Boyfriends suck!
VeryBigDawg
Georgia
Boyfriends suck. Recently two of my favorite strippers have gotten boyfriends and decided to stop stripping to keep them happy. Both are now working as servers in more legitimate bars. Amazingly the master tells me that one of his favorites has a night job as bartender, who knows another to hang up her stripper shoes?
On the positive side, the girls trying to lead a more sensible lifestyle is a noble cause ... but when it messes up my enjoyment at the strip club fuck that shit!
Your experience?
On the positive side, the girls trying to lead a more sensible lifestyle is a noble cause ... but when it messes up my enjoyment at the strip club fuck that shit!
Your experience?
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I would assume some may end up getting married to the guy and give up dancing altogether but o/w I think many come back if they csn still make good $$$ dancing.
But like you said...props to them for at least attempting to work a less controversial job.
She has dropped some hints about getting an office job. My next visit to see her at the club, I want to try and throw out to her if she does in fact get out of the game and get into a mainstream job, would she be willing to see me once every 1-2 months on the side OTC for some extra cash (haven't actually seen her OTC before). I visit from out of state so between that and getting to know me pretty good ITC, I'm hoping she would be up for it.
re OP: maybe this doesn't apply directly here, but it seems to me that there are a fair number of women who have "hobby" jobs. Their BF/husband brings in enough $ that she technically does not have to work, but she still does something either to keep the appearance she is trying or simply to have the socialization via a job
anyway.... odds are OP's favs will be back if they can't stand the decreased cash flow
Especially when their boyfriend becomes that asshole...
As far as a GF, Those that had a legitimate GF usually refused to do a threesome with her even if she is in the business. My threesomes have almost exclusively been the dancer bringing a friend along. I've been told it would be too intimate.
Just the other night, I fucked a girl who had a pic of her BF and son as her cell phone screen saver and I have countless other stories like this, including many who admitted to having SOs once they got more comfortable with me. I think the fact that I am married, yet still doing what I do, makes them feel more comfortable about disclosing their own circumstances.
My experiences are just with chatting. Like rickdugan, I find dancers often do open up about their personal life (BFs, baby daddies, husbands, children) once she finds out the PL is married (happily or not).
Most have a "fuck it" attitude like seen on StripperWeb that if the BF or husband can't replace the $$ lost from dancing with his own high income, then he has no business telling the dancer that she can or can't dance. That's reasonable and healthy, IMO. It weeds out insecure losers.
Seriously I think RickDugan has the right idea, many of these women have serious co-dependency issues to go along with other things that may or may not mess them up. If I'm not their to play Captain Saveahoe you have to deal with the fact that someone else will fill the voids in the emotional drama I'd rather stay out of.
If they decide to leave over a drama with some dude outside the picture, just move on to another DS. They may or may not come back, but its all a part of the reality check in the system (i.e. a chance to say if I'm jealous about her not working in the club maybe I'm becoming the overly needy PL)
I feel personnel changes are inevitable in this hobby and variety is not a bad thing- its something to be sought out.
Funny, because I feel exactly the opposite. For me, the hardest part of civvie dating was what to do when I fucked a girl because she was hot (or because I was horny and wearing beer goggles), but I didn't want to keep around. After a while, it got exhausting dealing with the drama, especially when I wanted to repeat with one but didn't want anything else from her. To me, being able to fuck a string of hot young girls and then let someone else deal with their headcase drama is fucking fantastic. :)
Of course, my situation may be a bit different than yours for a number of reasons. First, I would never seriously consider a stripper as a romantic target anyway; second, my home situation is already locked down pretty good; and third, even if the first two weren't true, I am too old now to be seriously interested in dating young girls. Maybe if my mindset was different, I might feel more the way that you do, but there it is.