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6 years ago
How do you know you’re becoming a RIL before it’s too late?flagooner’s last bit of observations and advice are spot on
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6 years ago
JohnTitordon't sweat the petty things-pet the sweaty things
question for strippers and females"Don't eat asparagus. Eat pineapple.”
I read an interview of Sasha Grey in Rolling Stone or some other mag and that was her response. She also said alcohol makes it taste bad
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6 years ago
Rate this pose^*stage name
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6 years ago
Rate this poseWas at a club a few months ago and dancer did that in a room, it was rad.
@JamesSD, if your user handle means you’re in San Diego, the club is Pacers in San Diego and the girl’s state name is Lydia
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6 years ago
Dancers with whom mileage increases at no corresponding price increase as the reMy 1.5 seconds of fame, and it happened on tuscl. Who woulda thought. I am complete now. But bumping my own quasi thread like SJG makes me ashamed - I’m going to descend into my basement lair and fantasize about my organization. Perhaps my increasing mileage CF will descend with me
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6 years ago
Top Pet Peeve at the SCClubs that charge fee for access to VIP area
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6 years ago
Top Pet Peeve at the SCPeeves
-When a PL takes money that floated off the stage and sticks it in his pocket instead of throwing it back onstage.
-Dancers with armpit BO.
-Clubs so worried about their liquor license that bouncers and waitresses try to take your drink from you at 1:45 AM.
-Dancers I've never met who use the line, "Oh we had such a great time in VIP last time, let's do it again."
-PLs that attempt to interrupt and speak with dancer you're with.
-Cocktail waitresses that you pay with a bill larger than $20 and they don't bring your change and you have to get up from your table to chase them down. Has only happened once but it was bullshit. I must have been visibly drunk to her, but not too drunk to not notice what she did.
Awesome
-Hot dancers at non extras club that unleash unsolicited DFK (that it happens in the front room is an unfounded SJG myth)
-Dancers with whom mileage increases at no corresponding price increase as the regular relationship develops
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6 years ago
Where was this when I was 13?—>”Also, if the sexes were reversed, you'd all want the teacher stoned to death.”
So true, and justifiably so. If roles were reversed, there can be no justification for a 28 year old man touching a 13 year old girl
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6 years ago
The power of the waitress refferal?—>@Papi: “I don't trust anyone to get/pick a dancer for me - seems more often than not they are looking out for the dancer's interest instead of mine”
^This. And the recommender may also be looking out for own interest in form of getting tips from the recommended dancer.
Very occasionally I’ll ask a floor guy or manger for intel on which girls give a good grind in dances but only if I’m already acquainted with the floor guy / manager. Has resulted well, found my CF that way
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6 years ago
What age was the oldest stripper you had ever seen at the club?38. MILFs are hot if they're in good shape. Older ones that are less flaky than the sub-25 girls are appealing to me.
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6 years ago
Nicknames for BusinessesTarget - Targhe Boutique
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6 years ago
How could I have salvaged this situation...OP, I read your post as saying you proceeded to the dance area before it all broke down. The dance area is the dividing line here IMO.
I don't know how your clubs are laid out. Most clubs I go to there is the bar, there is the stage and rail, there is the open floor, and then there are dance areas (with dedicated chairs, couches, booths, and/or rooms for getting dances). Once I take the girl to the dance area, my purpose and her reasonable expectation is that I'm getting dances and the dances are going to start at beginning of next song.
If you hadn't actually taken her to dance area and were instead in open floor chairs then there's room for your stated position but there's certainly also room for hers based on you saying you "walked right over and asked if she was busy and told her I was interested in a dance." If where you took her was the dance area, you should've started your dance at beginning of next song and not asked her to wait yet another song.
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6 years ago
Should there be guidelines for Trust ?Trust guidelines = unnecessary rules for almost entirely unmoderated site
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6 years ago
How could I have salvaged this situation...^Sounds like a good and not overwhelmingly expensive strategy if you don't care much about a decent view of what's occurring on stage which at most clubs doesn't happen from the bar.
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6 years ago
JohnTitordon't sweat the petty things-pet the sweaty things
Was Obama a dogshit POTUS?Affordable Care Act is complete shit, cannot be financially sustained, skyrocketing premiums for those who don't qualify, and coverages cancelled despite promises to contrary. The whole system should have been blown up.
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6 years ago
JohnTitordon't sweat the petty things-pet the sweaty things
Was Obama a dogshit POTUS?IMO he accomplished nothing of positive significance. He had Democrat majority in both houses years 1-2, Democrat House and Republican Senate years 3-4, and Republican majority both houses years 5-8. Not an easy task to get significant items on his agenda done years 3-8 with Republicans controlling one or both houses.
Though I didn't favor most of his policies, as far as I could tell he had good ethics and gave thoughtful consideration to opposing views, which is more than can be said for the Oval Office's current occupant IMO.
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6 years ago
SubramanCar key and wallet dating your sister
[SJGs Basement] I'm in here right now...This is some funny shit. All except for SJG's posts on it
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6 years ago
CristobalI give in to sin because you have to make this life livable
Gifts for DancersI've never been asked by stripper for any favor or any gift big or small, thank god. A major request would be denied anyway and be a turnoff. As for SS, I've gotten the oh I've had a bad day or a bad week which I took as digging for gifts or big tips and I've ignored it. Also for SS, I've also heard the oh I have this awesome regular who paid my tuition or bought me a car blah blah blah, ignored it too because I didn't believe it and even if I did I'm not that guy, thank you TUSCL.
I've given small gifts to a CF unsolicited (part ulterior motive giving as Cristobal says, and part not) and she's occasionally reciprocated unsolicited. Difficult to discern if my giving has increased the mileage but the value of gifts hasn't been significant and the ulterior motive was only part of it so I haven't cared.
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6 years ago
founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
Is it racist...White guy here. I like hip hop and don't mind if it's club's predominant music played. And I like clubbing at places where there's some AA girls - attracted to them and often get a better experience than with white girls. So yes, for me, some ethnicity info would be helpful in making a decision to try a new club or not.
So, @founder, I'm curious how you'd achieve the "ethnicity option on the club listing". Would it be ethnicity mix or the girls, or would it be club vibe ("black club" versus not, to use shadowcat's word), or both? I expect you'll get hassled on the latter but I can't see any sensible person pushing back about the former.
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6 years ago
Contacting an old favWhy offer to pay the hippie's gas to get her to your meet? Why not go pick her up?
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6 years ago
Contacting an old fav^Exactly. Offering gas money to get her to go to lunch seems desperate.
That said I've also been an RIL and I get it. It's unproductive though
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6 years ago
OT. A question for all the people past 35...Study less and play more because you'll enjoy the ride more and end up doing fine in the same job regardless.
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6 years ago
ninas420lifeMamisan's posts stopped same time as shailynn's. Would be nice to have them back
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6 years ago
I got some shit to say. In-N-Out is fucking overratedIn-n-Out fries and shakes = not good.
Not so on the burgers, they're great for the price IMO. Meat better than McD and Burger King. Lettuce and tomato always fresh. Recommended order: Cheeseburger animal style (which means grilled onions, add pickles, and patty is fried with a dab of mustard). Add extra lettuce and tomato which is no extra cost and you've basically got a meal for $3.
In SoCal in the 1980s, people would get the free giveaway IN-N-OUT BURGER bumper sticker, cut off the B and the R and and paste it on bumper and it would then say IN-N-OUT URGE which was funny the first time I saw it and within months there were hundreds of copycat cars to be seen on freeway and that made it instantly unfunny.
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6 years ago
Revenge-->@25: "I got my popcorn let the games begin"
LOL