Sex In The Home Of Your Parents?
san_jose_guy
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This is something I had thought about years ago.
I don't think it ever would have been possible. Things never that cool, just too freaky. Not workable.
Maybe moving out marrying, moving back in, like financial troubles? I don't know.
But any less situation, still under 18yo, still in high school. No way.
Parents not opposed to the sex, but still would not allow it in their home, i am sure.
But with Elliot Rodger, living in Topanga Canyon, he was irritated that his younger full sister, Georgia, 16yo, was going to be having sex in the home of her father Peter and step mother. Elliot would be hearing this. Writing about it in his Manifesto.
This irritated him because of his own virginity. But he was not saying anyone was doing anything wrong.
If the parents wanted it to be as safe as possible, I guess that would be the way. Read in a novel about something like this, Richard North Patterson.
For people here, would that have been possible, sex in the home of their parents, and not by stealth, with full knowledge and consent, and when they were home? And regularly? Getting a girl on contraception?
Approving the partner before hand?
SJG
I don't think it ever would have been possible. Things never that cool, just too freaky. Not workable.
Maybe moving out marrying, moving back in, like financial troubles? I don't know.
But any less situation, still under 18yo, still in high school. No way.
Parents not opposed to the sex, but still would not allow it in their home, i am sure.
But with Elliot Rodger, living in Topanga Canyon, he was irritated that his younger full sister, Georgia, 16yo, was going to be having sex in the home of her father Peter and step mother. Elliot would be hearing this. Writing about it in his Manifesto.
This irritated him because of his own virginity. But he was not saying anyone was doing anything wrong.
If the parents wanted it to be as safe as possible, I guess that would be the way. Read in a novel about something like this, Richard North Patterson.
For people here, would that have been possible, sex in the home of their parents, and not by stealth, with full knowledge and consent, and when they were home? And regularly? Getting a girl on contraception?
Approving the partner before hand?
SJG
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I can’t comprehend how SJG even thinks somebody is interested in his topic on a strip club website. You’d think he’d strike it up on another forum. Strange indeed.
I remember only getting a few hours during school as the only time allotted for me to visit my girlfriend, between classes. The nights and even weekends were tied up with team activities.
I was lifting weights at Tobin’s house with Squi and Donkey dong Doug, trying out the Devil’s Triangle. Lol!
Sex in the home was generally tolerated. Typically my family would leave and make it self scarce when I had a girl over. Ditto for most of my GFs moms. Usually her mom's advice would be: sex is okay as long as you use protection and it's not a one night stand. You should love him. .... nearly all of my GFs found this advice unsatisfactory. Really felt it was too permissive. But that was a time when parents wanted to be our friends instead of a parent.
girls were often on the pill, esp. ones like nicole1994 who were deathly afraid of getting pregnant. Mom would get it, and if dad was in the picture, he was kept in the dark. condoms could be had for free at planned parenthood in the lobby. I don't think I ever bought a condom until I was 25. I always grabbed free ones.
parents (not always mine) typically provided beer. Though at 16 I found I could buy my own, and usually did so and I helped buy for others, if they gave me $$$. I skipped drugs.
Didn't have to approve of the partner. Though I never had a problem with the girl's mom (or dad, in the odd case a dad was in the picture. one girl did have two gay dads and no mom). My mom never had a problem with any of my girls. Though she liked and encouraged some strongly more than others, just looking out for me.
I did a metric ton of extracurricular activities (most of us college bound people were that way). That was how I met nearly all my GFs esp. the cheerleaders.
Like Dom said, being in high school in the 90s when I went to a girls house the parents were 1 of 2 ways - either on us like glue or they would hide or even leave.
The initial topic reminded me of that movie. However, it’s SJG, who lives in his parents basement. So does masturbating in a LazyBoy recliner - while wearing a crusty pair of Fruit of the Looms - count as sex in SJG’s parents house?
To be able to live freely it meant living away from them, and not just about sex, and anything and everything.
I have a hard time picturing it with a girl 16yo. But I am not saying it is wrong either. There could be legal questions, as the law is vague in this area of minor on minor sex.
In the case of the Pentecostal man whom I helped put into San Quentin, the daughters having sex at the age of 16 sent him ballistic and inaugurated the extremes of abuse and humiliation. And I sat there in the court room as the Jury got to view a picture that he had the eldest girl pose for near a creek in a park where she had had sex with her boyfriend. He went on for months and months trying to humiliate her in every way possible.
And someone sent me a link to a sermon recording from a local church where they had a guest speaker, a transgender woman, who says she was spiritually abused by a Pentecostal church. Now, her lifes work is trying to protect children from these sorts of abuse, and in churches, and in families.
But this still does not mean that all issues are resolved, not at all.
Thanks everyone for the info,
SJG
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( Libertarianism / Social Darwinism is always the propaganda machine for Fascism )
SJG
So at least from my own experience, they are totally poisonous to your own intimate relationships.
SJG
Just another piece of the puzzle from the fragmented mind of a psychopath.
SJG
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Today this woman's life's work is to protect the children. And I know this has to mean at home and in churches.
I feel that this is great and that this church invited her to speak. Alot of people grow up in shitty situations.
SJG
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