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8 years ago
Have never asked, but....
Had a dancer who at the time was a favorite I had visited a few times start to french kiss me one time when we got into VIP. I was a little surprised but it, but guess it happened for a few minutes. It was early night shift and she had not been on stage yet, so I'm almost 100% certain I was her first VIP of the night.
Had another dancer after having a whole lot of fun in VIP try and kiss me when we were done. I was like....uhhhh....but we just pecked on the lips. :-/
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8 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
As a non-smoker, I don't mind smokers....but the smell of smoke on a girl is a turnoff.
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8 years ago
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minnowAny place that interests me.
My key fob has a key in it. My ignition is push button start. So any battery issues, ect, I have a key to get in and start the car.
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8 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
As a follow-up, yeah, if I knew a dancer was doing hard drugs I would be turned off.
I'm confused now what my answer is. :-)
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8 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
b) no effect
Pretty much would have been visiting with a dancer for a while before the topic of drug use would come up. By that point I would pretty much know if I like them or not. In other words, if a dancer was doing hard drugs (i.e. not weed doesn't count) then I'm guessing I would have been turned off by their personality before the topic came up.
That said, have met a few dancers who to me were really cool, only to find out they smoke weed daily. I'm a little surprised at first, but weed isn't much of a big deal.
I'm similar to Papi in that I've never done illegal drugs before - even weed. Have had a couple of dancers genuinely perk up when I've mentioned this and say we should do it together sometime. I've just kind of laughed and the topic eventually changes, but a part of me might be semi-open to it. My roadblocks at the moment are: A) I'm still working on my first OTC B) Don't think I would want to be doing drugs with this person in my hotel room and can't imagine hanging with a dancer anywhere else at this time in my OTC exploits.
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8 years ago
Yup - there is a thread just yesterday talking about the "Most Frightening Moment at a Strip Club." This is one scenario on how they can potentially start. What's the point. People go to clubs to hang out and chill and have a good time - not start drama or win ego battles.
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8 years ago
Probably depends on the club. If we are talking a Detroit type of club, "dancing" isn't really happening in VIP as we know. If we are talking a club where dancing happens in the VIP then it would be a turn off.
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8 years ago
RandomMember:
What does your stat mean? If they don't spend money in the clubs, like numerous dancers have said to me and others, what does it matter what they make or don't make? This applies to anyone btw.
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8 years ago
Not important. Had a temporary favorite who fit this bill one time. In VIP I want a dancer who is hot all over me, me all over them, ect. What do I care how they "dance"?
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8 years ago
Seems like a weird, one sided story. Doesn't make sense for a dancer to suddenly want to run off customers, while at the same time giving off a negative vide to other customers in the process. And threaten weapon use for no reason? Nah, something is missing here.
Me personally, I would have kept her name private in front of your boys until she were to offer it up. Doesn't sound like you guys developed much of a relationship.
Couldn't disagree more with JohnSmith. You really want to get into a tick for tat with a dancer, her family/friendds and strip club management? Let alone then continue to hang there? Geeesh. Good luck enjoying that. Sometimes you have to ask yourself is it really worth it? Sounds like a dancer and club manager does not like you. Pretty positive that means others in the club do not like you know either as people talk. I'd learn from my mistakes and move onto another club - that's just me.
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8 years ago
Have heard the same thing JohnSmith said from a number of dancers regarding Indian / Middle Eastern Customers. Haven't heard because of deodorant, but have heard they simply don't spend money in the clubs. Or only do drinks and some light stage tipping - that's it.
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8 years ago
Regarding my 8 Mile / Penthouse comment, Penthouse is only the 3rd club I had ever visited, was the first time in Detroit visiting a club, and I was just starting out in the strip club scene.
Being at the club in VIP while a raid takes place scares me. Just hoping I would be able to get myself put together quickly. Otherwise guess it would be an interesting event to sit through and witness.
Wow beeoch, that was nice of the dancer to have given you a heads up.
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8 years ago
Maybe the 1st time on 8 Mile Rd in Detroit walking into Penthouse. Just a feeling of what am I getting myself into? Took a wrong turn one time trying to head to Christie's in Cleveland and was maybe in one of the worst sections of a neighborhood I have ever seen and had to turn around in. Was genuinely nervous for a moment.
At Penthouse have seen a super old guy during dayshift that was barely able to walk. I wasn't in his area but was just concerned watching him try to get around that he might fall. Some dancers and staff helped keep an eye on him when walking.
Saw a dancer vs. dancer fight at Coliseum one time. I was on the other side of the stage. Didn't last too long but an awkward feeling.
Saw a bouncer talking to a dude sitting stage side at Kahoots in Columbus for a moment, then proceed to push him, lift him out of his chair, and throw him out. Guess the guy had licked one of the girl's ears on stage and when told to stop was a wise ass. Was pretty much a one way fight with the bouncer in control the whole time and didn't last long, but awkward.
I've only been to what I would consider high end clubs, but a few of them in sketchy areas. The last thing I really want to see or hear about clubs I visit is drama.
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8 years ago
Agree Dom, except there is definitely a hint of an attitude when she's checking in on me. On beer 2, have bought a dancer a drink, another girl and shot shots, paid for a booth, tipped the VIP dude, tipped the bathroom troll twice now, and have done VIP once. Think I'm doing my share for the Flight Club economy. Hahaha. And I'm not done yet. Anyway, just don't need the server asking 5 minutes after giving me a beer - with follow ups on 5 minute intervals - if I'm good with my beer.
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8 years ago
Drink hustles.
At Flight Club as we speak - club opened at 7:00 and there is only me and 2 other tables with people - bought a beer and a dancer a drink 25 minutes ago - and my server has been by 3 times now checking my beer asking if I want another.
wtf.
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8 years ago
All clubs allowing private VIP areas. Let it be between the dancer and customer what goes down in VIP - except drugs.
Know this is a city/state thing though and how it's enforced.
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8 years ago
Don't believe I saw this one, but no shot girls.
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8 years ago
The biggest red flag for me is there was a group. While I haven't pulled off my first otc yet (came close this week and might start a topic on my story later when back home), I have met dancers I would want to do otc with, have dinner, drinks, ect. That said, pretty much no way in the world would I want to hang with a dancers group of friends; especially a dancer I just met. Sad story.
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8 years ago
"The first one said she was in the catering business. I guess you could call it that."
Great line Shadow - lol'd
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8 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
Have had instances of this - maybe a server at a bar, BW's, a grocery store, a subway worker, or something like that - and thinking to myself I would love to be able to see more of them or to have a chance to do something with them in a strip club VIP / OTC kind of way.
Curious if this is what others sometimes come across, and if they have ever somehow perused it and how they went about it (don't mean in a simply asking them out in a civy kind of way).
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8 years ago
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SubramanCar key and wallet dating your sister
Detroit strip clubs.
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8 years ago
One told me she used to work at Subway. One that is a semi regular said she worked at Twin Peaks which I think is like a Hooters, and she is also in school.
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8 years ago
Have to give her credit for catching her typo.
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8 years ago
Don't doubt there are some dancers that can defy the odds and dance into their 40's, but then what? There's a lot of living to do past 40. And I would seriously question what a 40 year old stripper is raking in.
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8 years ago
Whenever I meet a dancer who I like who says they are in school, I try and show a genuine interest in what they are studying, ect, and encourage them to stick with it. Because yeah, no matter how much money they are rolling in dancing and how tempting it is to think they have a career, there is definitely a shelf life that probably start to rear it's head early 30's.