Sex and the PL: How Kinky Have You Gotten?

Nothing too crazy from me. I'm pretty vanilla. I get really into regular foreplay and standard sexual positions, so standard sex is pretty charged up and not boring.

To answer your question though, sex at work is about as crazy as I've gotten. I worked at a corporate office in a large building and had sex there after hours, when nobody or maybe only a couple of other people were around. The woman and I did not get caught. Another time, that woman gave me a blowjob in the elevator during work hours. Now that was a close call! As I finished, the elevator started moving, and the woman had nowhere to deposit the change I left. So, she had a full mouth, my pants were unzipped, and the door opens. We were eye to eye with one of our co-workers. I said hi, but she could only nod. I think we looked nervous, because he gave us a suspicious look.

When I was younger, I worked at a small retail store in the mall. I once had sex in the backroom. I was the only employee working at the store, so the front room was unattended. Anybody could have stolen anything they wanted and I would have had no idea. So, me and this woman are going at it and a customer starts yelling "hello??? Is anybody here?". I was on a mission to finish, so I went at it for another minute until I was done. The customer started walking into the stockroom right after we finished and he saw us both all sweaty and out of breath. He looked shocked and knew exactly what we were doing. Haha.

Okay, last thing. Was having sex with a stripper in VIP and she wanted a finger up her butt, so I stuck it up there pretty deep, while we did the deed. That's about as kinky as I've gotten though. Nothing crazy.

I'd guess for me I don't meet w/ dancers OTC and don't have faves for the most most-part thus I don't have the opportunity to do more non-vanilla stuff although I'm not really into being that freaky - for me it would be having fucked a few times on the main-floor in dives where dances are on the floor and the dancer would be riding-me making it look like a grinding lap-dance.

Other than that at Inner Room about 4 months ago w/ a vulopteous ebony that would get ice-cubes from her drink and put them on her big natural DDs for me to suck-on and it did enhance the tit-sucking experience (sometimes the ice cube would fall into my mouth I'd be sucking the cold wet ice cube and her tit at the same time) - she also would put an ice-cube inside her coochie and I would finger-bang her w/ the ice-cube in there and thought that was kinda a different experience (this was all in the open dance-area).

I guess I would like to do "69" w/ a dancer but that would require OTC and although I like DATY I'm wary to do it outside a monogamous relationship.

Over the past couple of decades, I've explored kink pretty extensively, I've enjoyed it more and more as time goes on. Overall, tuscl (and strip club forums in general) are incredibly vanilla places, IME, and I hesitate to write too much about what I"ve done since even fairly tame things (by my standards) are greeted by howls of outrage here, but that probably tells you how far gone I am :) But to give you a basic idea, thing's I've done IN the club, on the dominant side (I've played both roles, extensively) include: spanking her ass and pussy, clothespins on her pussy, choking, hair pulling, having her call me master, having her get on her knees for me, nipple pinching, restraints, and a whole lot more. In clubs that have enclosed private booths, we can do pretty full scenes. I've done way way more OTC.

Among the interesting things here: despite the SW mantra "fetish is extra", I am pretty sure I'm not lying when I say I have never paid a single stripper one dime extra for fetish. I can't remember a single time when any stripper asked me for more $ for fetish, and I do at least some light fetish -- light spanking, etc. -- with literally almost every dancer I do VIPs with.

I had a dancer in Winston Salem who wanted to cut me. She assured me she knew what she was doing and it would heighten the experience. Uh, no.

Wink....

I was just thinking about SCs when I read the OP.

But - about 3 years ago I picekd up an ebony stree-walker so I could get some head - we park behind an auto-part store in the hood like at 1:30 in the morning - she gives me head inside the car then tells me she wants me to fuck her (she was in her early 30s so maybe she hadn't had dick in a while?) - I drive a small car and it's a stick and at 43 (at that time) was not up for fucking inside a small car - I told her we'd have to get out of the car to fuck - we get out of the car and I position her against the side of my front bumper - she proceeds to lay on her back on top of my hood w/ her legs wide-open - I start fucking her right there in the parking-lot behind tha auto-part store - there are two small side-streets to either of the lot and anyone driving by can see if they look to the side - 2 cars pass by and one stops and stays there for about 15-seconds - I'm in the hood at 1:30 in the morning fucking an ebony street-walker on the hood of my car - well at least I got to live to tell about it.

Man, I need to club where Subraman clubs

I like to keep women in high heels and makeup. That is not that kinky, but I know I put more importance on having them dress to please than most people do.

