Comments by oscarlomax (page 3)

Years ago I saw a dancer @ DejaVu COI (been closed for years) do a very elaborate stage show that concluded with her putting a lightbulb in her pussy, snapping her fingers, and the light came on! She was hanging upside down on the pole as she did this. Everyone applauded and dollars rained on the stage from multiple directions.

A dancer was once sitting on my lap. She spied a certain other dancer walking out of the dressing room. The dancer got up from my lap and politely excused herself. She walked up to the other girl and clocked her in the face like she was in a barroom brawl. The other dancer fell back on the ground, out cold. Bouncers revived the fallen dancer and ushered both into the manager's office. A few moments later the fallen dancer got her things and left. My dancer casually walked back to me and sat on my lap and continued our conversation. I asked her what that was all about. She said, "That bitch is a thief and stole money from me so I had to handle my business." I asked why they let her stay. My dancer replied, "I make more money for the club than she does."

The list is wonderful tongue-in-cheek and as with all satire, there is real truth underneath. Always discuss price and what's on the menu before going into VIP. If it's vague, that's a red flag. At a club I go to in California, there are a lot of new girls. On a regular (topless or fully nude) lap dance, the more experienced girls ask for payment after the dance. The newbies, generally, ask for payment before the dance. To avoid any miscommunication, I always bring up price and payment, even for a regular lap, to a newbie b4 even deciding to get a dance. Always in a conversational way, of course. Most dancers I've encountered just don't plop down. They ask if they can join me or if I'm waiting on someone. Always exceptions to the rules.

I agree that Trump is a con man. Never understood why real Republicans hailed him as a hero. He's neither Democrat, Republican, Independent or any other political party person. He's a criminal that used politics to house his hustles. And they have caught up to him. I think he will make an attempt to flee the U.S. if L.E. is dispatched to slap on the iron bracelets.

I'm concerned about the House being able to function properly in terms of day-to-day government--like the debt ceiling etc. Will the need for perceived revenge for wrongs they feel they've endured obstruct basic governing?

PARADISE is like the bald-headed step-child of Synn but the prices are a bit cheaper and the women have less of an attitude. SRI is like the Beverly Hills of clubs in the area. A lot of pretty girls who know they are pretty and charge accordingly.

Never been a big Twitter user but I understand it's usefulness in business/advertising. I'm not a right wing fanatic or a big left wing extremist. My question as a black man is always, "How does this situation get me closer to freedom?" Just context to my thoughts. Elon Musk reminds us that Twitter is a privately owned forum that the public has taken for granted to some degree, so they get upset. Remember, it's all about financial gain for the owner in the end. Don't get caught up in the Oke-Doke.

Because Nancy is a politician, naturally the thought is this was politically motivated. The bottom line is that an elderly man was attacked in his home and that's a serious matter.

It's interesting that some white dudes who've slept with a number of black women make certain statements. There's a difference between the perceptions of the two. Bill Maher, liberal that he is, sometimes feels a little to entitled because of this very thing. Strip club culture has a lot of underworld elements about it so a lot of folk that indulge, of all persuasions, might have certain unsavory tendencies. The women that have encountered problems with men from this world are not always dealing with "upstanding" citizens in any regard. Notice I didn't say "all." There's a greater chance of jeopardy in this environment. People make choices. And yes, racial dynamics is a part of everything because it's tied to economics. I'm constantly learning and adjusting my perceptions so I can continue to have fun.

Prices of extras depend on the time of day and the girl.

Being a black man, I've had conversations with different dancers about this very topic. Some of the dancers have said that in many cases they think the black man is a pimp trying to recruit them so they stay away. I've also heard this from some white dancers. I think it's about one's lived experiences and maybe those experiences were so traumatic, they couldn't get over it. And sometimes it's just silly racist non-sense bourne out of ignorance. In the end, money is green, and that is the deciding factor with many dancers.

When you say LA clubs, do you just mean the clubs inside city limits or are you including OC and COI clubs and the like also? I haven't been to LA clubs inside the city limits in years. The Vu in NH and the Rhino in the same area used to be pretty good about regular lap dances without extras. But maybe I'm just thinking about the days gone by because I haven't been to either of those clubs since the Pandemic. Most clubs, even the ones known for extras, are not hard to get a dance without extras. You just talk to the dancer and settle on what you want. Where you might have a bit of an issue is with pricing and how appealing she is but the attractive part varies anyway according to taste. In many LA clubs there used to be a wide variety of body types. Not so sure these days. But the guys are right about 4-Play not being a place known for extras and lot of eye candy at one point in time.

