Comments by April9424 (page 17)

Replying so you’ll stop messaging me to look at this dumb crap... yes I know such clubs exist and I’ve been to them but you couldn’t pay me to make out with any of the girls who work there, hence my low standards comment. Jeez.

she sounds awful. i don’t get why guys pay to interact with girls like this. shoving, threatening, no social tact or class, tries to cheat you out of more money.. do not write her a good review. personally I’d tell a manager/bouncer about her threat before she has a chance to say anything to them. falsely claiming assault because you don’t want dances is really fucking low of her!

in all my years I’ve only seen one front room makeout session and it just so happened to be at the same club where I saw a dancer pee on the floor. anything is possible when you have low standards

Dancers perspective: they offer free house fee and lunch just for showing up. So I used to go a lot. You get free pasties that I sometimes wore, sometimes bikini. They encourage you to talk to customers. So yeah there will s strippers there.. Girls can take guys inside for dances, arrange for customers to come see them at night, or arrange a sure thing otc so they can skip work that night. It’s cheaper and less crowded than a lot of other pool parties in town.

https://youtu.be/vZbG8GgjuDc

Some djs at smaller clubs like that will let you skip without even paying as long as there are enough girls willing to go on stage. I’ve never heard of a club hostess. It’s possible she was just scoping things out and none of the customers seemed promising enough. Some girls push VIP and don’t bother much with lap dances

Victoria’s Secret body spray is hands down the most popular cheap stripper scent. Most house moms even have an arsenal of them lol. Idk about fancy perfumes., I use a scented pheromone spray cuz it’s not too strong. Baby oil and lotion is frowned upon, usually

I’ve had guys come up and grab/slap me while their friend is getting a dance (wtf get your own dance). And guys who walk by on the floor and try to cop a feel. My reaction varies on a case by case basis but I don’t tolerate it. I don’t mind having my ass and tits touched all I ask for is $20 and to be treated like a human being. Anyone who thinks that’s asking for too much deserves what they get imo

If you pm me I can send you the agency websites I use. You need to have at least a little bit of experience and yes, stripper shoes and outfits.

vegas and LA are the absolute worst places for a beginner.. OP this isn't the best place to ask for dancing advice.

it happens enough to worry about it but not all the time. i don't usually ask for money up front but when a guy says he needs to go to the ATM or bathroom, i follow him. i've caught a few trying to run out this way.

"Even my ATF prefers to keep it "professional" ITC which means she's working on my arousal, not her own." i think you just described it perfectly. even with the customers i thought were hot, or even ended up dating/sleeping with.. lapdances just don't turn me on cuz i'm not thinking about my own pleasure when i'm at work. i worry about that later. lapdances also just don't do it for some people. i sometimes go to clubs as a customer and buy dances.. they are fun and i might fantasize about the girl later.. but the actual dances themselves don't make me horny.

Most clubs have showers. But I’m the clubs where girls are more likely to smell funky, the showers are so nasty nobody wants to use em

^some were bitches. I’ve been called names and had a drink thrown at me. I’ve also ended a dance/given a guy his money back after he kept grabbing his wife’s hand and forcing her to touch me after she said she didn’t want a dance and wanted to leave. Couples are just drama. And yeah some girls are overly sloppy and handsy in a very non-sexy and annoying way

I always approach couples and women but in defense of the dancers who avoid them... I’d say about 75% have ruined it for the rest

Never been turned on/horny or gotten off from dancing for a male customer. Some of their wives on the other hand have been a different story. And I’d say that happens once in a blue moon.

There’s not really such a thing as a “couples friendly” club- only couples friendly dancers.

^it really depends on the club and girl. I’ve wanted to kiss customers but I didn’t. You’d get fired (if caught) for that at most places I work but I know other clubs aren’t like that so girls probably kiss more when they feel like it. at one club i was visiting the manager actually TOLD me to make out with a customer to sell a vip..

You randomly asked a girl at big lots if you could take pictures of her? That’s pretty weird and bold. How did that go down? Everyone in my life including my parents knows what I do so it shouldn’t be uncomfortable but I remember one guy somehow making it awkward as fuck. I danced for a dude who owned a bar right by my house. My bf at the time was craving a certain drink from there, i told him why I didn’t wanna go and he said “oh come on there’s no way you’ll run into him”. Well, we did, and he checked on us about 10 times while lingering and staring at me. Bf agreed I was right and said let’s go. If you see a stripper in the wild please try and act normal lol

it makes sense, yes of course we want to kiss someone we are attracted to, i'm just not used to guys begging to pay me to make out with no promise of anything else. maybe they assume if i'm willing to kiss i'll get carried away and do more. i can actually see that happening

i think all it takes to block your IP is a VPN and they have free ones out there

interesting thread. so for most of you guys is kissing something you enjoy as foreplay? i've noticed an increase in guys wanting to makeout with me lately at work and i wonder what they get out of that. also, the idea of "not kissing at extras clubs" seems like silly logic to me. i know girls at non-extras clubs who do stuff otc, and even the ones who don't could have easily given their boyfriend a BJ right before work.

i hear a lot of girls in the dressing room counting money and keeping the party going and going home to fuck their man. i don't get it personally- all i wanna do at the end of the night is put on comfy pants and stuff my face. i do have trouble sleeping so sometimes illl take a bennydryl to help wind down from all the redbull and loud noises and bright lights and dancing. i don't really get a strip club high now. i remember that i did when i was 19 and brand new, working at a crazy dive full of drama and the money was new to me. weird cuz back then i stayed 100% sober but the money and atmosphere was intoxicating to me. i was naive and didn't realize how bad this club was but girls were on drugs, crazy fights, girls eating each other out on stage and in the VIP rooms. i was so excited to be a part of this wacky lifestyle and $400 was like SO COOL to me at the time, it felt like i was in a movie or something. now you couldn't pay me enough to set foot in a COI club. these days it's just work to me. unless i'm traveling- that's part of why i do it. being in a new place is always exciting and gives me a high. counting money is fun but it doesn't really give me a high since i know a lot of it just goes to bills. $400 is a lot more exciting when you still live with your parents.

no regulars, a lot of names i didn't recognize. except for one who i actually am supposed to meet this week.

i love strip club food. i used to think eating at the club was gross but some of the nicer places have amazing food and even sushi. there are some clubs though where i wouldn't even trust the food from the vending machine..