Comments by MadMaXXXNYC (page 4)

Somewhat related: First, I usually have a change of clothes in the back, with the ready excuse they must have fallen out of the laundry bag last trip if I'm ever asked.. On this particular night about a decade ago, after leaving the Playhouse in Burlington, NJ I walked out to the car, opened the back, and because I was heading to another event with work colleagues, had planned ahead and had a dress shirt at the ready. I swapped shirts quick right there ( I was parked nearly at the back - was unseen or so I thought ) when I heard a voice go " What - did you get some embarrassing stain on that shirt - or are you covered in body glitter? ". I turned around to see a dance out by the smoking shack - short gal, huge tits wearing a fedora low on her head. Dancer name was Angie if I recall ( anyone know/knew her? ). I could only laugh and cop to the truth: "Nope, not this time, at least I don't think so, but I'm headed to meet work people, so gotta be in the right costume for the right event. I learned my lesson a few years ago when I went to a late dinner after a club, and the lighting in there picked out a bunch of glitter on me. I made a lame excuse about a crafts project with my daughter going terribly wrong, and made a joke of it. Not sure they bought it, though. So. since then: I pack a shirt". She said " you know: we do that on purpose to you guys, right? That and really shitty perfume. We love hearing stories of how that got you busted - thanks for telling me yours!" She was so candid that we stayed in touch until she left the biz a year or so later. I didn't have time to go back inside with her, and have always regretted it. She always gave me shit for not tipper her on stage that night. I swear I was about to when this 8+ in a fishnet catsuit literally jumped in my lap and I agreed to get dragged to the back ( short on time, remember ? ). So... the night after my 2nd vaccine shot - I'll have a fresh change in the car again!

Agree on all fronts, and will add an odd finding of my own. Both the few in-person sightings, and mostly online accounts where women are wearing masks, and I was floored to discover being rather turned on by that. To focus on the eyes, it added something. May be adding " mask play " lol to future post - pandemic and post 2nd vaccine shot activities. It will be a new world, for sure. Now if clubs only offered the "call ahead and curbside pickup" model - THAT would be win. "Yes, I'd like to see Wendy when she's available" " 1 hour? H Great. I'll pull into the takeout lane and text when I'm there. Thanks. Yes, on my paypal account would be fine". lol

+1 with the F/U 2020 lol. Although, like a previous thread, I managed to come out ahead, all things considered together, including placing a high value on not dying - the first time that made the scorecard. As far as any day in 2021 matching that, or any day in 2019? I think that's going to be individual, but I believe: yes. Towards the late fall, my belief/hope is that many areas will be "cleared" and all restrictions lifted, with an R0 factor for below 1 for several weeks with no sign of spiking. When that happens, I think you'll find a day, or several, that feel like the "old normal". My advice, as a fellow NYC area denizen, would be to think / say " I used to" as infrequently as possible, and rather replace it with "I'm doing / looking forward to doing.." and fill in new adventures. Maybe we'll catch each other on the " circuit " and if so - beers on me! Although who knows, we may have sat in the same bar before and never knew!

We can't judge from the outside. It may well be that the desire for Family is bigger than the rest - I know it is for me. Even if it just slightly edges out the need for personal satisfaction(s), it is still in First place and still drives life decisions - up until the point where you can no longer maintain the compartments, as it seems in this case, and you have to - for better or worse - make a more selfish ( term used without prejudice ) decision to prioritize yourself and your physical / emotional needs. I've been on the brink of that for over 25 years, but thank fully have been able to maintain a happy, safe, and whole family while this hobby, in secret, has been my outlet. I know, and have had counseling on, that if I ever stepped out of the shadows, so to speak, and insisted that my public life meet all my needs - it would mean immediate divorce, and would divide my immediate and extended families in ways I can't even imagine, and i've visualized myself living that life - happy living with an energetic partner and being completely physically fulfilled but with all the other fallout, and it's always been a close vote, but I've never wanted that much fallout / pain on the part of others. That said, I agree, maybe she would be open to a mutually satisfying arrangement? I know in my case i've been told ( and there are a huge and significant myriad of physical and mental health issues involved here )" I know you're not happy, and I can't make you happy, but I want you to be happy, OK? " I took that as an offer of a "don't ask-don't tell" arrangement and that's what it's been. God help me if I ever find out I've been wrong about that for decades! lol

Congrats! and so glad so many folks are getting vaccinated, both for you/themselves and the rest of us. Well done, Skibum! Personally, since I'm in the NYC Metro area, despite having enough underlying conditions to qualify, we are waiting a bit into the Spring: not because of any reservations with the vacccine, but to make sure all available doses go to those in greater need. We are safely set up to stay mostly isolated a while forward ( both easily working from home, no desire to mingle, kids in their own bubbles and willing to test prior to any visits - so we're truly blessed that way ). However, I consider my personal "D-Day" - maybe stands for "done with quarantine? - will be one week after 2nd dose. Then look out - 'ol Max is gonna hit the clubs hard! ( with any luck, there will still be some open :) ).

