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8 years ago
RandomMember: I agree with 1 & 7. So, you are saying 200 to 350 per week allowance would get you blocked in your city? Interesting. I never even discuss allowance at first. I let them know everything is negotiable, and it is, but don't even discuss allowance until I've met them in person. Haven't been blocked by anyone yet.
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8 years ago
And Papi is right. Buyer beware, just like in the strip club. Hustlers and con artists lurk, so have to use your noodle and not be a chump.
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8 years ago
Yeah, I agree Subra. Probably just been lucky up until now. Glad to see per meet is the trend though. Makes it easier if you want to play the field with more than one SB at a time. :)
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8 years ago
Bav, just an fyi. In my experience so far, I've been on first dates with about 8 different women and started arrangements with 3 of them, which have led to 2nd dates and sex each time. Every single one of those women have been fine with per date allowance. Not a single one of them has even asked me for a monthly allowance. And, each time, they got their allowance at the end of the date and never asked for it up front. There was only one woman who asked me for money in advance and I think she may have been a con artist, so I didn't proceed with her.
Oh, last thing. You don't have to post your photo on the site. Women are required to, but you don't have to. I have a photo of my full body with the head cropped out. Oncr I start getting to know a girl and set up a date, I'll text them a photo.
Also, I think strippers, escorts, and SB's all take on the same risk going OTC, so meeting in person first is their best form of screening.
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8 years ago
Futuretrackstar. Get to know the girls a little more first before 'getting rough with her' during your first lapdances with her. If she's a clean dancer and you are pushing her boundaries too far during a first dance, she'll think you're a creep and you'll have no chance. If you are young, good looking, move slower, and don't push too hard, she'll probably be more flexible with her boundaries once she knows you better and feels comfortable with you. If she's got a boyfriend though, her boundaries may stay firm. Yesh, and whipping your johnson out won't get you laid, but may get you thrown out face first into the pavement.
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8 years ago
The majority of my life was situation #1. This year I've started enjoying situation #2. It's too soon for me to know the answer to this question, but I've enjoyed both scenarios. Currently, I'm enjoying the heck out of situation #2 though. Curious to see what others have to say.
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8 years ago
Exactly what Subra said. There are women looking for large sums of money to be arm candy only, but also a lot of 8's and 9's that are available for 200 to 350 per date, that will get intimate. Like he said, the women pick and choose who they feel comfortable with, so it's a selection procesd for them, a bit like dating. You have to spend time screening the profiles and going on meet and greets, but the outcome is awesome. 8's and 9's that you get 3 to 4 hour dates with, for less than the cost of a VIP session at some strip clubs. Also, the women looking for big bucks to be arm candy are completely delusional. Nobody is signing up for that or giving them that. It's free for the girls to sign up, so some just view it as playing the lottery, hoping to score a big fish for nothing.
But, to answer your question Bav, you don't need a mansion or a yacht to be a SD. Just some disposable income. Treat the email exchanges and first dates like you are dealing with civies, so the women feel comfortable around you and not creeped out, and you should be good to go. If they like you, it improves your negotiating too. I've had women who were seeking 'up to 10k allowance' who started seeing me for only 200 per week, intimacy included, simply because they liked me after our first date and felt comfortable around me. Good luck Bav! I think you'll get a lot better return on your money spent in the sugar world, but that's just my 2 or 3 cents.
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8 years ago
What Subra said.
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8 years ago
Anywhere from 5 to 30 minutes, depending on all of the factors that Papi mentioned above. Usually somewhere in the middle, like 10, 15, or 20 minutes of actual penetration time.
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8 years ago
The benefits I see are not sleeping alone for a change, if you are single, and having sex the next morning too.
What I've found is if you are staying at a nice hotel, sometimes the women will stay overnight without charging a ton more, just because they want to hang out at the hotel longer, since it's like a vacation. Not always, but sometimes.
