Is it racist...
founder
slip a dollar in her g-string for me
To have an ethnicity option on the club listing?
This has been discussed before. I just find it so strange that millennials are so confused that they send me hate mail about it.
So I forwarded it to Yelp, in hopes they would just classify restaurants by location rather than cuisine.
This has been discussed before. I just find it so strange that millennials are so confused that they send me hate mail about it.
So I forwarded it to Yelp, in hopes they would just classify restaurants by location rather than cuisine.
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Does that mean they are racist because they favor a certain ethnic group? Lol
Nothing funny about it.
Fuck the snowflakes.
Can I have a checkmark?
OK, I'll stop my rant now.
These fucking millennials are out of fucking control - their main contribution to society is to be whiney little-fuckers.
So, @founder, I'm curious how you'd achieve the "ethnicity option on the club listing". Would it be ethnicity mix or the girls, or would it be club vibe ("black club" versus not, to use shadowcat's word), or both? I expect you'll get hassled on the latter but I can't see any sensible person pushing back about the former.
But this is clearly a case of the reviews reflecting the business reality in many markets. It's also not dissimilar from some dance clubs being Latin, black, gay, etc.
That being said the smart thing to do is to allow users to list what ethnicities dance at each club.Im in a diverse area so just saying white, black, latina, asian isnt enough. For me it would be (American White, American Black, Dominican, Brazilian, Indian, Korean, Filipino, Russian, Kazakhstani, European, South American) Categorizing a club as black or white is a fools errand as demographics can change pretty quick.
Id also say its a good idea to allow users to list the body type and age range of girls at clubs. This to me is more important than race. I like dancers in thier 20s and early 30s. Nothing worse than seeing a bunch of fat grandmas when you walk in.
Sorry you have to endure complaints but that comes with the territory. If you take it off the site you make the reviews less useful. Not to mention all the Billy Joel, Frank Sinatra, $2 master cryptographers will come up with some brilliant code for black and white and just put it in the reviews. WGAF
Since the population must be small (never seen it on any demographic selection options) I'm guessing a lot of inbreeding resulting in a disproportionate rate of Down Syndrome. And those that get lucky not to have a mental retardation birth defect then destroy their brain with frequent Loser Leaf usage. Does this describe it well?
Maybe afflicted with poor bone density resulting in frequently fractured bones.
Did I leave anyone out?
"My generations '2' is the millennial generation's '10' (in reference to a pain scale)."
Tough shit snowflake is right. It is valuable info.
Since I am racist so I could not answer your question Founder
And if a club is stringent with hiring black dancers/alternative looks/body types, then allow it to be categorized as “too many girls” (the classic manager line)
And I agree the backlash is silly—tho they may be the future of your site if there is enough of them so idk.
“Racial categories were constructed and incorporated during the period of European mercantile expansion, and ethnic groupings during the period of capitalist expansion.”
“In America race most commonly means color, and 'ethnics' are the descendants of relatively recent immigrants from non-English-speaking countries.”
“The U.S. Department of Education has adopted new race and ethnicity categories.
The previous federal categories allowed an individual to select one of the following race categories:
1-American Indian or Alaska Native
2-Asian or Pacific Islander
3-Black (non-Hispanic)
4-Hispanic
5-White (non-Hispanic)
The new federal categories first ask whether an individual is:
1-Hispanic or Latino or not
as a separate ethnicity question.
The individual can then select one or more of the following race categories:
1-American Indian or Alaska Native
2-Asian
3-Black or African American
4-Native Hawaiian or Other Pacific Islander
5- White.
For the first time, individuals have the option to choose more than one race for federal reporting.
The two-question format is mandated by the government. The October 19, 2007 Federal Register, the official record for these requirements, cites historical concerns about undercounting Americans of Spanish origin or descent in past censuses. Research by the Bureau of Labor Statistics showed that the two-question format provides the most accurate responses.”
Racial preferences aren't just likes and dislikes, there are deeply held beliefs behind them.