SJG

In clubs, it's pretty much the standard PL way with me, getting dances, BJ's, and fucking the dancers in various positions. Outside of the club, once my girlfriend and I were at her place, she lived with her grandmother, I got horny and had her give me a BJ in the side driveway. Granny could have looked out, anyone passing on the street would have a great view, but no one caught us. Also, at a restaurant i worked at as a bartender, managers were an endangered species and I had several. One a recent divorcee and I started fucking on a regular basis, including one time in our liquor storage room. I'm fucking her when she's sitting on the cart I used to convey booze back to my bar. It's making a fair amount of noise, but everyone had gone home, or so I thought when the building maintenance came in and started calling out to see where anyone was. We had to stop until he left the area then fucked until we were done. Whew !!

@Subraman, wrt paying extra for "fetish" stuff.

I apparently haven't been as lucky finding willing subs in clubs as you have been, but the few times I have, it's been at the same cost as "normal" activities.

Even high as fuck, I don't want to do the shit that subra has. No judgment though, and no reason for him to be shy about the details. It just doesn't turn me on.

i guess i don't go too far out of the normal. spanking, hair pulling and a couple of girls want me to lightly choke them. 69 is a given. bareback. kissing. dfk. maybe some analingus. depends on the girl.

-->"I apparently haven't been as lucky finding willing subs in clubs as you have been, but the few times I have, it's been at the same cost as "normal" activities."

I'm always surprised when I hear this ... I find it so easy, I mean close to 100% hit rate, that I feel like all strippers are fine with a little kink play, either as sub or domme (far more often sub than domme, but I'm happy to swing either way). I don't think I have any special SC skills (nunchuck skills, bowhunting skills, computer hacking skills), but kink is my thing and trust is YUGE (as the donald would say). Consent consent consent, until she trusts you so much she doesn't care anymore. I touch her ass and ask her if I can spank it, I lightly touch her throat and ask if I she likes being choked, etc... then do it super super gentle, and in no time, SHE is the one telling me to do it harder, and now she's mine :)

Fetish is not extra, ever, IME

^^^ But will your subs bring you your Chapstick when your lips hurt real bad? Gall!

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Pretty new to this, so I have not gotten too adventurous. I have sucked on several nipples, fingered one pussy (so far :) ) and recieved a couple BJ's... but reading some of comments above are giving me ideas!

;) Done most of what has already been mentioned; but the kinkiest... Probably somewhere along the lines of Papi... I got a dancer to 69 me out on the main floor. And no tip required!

Papi - a streetwalker? Say it ain't so....

Well I might as well dive in and tell you what I have done. Don't judge me! lol

Candle wax and ice cubes Golden showers Snowballing Bondage / Blindfolding Using toys on her Anal play Squirting on my face and body Public sex Shower sex Massage table sex Pool sex Sauna sex Choking Threesome (MFF) - have done this outside of a strip club, always have wanted to do this inside a strip club

Only thing I don't like is anal sex, and not so sure I would do a MMF threesome

Eventually I will make it to a swingers club and have sex in front of group of people, but I haven't gotten the courage to do that yet. I have 1 girl that wants to do that, and one that's on the fence.

^i've done a number of those things including the swingers club... i like it all as long as i don't get kicked out and /or arrested.

i was escorted out one time from a club for lewed behaviour and banned from reentering for three months.

The craziest I ever did was with two dancers - one blowing me and the other giving me a rim job. The rimmer agreed on the condition she could swallow my spunk.

Anal sex is the craziest for me. Nothing too crazy.

prince was one crazy motherfucker. when i used to do threesomes with him and kim bassetter we did all sorts of kinky stuff. but no crossing swords. prince wasnt a damn faggot and neither was i

My ex gf was awesome and kinky. Tied her up, fucked her ass, took lots of pictures and video, came on her face, plenty of pussy-to-mouth, a few MFF threesomes, lots of spanking her. Fucked a few times in public restrooms (one toilet kinds that lock).

I'm missing plenty of shit we did. Also have gotten wild with the DC. The wife is ok with being tied up and spanked when she's actually in the mood for sex.

Oh, I've done MFM threesomes. Never my girl, usually I was the third for a couple, sometimes it was just a slutty girl who wanted to get double stuffed. Not my favorite, but some nights you take what you can get.

rh48hr: lol

nice one

One woman laid back against the pillows while the other straddled her face. I fucked t he one laying on her back, while holding the spinner who was getting her pussy licked in place. After three tremendous orgasms she tried to get off the tongue but I physically prevented her from doing so and as she struggled she came a fourth time, explosively, causing me to cum as well. Guess which of the two I am celebrating a wedding anniversary with next week? Friday night of Labor Day weekend we are at Saratoga, just the wife, me and out girlfriend.