Sex In The Home Of Your Parents?

If this isn’t proof of high level faggitry, then there is no justice for real men in this world. WTF?

I can’t comprehend how SJG even thinks somebody is interested in his topic on a strip club website. You’d think he’d strike it up on another forum. Strange indeed.

It depends on the family. Not unheard of though. I lived with an ex-boyfriend and his family, and the bf and I would sleep in the same bed together.

If your too preoccupied with sex on a constant basis and you didn’t have something else to occupy your time, yeah what else is a teenager going to do besides sex, drugs, and rock n roll. That whybthise who were supervised were also encouraged to partake in extra curricular activities. It’s why jocks got laid a lot without trying, they were the upper hanging fruit and usually the only ones who could get the attention of the cheerleaders.

I remember only getting a few hours during school as the only time allotted for me to visit my girlfriend, between classes. The nights and even weekends were tied up with team activities.

I was lifting weights at Tobin’s house with Squi and Donkey dong Doug, trying out the Devil’s Triangle. Lol!

I had a very long-term GF during my 20s while in college and beyond, and I would sleep over at her parent's house with her parents full knowledge. It was assumed that we would get married at some point. 5.5 yrs later she left me for someone else and married her new BF within about a month after leaving me.

I'm pretty sure this is a thing that varies per person. Not all parents would be cool with it but some would be

in the 1990s the assumption was we would eventually still get married. I think us late Gen Xers might have been the last generation where our parents really asked and encouraged, "so when are the two of you getting married?" even as minors.

Sex in the home was generally tolerated. Typically my family would leave and make it self scarce when I had a girl over. Ditto for most of my GFs moms. Usually her mom's advice would be: sex is okay as long as you use protection and it's not a one night stand. You should love him. .... nearly all of my GFs found this advice unsatisfactory. Really felt it was too permissive. But that was a time when parents wanted to be our friends instead of a parent.

girls were often on the pill, esp. ones like nicole1994 who were deathly afraid of getting pregnant. Mom would get it, and if dad was in the picture, he was kept in the dark. condoms could be had for free at planned parenthood in the lobby. I don't think I ever bought a condom until I was 25. I always grabbed free ones.

parents (not always mine) typically provided beer. Though at 16 I found I could buy my own, and usually did so and I helped buy for others, if they gave me $$$. I skipped drugs.

Didn't have to approve of the partner. Though I never had a problem with the girl's mom (or dad, in the odd case a dad was in the picture. one girl did have two gay dads and no mom). My mom never had a problem with any of my girls. Though she liked and encouraged some strongly more than others, just looking out for me.

I did a metric ton of extracurricular activities (most of us college bound people were that way). That was how I met nearly all my GFs esp. the cheerleaders.

Sometimes my hoes will try to do their thing with their clients in one of my mansions. Then I got to straighten their ass out.

I had sex with a girl at her parents house, she was like 22 and still living at home, the whole time I kept thinking this bed is so fucking loud. Next morning I found out they had some family get together, and the house was packed with people in every corner, including grandma that was like 1 room away. Grandma kept telling us how loud we were talking last night, and the step dad had a smirk on his face the whole time. Question I have years later is why did I join them for breakfast the next morning instead of trying to climb out the window?

I had sex with a stripper in her parents' house. The parents were not home and did not know about it.

San Jose Guy does your mommy left you bring goats into the house?

Like Dom said, being in high school in the 90s when I went to a girls house the parents were 1 of 2 ways - either on us like glue or they would hide or even leave.

Lost my virginity at 14 in my own bed. Dad made his house available to all of us except my sister for sex once we were over 16, when he was away. Mom bought me the "sensuous man" when I was 16. I was having sex with a neighbor girl at 16 when her dad caught us, while it seems funny now that he shot me with rock salt, it sure seemed less funny back then.

I can almost hear that Jackson Brown song - Somebody’s Baby - from that sex scene in Fast Times at Ridgemont High playing!

The initial topic reminded me of that movie. However, it’s SJG, who lives in his parents basement. So does masturbating in a LazyBoy recliner - while wearing a crusty pair of Fruit of the Looms - count as sex in SJG’s parents house?

Well, a lot of you grew up in much cooler circumstances than I did. My parents knew that sex would be occuring, and in principle they were not against such. But in practice that was as far as their tolerance went, just principle, not fact.

To be able to live freely it meant living away from them, and not just about sex, and anything and everything.

I have a hard time picturing it with a girl 16yo. But I am not saying it is wrong either. There could be legal questions, as the law is vague in this area of minor on minor sex.

In the case of the Pentecostal man whom I helped put into San Quentin, the daughters having sex at the age of 16 sent him ballistic and inaugurated the extremes of abuse and humiliation. And I sat there in the court room as the Jury got to view a picture that he had the eldest girl pose for near a creek in a park where she had had sex with her boyfriend. He went on for months and months trying to humiliate her in every way possible.

And someone sent me a link to a sermon recording from a local church where they had a guest speaker, a transgender woman, who says she was spiritually abused by a Pentecostal church. Now, her lifes work is trying to protect children from these sorts of abuse, and in churches, and in families.

But this still does not mean that all issues are resolved, not at all.

Thanks everyone for the info, SJG

Things really were never very cool in the home of my parents. For me, personhood did depend upon getting away from them. So it goes.

SJG

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If one has to defend their personhood in their parents home, then it is very hard to ever open up anywhere else until things are changed.

SJG

Sometimes one's parents are just part of an older world. Often they are not living in Good Faith either, they are not admitting the choices that they have made.

So at least from my own experience, they are totally poisonous to your own intimate relationships.

SJG

^^^ Well this helps explain a lot about the psychological mishaps of tuscl’s very own goat fucker.

Just another piece of the puzzle from the fragmented mind of a psychopath.

Many people have had to literally escape from the Family of Origin. Then they find themselves in a world which worships the middle-class family. But upon closer inspection it almost never really holds up.

SJG

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Listened to a sunday sermon someone sent me from a mainline Protestant church. They had a guest speaker, a Transgender Woman. She is convinced that she was spiritually abused by Assemblies of God, with all of their shaming and the pressure to make Chastity Pledges.

Today this woman's life's work is to protect the children. And I know this has to mean at home and in churches.

I feel that this is great and that this church invited her to speak. Alot of people grow up in shitty situations.

SJG

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Generational conflict can be intense. The child's adolescence can intersect with the parent's mid life crisis. The family can become a cruel and crippling trap.

SJG

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^^^^^^ :) :) :)

SJG