Married couples first time at a strip club
OneLove
Pennsylvania
Hello, my husband and I are looking to go to a strip club. My idea. I’m kind of nervous but really excited to go. I’m pretty much down for anything. We have been together for a really long time and have discussed going for a while now. I’m wondering how I should act and what limits I should put on him. Only two things I may get insecure about is I’m a little bit over weight and I do not have any tattoos. He’s totally into girls with tattoos. I’m obessed with blondes. So I’m not sure how we will handle this. I wouldn’t consider my self bi sexual. I just get really turned on with another girl with my husband and I. I really want to know how private rooms work. If things go smoothly I want to get a private room. Not sure what’s going to go on. But what if my husband and I just wanted to have sex after a private dance. We live about and hour from our local strip club. I couldn’t imagine driving home after it would killl the vibe. Any suggestions would be awesome. We’re very open minded.
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As far as VIP room action goes. That really depends on the club. I know many clubs don't allow women in them and definitely not couples. You have to find clubs that allow it and it can even vary at one club given the manager when you go.
As far as VIP room action goes. That really depends on the club. I know many clubs don't allow women in them and definitely not couples. You have to find clubs that allow it and it can even vary at one club given the manager when you go.
Your physical appearance really doesn’t matter. If your paying a dancer to entertain you she shouldn’t be judge mental of your appearance. If she is she’s not going to make much money and money is all the dancers really care about. Just be clean and and we’ll dressed and respectful of your entertainer
What goes on in a private room really depends on the club and their rules. It can be anything from an air dance with minimal contact to full on sex with your entertainer. And if extras are offered expect to pay for them. Most clubs will fall somewhere in between with two way contact between you and the dancer. This is probably a good way for you to get started. Take it slow and enjoy the ride. As far as you and your husband having sex in the room again it depends on what the club allows. Overall I’d say most don’t allow it but my wife and I have had sex in a CR room in Providence clubs but closer to home in Boston you can’t away with it. Read the reviews here of the club you want to go to and that should give you and idea of what to expect. You may won’t to consider booking a room in a nearby hotel. My wife is the same way after visits a club. She’s ready the minute we leave as well.
Remember some dancers are hesitant to perform for couples as many girls who come with their guy suddenly get jealous of their guy getting contact with another naked women. You don’t sound that way from your post but remember the dancer doesn’t know you so try to give a positive vibe.
Unlike txtitty who is a gay stalker.
As for the OP, decide together what is wanted. If you want to just fuck together, without the dancer, then pay her and send her on her way early.
Maybe nicespice has some suggestions? She's a cool dancer with good posts here.
At the clubs I’ve worked at, the VIPs were all places the customers could technically get with or without a dancer. (Since those were two separate charges.) The dancer would negotiate her own price for her time.
A customers renting out their own area for themselves without a dancer was uncommon, but not unheard of. (But even then, they would usually invite the dancers to them as they pleased.)
Glancing at Kandy’s reviews, it seems like a midscale byob club. So maybe they would be more laid back about it? But I’m unfamiliar with that club.
My best suggestion would be to go in hoping for action with your husband and yourself, but to not *expect* it. Worst case scenario, there’s always the club parking lot. :)