Stripper Mode
AmeliaSmith
Hey everyone. I just wanted to share a story. It really got me thinking about if my stripper persona is really left in the club. Here's how yesterday afternoon went.
I don't have a car so I use Uber everywhere I go for the most part. Is it expensive? Hell yes. Anyway, so I call my Lyft and wait outside for it to show up. It was kind of the pretty with the sun out (I live in Dallas) so I was looking pretty good. I get into my Lyft and I see an older white gentlemen. I don't know if I did it unconsciously but after I thought about our encounter, I can say with absolute certainty that I went into "Stripper Mode". Stripper mode is my alternative personality. Inside the club, I take on a new identity. I am way more talkative, flirty, and playful and I really just think about selling SS. On any typical day, I sit in the back seat and I am just on my phone. Not today! I sat in the front seat and I was immediately all smiles and questions.
It was around 3PM and when he asked how my day was going, I responded with "My day is just getting started". He then looks at me, smiles, and asks me where I work. Without batting an eyelash, I told him and we started to talk about the industry, my experience so far, and his experiences. I kept dropping small flirty statements to try to get him to come to my club. I kept him laughing and smiling for the entire time. We got to my destination and I gave him my Google Voice number (everybody should have one by now) to set up a time for him to come in and see me.
Here comes the point: Before I started stripping, I vowed that I would keep my civie life separate from dancing. I don't know if both worlds are starting to mix or if the dancer in me saw an opportunity too good to miss. Either way, I have yet to figure out if I should be ashamed or proud. My hustle is becoming better but is it starting to change the real me?
I don't have a car so I use Uber everywhere I go for the most part. Is it expensive? Hell yes. Anyway, so I call my Lyft and wait outside for it to show up. It was kind of the pretty with the sun out (I live in Dallas) so I was looking pretty good. I get into my Lyft and I see an older white gentlemen. I don't know if I did it unconsciously but after I thought about our encounter, I can say with absolute certainty that I went into "Stripper Mode". Stripper mode is my alternative personality. Inside the club, I take on a new identity. I am way more talkative, flirty, and playful and I really just think about selling SS. On any typical day, I sit in the back seat and I am just on my phone. Not today! I sat in the front seat and I was immediately all smiles and questions.
It was around 3PM and when he asked how my day was going, I responded with "My day is just getting started". He then looks at me, smiles, and asks me where I work. Without batting an eyelash, I told him and we started to talk about the industry, my experience so far, and his experiences. I kept dropping small flirty statements to try to get him to come to my club. I kept him laughing and smiling for the entire time. We got to my destination and I gave him my Google Voice number (everybody should have one by now) to set up a time for him to come in and see me.
Here comes the point: Before I started stripping, I vowed that I would keep my civie life separate from dancing. I don't know if both worlds are starting to mix or if the dancer in me saw an opportunity too good to miss. Either way, I have yet to figure out if I should be ashamed or proud. My hustle is becoming better but is it starting to change the real me?
Comments
last commentIt is neither something you need to be ashamed of or proud but it is something to ponder.
I've dated two girls who are strippers--and by date I mean no money exchanged hands to spend time with either---both changed the longer they stayed....the catch is of course the money is so good as is attention you receive from guys.......but your friends will change---as another current topic being discussed on here now---you may even start dating within the club since at first in some ways it's easier to deal with guys who know .........your world changes and your view of men does as well.
The question is whether or not you are okay with that.
Do keep an eye on how your job changes you. It can help you to sorta separate yourself from your looks, so that you have more confidence as a person, but still have pride in your body. Never hate on other girls, and continue to educate yourself, and to have interests beyond yourself. Make sure your job is contributing to being someone you like. This stuff will help ensure that the negatives of the job don’t take over.
One's job will have an affect but one should not allow it to negatively change you as a person - the important thing is to stay centered and keep one's priorities in place - both dancers and custies can get too caught up in the SC-lifestyle where it becomes the main-thing instead of a means to an end.
Do you want to update your comment to say that the responses are great and not just good now that you have read mine?
Any job changes a person. How much it changes a person depends on how grounded they are in the first place.
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Analogous to strippers knowing a PL's real-identity - sure she can use it to extort you but how often does one hear about that?
As I see it, before that women were very guarded about giving out telephone numbers. But with cell phones, being able to change a number easier, caller id, and being able to block calls, they started giving them out very freely.
So where as it used to be that strip clubs were an ITC only experience, now, once a guy has the girl's phone number, she is potentially his escort. And even if there are lines she does not want to cross, eventually she will yield because guys she would go out with anyway, are asking her politely to do P4P.
So then, once she becomes accustomed to that, she will see that the way to rake in the most money is just high velocity ITC. In these places people refer to as 'off the hook', a girl can just go after guys one after another, and rake the money in so much faster than she ever could via OTC.
But to think, that these basic changes in gender relations have come about because of a communications technology.
What to you think.
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Schoenberg: Verklärte Nacht, Op.4 - Boulez.
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Glenn Gould plays Alban Berg
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Glenn Gould
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