Very interesting how some folk who support Trump ignore the fact the man is honest in his only concern being himself. He has no concern for others. On the other side, folk want him crushed. What I'm not seeing a lot of is the question---Why did he have those documents in the first place? If you're not the President, why would you have top secret government property in your personal abode? Trump himself, to my knowledge, or his team have really addressed this curious, but important question.

Oh, I'm lucky in that I don't have college debt. My father worked his ass off to make sure of it. I'm sure he incurred debt...all those years ago. But this issue is not about me, indivudally, it's about many in society who provide services that are vital.

Too many people getting upset and drinking the Kool-Aide. The massive debt that can never be paid off by many folk who went to college to improve their circumstances found themselves victims of this money scheme. On one hand people are fed this idea that college is the path for a better life and then they are put an ecconomic trick bag. Not everyone, but enough to make it a serious problem. So when someone tries to address the problem, not everyone is going to be happy. People want to blame this political party or that political party but it's an economic nightmare in which many have found themselves drowning. Many politicians now crying "foul" take government money from programs for their own personal use---Marjorie Taylor Mean, I mean Greene, Matt Gaetz etc., etc. So, if not a small starting point in loan forgiveness, what other solutions will really help as higher education costs get higher?

Usually, depending on the California Clubs I frequent, the ladies will either tell you flat out what they will do for you in the VIP or say something playfully naughty like..."You look cold. Let me warm you up...with my mouth!" or the less specific, "You wanna have some real fun?" If you are in a COI club, you know what that means.

I remember Roger from the movies THE MACK (as Max Julien's revolutionary brother) and the lead in LEADBELLY, a bio-pic about the famous bluesman. I also went to school with another of his daughters, Reni, in San Diego. RIP R.M.

You're right Papi, I shouldn't have ignored what my 6th sense was telling me. I know we can be wrong sometimes but, in most cases, clues don't lie. I took the big "l" on this one and learned my lesson.

It all depends on one's definition of race and/or the differences between race, ethnicity, and nationality. The Nazis declared Jewish people an "inferior race" that needed to be exterminated. This may be a different definition than a 65 year-old black woman in America might hold. These definitions and the times in which they occur and also the people giving out such labels has lots to do with how folks are reacting. Whoopie was right that the act of extermination was inhumane but the Nazis did not share her definition of race. Lines are blurred because "Jewish" can be a religious way of life, an ethnicity, and a nationality. After all, there are melinated folk who identify as Jewish. So it isn't as simple an issue as some may think.

Oh, sorry, I meant to say "Schumer" rather than the president before the Nit-Picky Mob tries to come for me! But even if you do, you know what I meant!

You know what the man means. This nit-picky nonsense is just that...nonsense. Yes, Thurgood Marshall was on the Supreme Court. Also Clarence Thomas, who is definitely not my cup of tea, is a Justice. Yes, there have been women. But in the history of the Court it has largely been WHITE MEN. That is a fact and that is the salient point we all know the President was talking about. And yes there should be a brilliant black woman who isn't a HAND MAIDEN or Bed Wench on the court. The Court needs to move closer to being an actual place of impartial adjudication than a political appendage.

Regular dances are $40 for two songs. Sometimes a 3-4-40 special. VIP Suites $180 for 20 minutes Various specials on various nights. Drinks are either $8 or $10 depending on what you want.

meant to say "...or women who are so skinny..." sorry about typos. We all think faster than we type.

There are a lot of factors and ethnicity is one of them and so is the location and style of club. I remember going to a Rhino Club in COI years ago. It was a mixed club but there were very few black dancers. I'm a black dude, and yes, I like curvy women with round butts. Not into really obese women are women who are so skinny it looks like the clothes are still on the hangers! I noticed one very attractive (to me) black women at the club who had that slim/thick build. She would never approach the black men who came in the club. She would go after older white guys and young white guys in groups. One day, I approached her and got into a conversation. She said she assumed that because this Rhino had a majority of women who weren't black that the black men who came in were not looking for her. Digging a little deeper, she admitted she moved from an all-black club because some guys there (her words) "treated her like shit." I just listened. From then on, every time I came in, she would seek me out to talk. Don't think I ever danced with her but we had a lot of conversations. We are all just the sum total of our experiences. And one size does not fit all.

Sorry. Prices are $20 for topless LD and $40 for fully nude. VIP is $120 plus whatever tip you negotiate with dancer