What I also recently learned is that it's a good idea to know the girl pretty well before doing an overnight. Even if they don't steal anything, they could still cause problems by messing up the hotel room, if they are too drunk or high.
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8 years ago
Haha. I'll tell you in person. I've gone through 2 SB's in two weeks unfortunately. 4 dates with new women lined up for this weekend, so hopefully I'll have new stories come Monday. :)
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8 years ago
Wow Gawker, thanks for sharing. Rough way for that to end, but sounds like there have been countless rough times over the years to go along with the fun.
I don't know how you had the patience and tolerance to put up with her addiction and all the problems it caused for so many years. She must have been a seriously hot piece of ass, you were addicted to her and/or you loved her.
I had a really pretty SB that I had to cut loose after a week because she got too high on drugs and made a mess of our hotel room. One bad night was enough for me. Can't imagine going through that for years.
Anyway, hope you find someone you really like, who is much less of a headache.
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8 years ago
Agreed dude. Way too many people are inconsiderate, rude, selfish, etc. It's not very fucking hard to use the toilet without acting like an animal from the zoo. I could see if it's 2 a.m. and somebody is piss drunk and doesn't realize what they are doing, but often it's just selfish, irresponsible pricks who don't give a fuck.
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8 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
@jsbach: I agree. I have a new respect for him too. He's a successful guy who's ex-wife was hot.
I still think he's a bit twisted and coo coo for Cocoa Puffs, but I think we're all eccentric in our own ways..
Anyway, yeah, hopefully it doesn't damage his career. I think the info was removed quickly enough that he may be fine.
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8 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
Hey Timex, how much money do you want, to stop saying show club? I might be willing to give it to you. It's a strip club dude. You're not going there to see Cats or Pirates of the Penzance.
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8 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
Shailynn, hilarious. Jsbach, I think it was calculated plausible deniability perhaps. Shadow and Mikey, I think the posts about Clackport's real name still exist too. So, I think SJG must have contacted Founder to get them removed and perhaps Clackport's and Alucard didn't.
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8 years ago
SJG, off topic, but ever been to Falafel Drive In? Pretty freaking good. http://www.falafelsdrivein.com/
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8 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
Yep. I'm sure any of us would do the same.
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8 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
Somebody outed SJG and posted his real identity on here. There were a few threads about it and then they all got deleted. SJG must have contacted Founder and he removed him, to protect his identity.
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8 years ago
Anticipating inflation on chacken fangers?
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8 years ago
Sounds like good timing for a trip to Deja Vu and Hong Kong, if she decides to hang up the clear heels. :)
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8 years ago
Juice, if you think that, you've been messing around with the wrong 70 year old women. Keep at it my friend. You'll find the wet ones soon enough. You have to speak their language, to get them turned on. Foreplay should consist of discussions about knitting, bingo, and what restaurant you are going to take her to for the early bird special. Niagara Falls baby!!!
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8 years ago
You see a cute waitress at a normal restaurant and consider asking her if she does lap dances too. Then, you check yo self at the last second, realizing it's not the right venue, before wrecking yo self.
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8 years ago
Sage advice counselor.
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8 years ago
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san_jose_guymoney was invented for handing to women, but buying dances is a chump's game
I'm divorced with no children. The marriage lasted over ten years and was mostly good, although it ended badly. The pain from the divorce was overwhelming for a while.
Eventually, I met a younger woman and we dated for several years, which was also great, until that ended. The breakup was also painful and took me a long time to get over.
Now, I just found a new sugar baby. My 2nd one in two weeks. This one is absolutely beautiful. Probably the most beautiful woman I've ever been on a date with. We're both looking for a long term relationship and our first date when really well, so date #2 is this weekend. She said she feels really comfortable with me and is ready to get intimate on our 2nd date.
So, would I get married again, despite all the ups and downs? Absolutely. In retrospect, I'm glad I'm divorced now because of the blue skies ahead, but I don't regret having been married. Even with the pain it caused me, we had a lot of great years and I grew a lot as a person, by being around her for so many years.