulder away from the wall so neither of us could really see what was going on beyond us. We were like that for probably 15-20 minutes or so when a bouncer came and kinda gently grabbed my forearm and said "watch the hands buddy" and waited for me to reply and move my hands before moving.

We sat there kinda both shocked for what felt like another 15 minutes but was probably more like 30 seconds. I put my hands on her hips and we both looked over at him. He stood there for a second & she kinda went back to grinding on me while he sat there at watched. Then he nodded his approval and walked away.

She & I laughed about that a few times when I went back. Shortly after that the club management changed and it started going to shit.
gothamyte
7 years ago
I enjoyed reading that, Titus

All I ever get from bouncers are flashlights on me like he's cop
lolruned
7 years ago
UK is a prestigious basketball school but prestigious law school?
Titus23
7 years ago
@Salty - I feel like you're taking the piss, as my British friends say. I spend plenty of money, I'm not a celeb, and while I work out and have abs and muscles, I'm not exactly a stunner. I take care of myself first and foremost, and when I go to the club, I dress sharp and make an effort to be my best self. I treat dancers with respect. I treat them like women first, and I compensate them for their time. I don't generally agree with SJG, but he's right when he says that dancers appreciate being treated like regular women. If you go in wearing gym shorts and looking for a cheap fuck, dancers aren't going to like you very much. If you don't care if they like you, great. Personally, I do care. I find it's more fun if they want to be around me as opposed to just doing it because I'm paying.

@lolruned - as I mentioned before, nowhere did I say it's a prestigious law school. Simply implying that it's a well known school.
flagooner
7 years ago
@ gothamyte. I know the feeling. It's either a flashlight or one of those laser pen lights.
stripfighter
7 years ago
For the most benign, was playing with my fave's thong, slowly pulling it away to get a sneak peek until a bouncer grabbed my hand and pulled it away. First instinct was to get upset and eye fuck him, but then realized time with the fave is better spent focused on her... and did the next best thing; I busted her chops. IE we laughed about it and I blamed it all on her, always getting me into trouble.
Salty.Nutz
7 years ago
Im only asking questions, this sounds more like the extremes than the norm. Its seems i dont get treated like you due to wearing gym shorts. more power to you
Titus23
7 years ago
It could also be that I'm very selective with who I spend my money on. I don't get dances unless I'm able to make a connection on some level. That probably lends itself to me finding the dancers that are willing/interested in putting in the same investment in time and emotion.
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