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6 years ago
I always work on Halloween when it falls on a weekday and it’s been slow every time in every city (but not bad $). What’s your costume?
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6 years ago
Most clubs let couples in the back rooms but you can’t fuck your husband in there unless maybe it’s a really heavy extras club and you pay the girl her hourly vip rate to hang out in there while you mess around. You can’t just stay in there by yourselves and get it on, it’s not a swingers club.
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6 years ago
Weird, I have never heard of that unless you’re sharing toys with a partner. Either way I think it’s good she stays clean/safe if it is from condoms. I know it’s mostly for peace of mind to only kiss girls who “don’t do extras” but who knows what they do right before work. I’d think latex is better than bare dick but again i guess it’s a mental thing and what you don’t know (or taste) can’t kill your buzz
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6 years ago
I’m a camgirl and have never heard of putting a condom on a dildo to suck it because it’s “easier to clean” lol I’m guessing that explanation for condom breath came from a dancer and not a customer?
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6 years ago
Are you wearing super thin pants or sweatpants? Are you pushing her down on your boner or trying to hump her with it? If not then no, it’s not abnormal, they are probably new
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6 years ago
honesty is good but damn.. girl needs to learn how to phrase her boundaries in a way that sounds more inviting
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6 years ago
i agree that an escort would be a better option, even just lapdances from one or two girls like an incall party stripper thing. something where you do all the planning VIA a platform he doesn't have access to, and the girls get paid up front so he won't be able to show up another time unattended and blow money he doesn't have. not to mention some dancers might be mean to him and upset him if he does the wrong thing without even realizing it. even those of us who are understanding of the situation might not realize at first that he is special needs and not just a jerk- so i can see him getting lashed out by a dancer for doing something inappropriate.
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6 years ago
i am impressed that player11 can type so well with his non dominant hand
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6 years ago
lol, i talked to a girl of the same age who said about the same thing. she was very excited to have made $80 in one night, doing way more than she had to, and tipping out more than i ever would. she worked the drive thru at sonic tho.. where she met her "bf" who wanted to come watch her dance and bring his friends for "moral support" which he claimed would make him entitled to half of whatever she makes. she said this made her uncomfortable and she felt like he didn't respect her (no shit) then crashed into a barrel on the freeway with her kid in the car whilst giving me a ride home. and she was sober. very sweet, cute girl but jesus.
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6 years ago
dancing.. i'd still do it, just not nearly as much. i know i would miss it though and want to work a few nights a month just for fun. i'd probably travel to new cities and do it as a way to explore the city through the locals, meet new friends and stuff.
clubbing as a customer.. yeah i'd probably go apeshit and start clubbing all the time. but i think i'd probably burn myself out with it after a while and get bored bc i have an addictive/obsessive personality like that. i'm the kind of person who finds a song they like and listens to it on repeat until they hate it.
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6 years ago
we're all lesbians
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6 years ago
what is it with strip clubs and exploiting little people? when i lived in vegas the hustler club had some kind of midget even during st pattys, i presume with them dressed up as leprachans. now the club i work at hosts this group called the "MWA" (midgets with attitude) who are like pro-wrestlers, all with different characters. i met one of the guys outside who was a redhead with "chucky" tatted on his chest. he was drunk as fuck and said they tour around all over. i suppose they are like strippers and don't care about being "exploited" as long as we can get paid to party :p
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6 years ago
under $400 is pretty damn low. wtf do these people do for a living and why do you live with them? my rent is double that, with a roomie, and i live in a supposedly crappy area. no wonder you san anton girls come up here to work. at least you're in school and being smart about it, props for that.
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6 years ago
^ the same dancers who say that tend to go home with customers and managers more than they will admit
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6 years ago
my favorite club is a booze club in socal and i would change it so that lapdances were topless and some touching was allowed, that's it. they are so strict it's stupid and makes it hard to sell dances. if i make money doing air bikini dances... god i can't imagine how amazing it would be if the rules were just a little bit more lax. so many guys stop after 1 when they realize i can't take my top off and they'll get yelled at for lightly caressing my upper thigh
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6 years ago
because the average poster on this site gravitates towards the "hot mess" type of dancer who goes home with customers, does drugs and extras, manipulates people 24/7, and is very jaded like michigan said. i don't prefer to date customers for the same kinds of reasons. there are some really cool, good people in the clubs but a lot of them are fucked up.. dancers and PLs alike
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6 years ago
sometimes i start to wonder if nicespice and nicole are the same person
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6 years ago
^gotcha. still a good rule of thumb no matter the age- if a single mother (or father) is introducing new men/women to her kid at the drop of a hat, it probably won't end well for anyone involved. i feel like that's more common with younger parents but it's still a red flag
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6 years ago
idk why it would matter unless things get serious. if she's letting a random guy from the club meet her kid without dating for at least a few months first then she has issues and is probably drama
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6 years ago
idk why it would matter unless things get serious. if she's letting a random guy from the club meet her kid without dating for at least a few months first then she has issues and is probably drama
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6 years ago
i wish the best for your friend, that's a shitty situation. lazy entitled people love to take advantage of sex workers. sometimes i don't think they even believe they are doing anything wrong. it's not just the sterotypical deadbeat bf but it can be female friends. i've been taken advantage of a few who thought dancing was such easy money so i should pay for them bc they were broke and one i even caught stealing from me who said "come on dude it's not that big of a deal, you made it in one night".
"B) Realize deep down what’s going on. But he enjoys being “taken care of” and so blissfully deludes himself."
i vote this one. he might also be ignorant when it comes to mental health stuff. like people who think being sad for a few days over something is the same as clinical depression and tell you to do yoga outside and eat better and you'll be cured. so maybe he doesn't understand the severity of the situation and why she can't just go back to normal and make rent
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
nicespice's scenario is different.. so is hard selling, or convincing a drunk guy to spend too much. i've heard guys claim that is "stealing" and i don't consider it to be so.
but if i saw a dancer sneakily pocket a wallet from an unsuspecting customer while he was in the bathroom, or while she was dancing for him.. i would say something. i can't stand girls who flat out steal just because they can. we are supposed to be dancers not pick pockets or con artists. sneaky, lazy girls like that are one of the reasons why we are looked down on as low lifes. plus i myself have had way too many things and too much cash stolen from crackhead thieving bitches, it's not fun
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6 years ago
The company that owns deja vu has the most for sure, plus they also own all the hustler, barely legal, and little darlings clubs
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6 years ago
Its true tbh.. so fucking disgusting. As a camgirl, incest role play is like the #1 thing I get asked to do and I block anyone who asks. I see it on porn sites a lot too lately ugh eww
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6 years ago
I’m super intrigued by this topic. Do men really think that trying to discipline their adult daughter would make her stop stripping or being an attention whore if that’s what she wanted to do? If that were the case there’d be a lot less strippers in the world..