Example:
http://www.mugglenet.com/site/wall-of-sh…
Its is good to know as much as possible about a club before driving into a neighborhood, parking, getting out of the car, walking into the club, staying in the club, and walking back to the car.
It's about knowledge and preference and the anticipated experience.
Can't force people to think a certain way just like you can't force them to behave a certain way. Witholding information about a club can not achieve neither of these.
Should not withhold information because it is unacceptable to some. Information is empowering. And, that's what this board is about.
Empowering each of us to make the best decisions for ourselves whether or not they are acceptable to society. As long as our actions are legal.
One scale goes from "exclusive" clubs (for fools and their money to go their separate ways IMO) to BYOB places that look vaguely post-apocalyptic. Another scale goes from brothels in all but name to low-contact (dolla-throw or Utah-type air dance only). A club can be anywhere on either scale.
There are many physical characteristics that trigger PLs, BBW vs. thicc vs. slender, etc., why single out dancer skin color to characterize the club?
I've never seen a club where the customers had such an easy-going, fun vibe as Jimmy's south of Chicago. I was the only non-black person in there. A dancer got robbed at an "upscale" (black-unfriendly) club in NC. When the bouncers confronted him, he pulled out a gun, and got away with her $. But yeah, if you're not comfortable with people of different races, doesn't help anybody if you end up in a club where you're not comfortable.
Sorry, had to be blunt because a lot of you guys are young and may not know why this board labeled clubs that way. Some of you may just not be willing to accept the history.
It was more of a safety warning than anything else. Again, that's just the way it was.
Maybe it doesn't matter anymore.
Both races avoided each other.
I will fuck any sexy woman, any time, any place.
Hell, as a gentleman I will occasionally even canoodle a moderately unattractive woman just to be polite!
But, I wonder if anyone these days would admit to being a racist. Black or white!
What if there’s a switch with shifts? Example Johnnys Hitching Post, Latinas in the day, Russians at night or my club Centerstage yt girls in the day, blk girls at night
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If you read the descriptions, you'll get a better sense of the racial mix.
If there were a category of clubs like "classy," "make it rain," or "extras factory," that would be more useful but too subjective to actually implement.
If I was looking for my typical high mileage vip in a quiet club experience, I would definitely not want to end up at the club I am imagining above. So the information is useful for me as a traveling PL.
Wrt other races, it's more of a minor data point to me, I am unaware of a specific tone associated with latin, asian, white, etc. clubs. I guess it would be interesting to know that I was going to a club staffed by mostly Latinas, again bc we don't really have that here and I might make a special trip. Also, attraction isn't just down to skin tone... in a room full of ugly white girls with one beautiful AA, I and every other PL in the room are vying for the pretty one. Same in the inverse room. This seems to be covered well by the review text content, and I imagine it would shift enough over time as to be difficult to track at the club level record.
Obviously beautiful women are beautiful irrespective of skin tone.
What’s wrong with identifying “black” clubs
So, I'm not sure where all the hand-wringing is coming from.
On the other hand at a more mixed club there was an AA dancer that was perhaps the prettiest dancer I ever saw in that club. And she was very fun to talk with and hang out with.
But this conversation is literally why they make chocolate and vanilla.
The same logic can be applied to people or dancers. If you’re just into hot girls you’d be okay with any race. If there’s a trend of only wanting to see a specific race of dancer that could indicate racism. Making assumptions about someone’s behavior because of their race is also racist.
Wrt food comparisons and chocolate vanilla etc food has taste and texture and appearance which can be compared to a persons appearance and personality. If someone is picking food items based on their color, or heritage they may also be racist. It doesnt apply to ripe vs unripe fruits, burned foods, or other foods where the color means something beyond it’s visual appearance. But certainly if someone is going out of their way to pick chocolate over vanilla because of its color, not because of taste, texture, quality or specific health reasons of cocoa vs vanilla, that could indicate a racist thought process.
We should also have Latin clubs as well as then I know I need to change and work on my Spanish and set my expectations on negotiations.
I would also like to see Upscale, but that's something I'm sure we have a 1000 different views on