Never had an older woman? Well, that's a bucket list item at a minimum, I would think. As as for your current Milf: A: feel free to pass along contact, as she would be younger than me ;). But seriously, you could talk with her, and explain this would be the first time with someone older, and you'd like to be taught some new things. In my experience, older ladies make amazing teachers. I consider myself an old dog, but regularly look to learn new tricks ( pun intended ). FWIW.

I guess if that bothers you, don't schedule after me?

I've heard that so often. Then, OTC, I hear the same thing... and I start kissing their neck..by the time I'm round-tripping back up north, after some quality time DATY, as often as not they grab my head and we make out like kids... ymmv...:)

No mention of new Covid restrictions / set up. Pretty sure there has to be distancing inside, at least the attempt at it. Agree that this seems accurate for pre-Feb 2020. Can't wait until it's true again in post, what? Aug 2021? mmnyc

Haha. After posting I had to research. It was Desert Flame Here's the seat, err, scene of the crime! https://www.google.com/maps/uv?pb=!1s0x872bb0dcbeb87025%3A0xdb75ce2386aea66!3m1!7e115!4shttps%3A%2F%2Flh5.googleusercontent.com%2Fp%2FAF1QipOxVckptrdM9730SYVzP1cwsGGhdapghpKlc4Uv%3Dw172-h174-n-k-no!5sstrip%20clubs%20near%20apache%20junction%20AZ%20-%20Google%20Search!15sCgIgAQ&imagekey=!1e10!2sAF1QipP0ZUhVdnb0xk0atDQBil9U7IRpCYZPPXOmHLAe&hl=en#

@Lone_Wolf. So odd you tell your story and are from AZ. Aside from the few expected cash slides at the bar if I leave out a stack, or fastback change that I'm too distracted / buzzed to focus on, this was my closest to rip-off, and it was in AZ! Don't recall the club name, but it was on the east side on the way out of town from PHX, I was on my way to the superstitions. Clublayout is a bar in front of you as you walk in and to the left. Straight ahead is a hallway leading to dancer room, and there's another lounge, stage area in a room to the right - larger than the bar area. I was in that lounge, had a few chair dances, and then didn't realize I didn't grab my phone from the side table until I was ready to go. Went back and searched, nada. Manager helped me look, moved a chair, etc. Really helpful. I asked if he'd call it and then walk to the back - he hesitated then he did. Then he came back with the phone mumbling something about it all being a simple mistake, picked up mine with hers, etc. OK, Maybe... I was just super relieved.

OR both, Whoday, but yet, here I am in my life. :)

Doesn't sound like that is much of an IG "Business" then... Shh! Don't tell anyone. . :)

My first (and only) time at the Mitchel Brothers' theatre in SF. The first was: Everything that went on in there! Famous porn star on stage - jumps off stage into my lap and starts kissing my neck...another room had the lights off, and you were handed a flashlight to find the two naked dancers 69ing in the center, another where you walked into a small room. Door opposite opened up, dancer emerged and asked what your pleasure was.... sigh all gone now.. ( was Lauryl Canyon, btw - in case you want to date the experience. lol )

Your selfless and true altruism is deeply appreciated, Rick! and kidding aside, valid message - take heed y'all. I'm trying to myself but hanging out here takes chinks out of the resolve. Then I listen to the news and re-affirm my decision to keep me and my 4 dozen affiliated risk factors at home!

Fat fingered that $$ amount. I'd never be able to relax to enjoy a dance....got too many risk factors lol. Sorry for the confusion.

It is usually the quality of an interaction / connection with a dancer. Sometimes it's the decor... oh hell, no, no, it's NEVER the decor ( Although I miss the ceiling full of bras at George & I in Newark, but yeah, it's the girls. But service, drinks, etc. can't be god-awful, or I'll never stay around long enough to meet any of the dancers. Had a similar experience to Herbtcat, only in Paterson, NJ. Three down n out clubs adjacent, practically, to each other. I figured, I'd already tipped the hood rat to watch my car, so I'll hit all three. Bounced out of 1 and 2 in short order, and 3 wasn't looking like it was going to change my streak. Then Ivonette walked up, smiled, a warm hug like and old friend, and she sat down saying "I Saw you walk in, you're not used to this, are you? You must go to better places" I said, well, frankly, yes, but I don't know if I've ever met better company". Three hours later we were re-enacting the in-auto scene from Titanic in a booth that was probably 1/4 the size of that car. Kept in touch with her, but Never went back once she left the club.

Missed that part about " Without rhetoric or hate..." , didja? oh well.

I've heard 5th ave. also. So I imagine Jiggles, although out front would be funny.

Mistero: Do you really want more details? haha. Emmanu, how was the Purell bath you surely took afterwards? :)

OK I'll bite: What the hell. OP and gammanu, Please, without rhetoric or hate/inflammatory speech: please 1 ) list for me Five things trump has done that have been exactly what this country has needed at the time. Also please explain how you are happy / satisfied with the administration's handling of the pandemic. Thanks. And if you don't believe in the pandemic, please explain why, and what your source of news / information is. It may save a life .

I like the look. Maybe it does this and I missed it, but since the site asks for location when I log in, I'd like that to be the default when I go to this page. Nice work tho!