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6 years ago
So to answer your original question, yes strippers are often unreliable, but what it sounds to me is going on here is you found a girl you'd like to date, or be friends with that happens to be a stripper. You probably had an amazing conversation with her at the club, and you both really hit it off. You asked her to meet you out sometime and she accepted. She might have thought it was going to be a paid date, or pay for play, and then you were just like, wow, this is so much fun we should hang out more often. No offense to you, but she was probably like, "well, that was a waste of x hours" because at the end of the night, she still had the same amount of money in her pocket as when she started, maybe less if she took an uber to and from.
It's possible she just wanted to hang out too, and didn't expect anything in return, but I think it's more possible that she thought the first date was a business transaction, or at least a way to get you to come back to the club to spend some money on her again.
You could suggest to her the next time you ask her to hang out that you'll pay her for her time. You might want to find out what she thinks her time is worth before the next meetup. if she says, 250 or whatever price, you should confirm what that's for. I don't like to come totally out and say stuff over txt messages, so I'd say something like, "ok, for 250 we should have a lot of fun, right?"
The end goal, I'd assume for you, is to get her back to your place or a hotel, so you don't want to pay her until that happens. If she wants money just for the nonsexual date, you could say something like, "oh, I must have misunderstood, I thought I'd pay you after we got back to my place" and see where things go from there. If she 100% just wanted to hang out, have a few beers and chat, I'd make it clear early on that that was not what you thought you were paying for. Say you'll pay for her drinks and food if she still wants to hang out (she's already out at this point, so she'll probably at least get a drink), maybe offer to pay the uber bill, but don't cave in and give her money. She knows what needs to happen to earn it at this point.
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6 years ago
Are you paying for these OTC dates/hang outs? And the one you did have, was it sex or just you meeting up somewhere to talk? If you paid, how much did you pay?
If you are giving her, say 250, to skip a shift at work, thats not worth it for her, so you could always offer a little more. If it's just a "free" hang out session, and she's just getting a free meal and drinks out of you, she's probably got a lot of better options from a money point of view.
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6 years ago
That's pretty funny. A very cute bra I assume? Maybe it should be your new avatar?
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6 years ago
Ha!
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6 years ago
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ItsmytimeI’ve had enough and I can’t take it any more
I often get an similar first impression (minus the b-hole), but most of the girls don't let me repeat on my next visit, so I move onto the next. I've got a new girl in the running to take on the ATF title, and she's letting me get away with a lot for Chicago standards.
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6 years ago
$20 that Ivanka Trump is first female president.
But I would absolutely LOVE if on trumps last day of his 2nd term he "identified" as a 100% black female. Obama was only half black, so Trump would be the first 100% black president, and first woman...glass ceiling shattered. And first trans president, so whatever barrier breaks there. Liberals would lose their shit, because if they don't support him, they are anti lbgtqfsxynjk, or whatever it's called now.
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6 years ago
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san_jose_guymoney was invented for handing to women, but buying dances is a chump's game
I had sex with a girl at her parents house, she was like 22 and still living at home, the whole time I kept thinking this bed is so fucking loud. Next morning I found out they had some family get together, and the house was packed with people in every corner, including grandma that was like 1 room away. Grandma kept telling us how loud we were talking last night, and the step dad had a smirk on his face the whole time. Question I have years later is why did I join them for breakfast the next morning instead of trying to climb out the window?
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6 years ago
I have girls sit with me for hours. I told one once, it's ok if you need to dance for other guys, I know you gotta pay some bills. And she looked at me with a smile and said, yeah, but you pay the rent. So if you spend enough you'll have a best friend all night. Last saturday a girl sat with me from 10pm until 3:30, but she made some good $ off me, and earned every penny.
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6 years ago
Maybe women only troll when it's that time of the month??? Kidding...Nicole how about genuine and respectful guys that think they are funny an give a little tongue in cheek sexist jab every once in a while? ;-)
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6 years ago
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LinzeeDetPussy tighter than a LA parking spot
https://m.modelmayhem.com/portfolio/4100861/viewall
Some of these are pretty nice
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6 years ago
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LinzeeDetPussy tighter than a LA parking spot
www.patreon.com/linzeedetroit
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6 years ago
I've seen the clipped off string sticking out a tiny bit before, and had one girl let me know I couldn't finger her this time which I assumed meant it was her time. It doesn't bother me that much. They still gotta make their money.
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6 years ago
I knew a 20 year old that kept turning down a 70+ year olds request to DATY. She said he kept increasing the price and got up to a grand but she didnt do extras and was disgusted at the thought of that old of a guy doing that to her. I'm much younger and shes always let me tickel the kitty for "free" since I was already paying her.
