Comments by Bj99 (page 22)

Oh, and also, imagine how it would feel if your wife had to turn tricks bc you couldn’t take care of her.

Yes. She would have been better off if she’d never met you, if that means she wouldn’t have gone down that path. Sex is more important to men’s self esteem than they admit, so if he knew, there would be jealousy, suspicion, and resentment. If he didn’t know, it’s more lies to come between them. Moulin Rouge illustrates for dorks, like me, who like this sort of thing. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Rn0xXo1gwGY

Wow. No, Lord of the Flies, was as edgy and pervey, as my hs assigned reading got.

I agree w Papi and Mark. Plus, this 9, must bring in customers too, and no matter how hot she is, they will eventually want variety, and there will be days when she’s not there.

^ old men have done that to me, but I’m just used to doing it as a part of big groups from the military. It’s not even bc I don’t think they can. Ironically, I truly do struggle to open heavy doors. :(

“Does” sorry lol.

^ haha! It doesn’t make me grumpy. You’d be grumpy too. :P

I can’t imagine that behavior being mainstream where I live. It sounds like she was having a man-hating day. Maybe a fight w her dad, or a boyfriend. I think her rude reaction has more to do w ppl becoming less polite in general, and not some feminist agenda.

Stripping introduces the “stupid spoiled whore,” type of middle class girls to the actual low life, and we all know it enables partying as a full time lifestyle, rather than just a hobby. Honestly tho, so many girls don’t strip for very long, and I have no clue where they go from there. My club cracks down on drugs tho, and actively tries to catch girls using, or selling in the premises. When they get fired, they prolly go work at more lax clubs.

They are lucky. A lot of addicts use their children to collect their ss (for their disabilities that their addiction gave them), and for the social services that children come w.

Children of druggies is prolly a bigger issue than druggies themselves. It’s starts a horrible cycle that last for generations, and is a drain on society and family. And, almost wishing their own child would od is not uncommon of grandparents struggling for custody of their abused grandchildren. Just try not enabling, once your own child is using your grandchildren as pawns, and exposing them to deviants, and neglect. I’d do just ab whatever it took to incentivize her to get in implant. Preventing a drug addict from having kids should be their family’s top priority.

I’m pretty independent, just bc I don’t want to give strangers an in, or make myself vulnerable to someone who might hurt me, but there’s no reason not to be polite in declining someone’s help. Even women offer to help out other women. I hope you don’t let it get to you. It was defineitly her issue. Watching out for those around you, is not dead. Although.. I was teaching my son that he should walk on the street side, when walking next to a lady. He ask why, and I told him so that she’s futher from ppl passing, traffic, or spray and dust from cars. He said, “I think the sidewalk should be first come, first serve!”

^ good to hear an update. I’m glad things are going well right now. One important think you need to do is make sure your daughter is on some kind of reliable birth control. Pay for it, and drive her, if you have to. Like the shot, or an implant. The last thing you need is to raise a grand kid w birth defects, who goes back and forth, gets molested by some druggy in her home, and winds up w issues, as well.

Sounds like mistaken identity. People get thrown out for going some pretty awful stuff sometimes. You prolly looked like someone who did something really bad.

Well, the first step in getting one night stands, is even wanting the girls who carry themselves that way. Many guys are intruiged by women who seem to have standards and don’t put everything out there. You have to forget that and just go for easy. You might say you do, but if those aren’t actually the girls who interest you, you never will. Some guys just seem hardwired to not find skanky easy girls all that appealing. You might say dancers are skanks, but it’s hard to say if you don’t see them in the club, and its hard to know if they’d be giving it up for free. Plus, those one night stand type girls tend to go for a certain type of guy. It’s like some kind of society sub group.

I’m sorry. The worst thing is that stripping will support her habit, and her rock bottom just got lower :( You, and your family, should get therapy for yourselves, if you haven’t already. This board prolly won’t make you feel better about it all.

I honestly keep my home location private. A sexual single woman should be a bit paranoid ab some things. I am also very careful ab what customers I trust to give me rides. And always follow your spidey senses. I will normally give customers my phone number, but there’s been times when it just didn’t feel right, and I didn’t. You have to realize that you are making yourself more vulnerable and your sexuality will come across when you don’t mean for it to. I think it’s best not to flirt w Uber drivers. Just as I advise the guys here to always pay for sex, if they are married, to keep relationships from getting complicated, I think we need to separate our personal affairs for the sake of safety, even if it costs us a little money.

Was anyone else thinking something totally different when they said he no longer “shocks” his lovers? Maybe my mind is just in the gutter lol.

When you are doing it longer, the stripper mode won’t be as exaggerated, or such a rush, and you will feel more yourself at work. When you do have to really turn in on, it will come more naturally, and it will be easier to turn off too. It reminds me of when I first was out of basic training. I felt so different, and put of place off base. I was calling everyone ma’am and sir, ask where the “latrine,” was. Shortly after being at permanent duty, it fades. Do keep an eye on how your job changes you. It can help you to sorta separate yourself from your looks, so that you have more confidence as a person, but still have pride in your body. Never hate on other girls, and continue to educate yourself, and to have interests beyond yourself. Make sure your job is contributing to being someone you like. This stuff will help ensure that the negatives of the job don’t take over.

I think you could use imgbox that way. You’d just load the photos to it from your phone, and you can organize them in galleries. There’s also thumb drives for phones, but I haven’t tried one.

Ignoring my first troll. He just wants to disturb ppl.

Prolly just the Russians, since they screen children for figure skating aptitude or something. I was telling my son, and when I go to the, ‘what would the straight guys say’ part, I was like, “she has okay boobs...sometimes blond,” and he interrupted and said “8 out of 10” lol. Guess, I’m no straight man either.

Lol! I think the gay male figure skaters should have to compete separately from the poor straight ones. Forget ab the quad lux, what straight man can strike those poses?! It’s not fair! I think there should be a test, like: describe Christina Aguilera.. if the guy says, “omg.. she’s my hero. She’s fierce, she’s strong, and sexy.. everything I want to be!” Then he competes w the ‘male figure skaters’, if he says, “7.5,” then he competes in the ‘straight’ bracket.

VM’s avi has this issue.