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6 years ago
I think it's an anti troll technique, no guy wants to complement another guys appearance, even if it's fake. I think a lot of guy criticized your looks when they thought you were a troll. You'd know better than I would, but I'd assume a lot of that dropped once you did the picture with the tuscl 2018, and once nicespice vouched for you, I think you have very few haters, if any that still rip on you physical appearance.
once guys knew you were real, I felt like I noticed more compliments towards you regarding your avatar.
or if guys don't like you, they're keeping that to themselves now, since it's pretty mean to tell a girl they aren't super cute and wouldn't kill it in the senate, and they're not gonna murder their next test. ;)
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6 years ago
You could do anal?
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6 years ago
Only if you'll be my senator
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6 years ago
<3 u :-)
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6 years ago
Nicole, these aren't going to make you happy, but they are totally making your point. I couldn't stop laughing, mostly because I'm an asshole. Hope you feel better
http://southpark.cc.com/clips/nf1ykr/what-else-is-going-on#source=473fef35-48a7-434c-afc6-207874c7f1a3:55f371bf-5a97-4152-a636-52e1d7dc09b2&position=8&sort=playlist
http://southpark.cc.com/clips/gxmpq5/crazy-time#source=473fef35-48a7-434c-afc6-207874c7f1a3:4476eb5c-71c0-4661-a5d8-02365654ab7e&position=5&sort=playlist
http://southpark.cc.com/clips/l0hhpf/a-super-period#source=473fef35-48a7-434c-afc6-207874c7f1a3:c5aad1cc-30ca-498d-9789-82d33989a4f2&position=11&sort=playlist
http://southpark.cc.com/clips/5l7yzd/helpless-and-angry#source=08f60a6f-24a8-4d88-88a3-eb5588494cbc:896b2aa3-ac17-11e8-b956-70df2f866ace&position=9&sort=views
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6 years ago
So Nicole, I take it you did NOT watch the new eppisode of South Park on Wednesday?
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6 years ago
Was it me? I PM you because you are smart, super cute and will crush it on the Senate floor ;-)
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6 years ago
I had the host walk in on me in a CR and say, "it's a gentleman's club. You need to act like a gentleman" I was spanking this chick REALLY hard...because she kept say "spank me harder"
We laughed after he left, but one of the few times I've been interrupted during a back room make out session.
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6 years ago
I just dont know what the FBI would ever have to do with this. She is saying he committed a crime (by today's standards) but this would be a local police issue assuming the statute of limitations is not up. Why would the Feds look into this, just because he is up for a federal office?
I know I've been drunk a a party or club in my youth and got "aggressive" with girls, just walk up and start dancing/grinding on them during a song, if they shoot u down, you typically move on. Heck, I remember I pinned a girl against a wall once while we were making out at a party (I dont think I could pick her out of a lineup of 2 years later). It was a heat of the moment thing, she didnt seem to mind. If later on, 30 years later on, she said that she felt threatened, I dont know how I could ever defend myself other to say she didnt seem to mind at the time, that's assuming I remember the girl at all. If someone asked me about a certain girl on a drunken night, I dont think I'd ever remember, thus I'd probably deny doing it.
If I raped someone, I'm pretty sure I'd remember that. But shes not claiming rape, shes claiming sexual assault which probably every one of us could technically be charged with. Even u dancers could sexually assult someone....I thought we just go in VIP and talk, then she took her clothes off and jumped on my lap and started rubbing her butt on my groin.
I'm guessing something did happen, but shes making it sound much worse than she or ANYONE at the time thought it was. I'm guessing he tried something when he was drunk, she said no or someone walked in or whatever and he stopped, and left. Apparently stopping falls in the same rhelm as full on rape now days.
End of the day I think everything is being used to delay to the midterms, dems hope the power swing and they can block any pick outright. An FBI investigation would certainly put it past midterms. I think Trump should announce his backup pick, someone unapologetically Christian, unapologetically anti roe v wade, anti big government, just the most conservative, far right wing guy possible, a guy that makes Kavanaugh look like a liberal. See how quick they democrats vote to confirm this "sexual predator" then.
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6 years ago
The bathroom troll only annoys me for 2 minutes, 3 or 4 times a night, one or two nights a week. Tuscl trolls annoy me a lot more often. My vote is for tuscl trolls
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I don't feel like I've had to logon in a few days, before I think I had to login every few hours.
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6 years ago
Right