Racist? Bull shit? Scary?

shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
Last week a black dancer that I have known for years told me that a white dancer that I have also know for years just came back to work after being treated for genital Herpes and that she keeps getting STD's because she keeps fucking black guys bare back.

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twentyfive
2 years ago
Consider the source, yes it's most likely bullshit.
misterorange
2 years ago
That sounds like stripper-shit intended to keep you away from the other girl.
Pussylicker2
2 years ago
Maybe she knows something.
Tetradon
2 years ago
It seems like black dancers/escorts have a lower opinion of black men than anyone other race of SW.

They're the most likely to say black guys rip them off, lowball them, etc. And while I've never used an escort, I've looked through ads, and I see more black women than any other race say "no AA," "no AA under 40," or equivalent.
whodey
2 years ago
Part of each?

Could be bullshit just to keep you buying dancers from her instead of the white dancer.

Could be scary if the girl has had multiple STDs while doing FS ITC.

Completely racist to say that the reason she has gotten multiple STDs is because she fucks black guys bare back. The fact that she is fucking multiple customers bare back can lead to STDs but not because of the race of the customers.
Dolfan
2 years ago
I'm going with all three.

Obviously the bit about "she keeps getting STD's from fucking black guys bareback" is a bit racist. Statistics do show statistically significant higher rates among the younger demographic but it's still a but much to put it that way. A mentioned, black SW'ers to tend to have lower opinion of black guys than most people. Or at least they're the most prone to speaking openly about it. Maybe they feel like it's not racist because they're black, IDK. It was words out of the mouth of a stripper aimed at a customer, so its automatically liable to be bullshit. It would make said customer less likely to patronize another dancer, so the odds increase. And in general, I feel like STD rumors are significantly more rampant than confirmed cases. They have been since I was a teenager. Scary, yeah, that too. But it shouldn't be new scary. The STD risk is a part of having sex. It increases with multiple partners, especially when both parties have multiple partners.
Icee Loco (asshole)
2 years ago


Black dancers will often badmouth black men to white customers thinking it's what they want to hear. Think it makes them less scared of them to think they're white washed.

The part about the girl could be true. But more than anything uts a way for you to not get dances from her.
Papi_Chulo
2 years ago
"... black SW'ers to tend to have lower opinion of black guys than most people. Or at least they're the most prone to speaking openly about it. Maybe they feel like it's not racist because they're black, IDK ..."

It's bc they've had the worst experiences with them - black men way overrepresent violence statistics and black people and black women way overrepresent their victims - but of course in this day-and-age everything is racist including facts/statistics - it def sucks for the black guys that are not violent bc they can often be "guilty by association" but the numbers are the numbers and experiences are experiences and thus you have a certain # of black sex workers that don't want to deal with black customers usually based on prior bad experiences.
san_jose_guy
2 years ago
The girl is not jinxed. She might have gotten an STD, but that is a medical issue, not a moral issue.

SJG
Icee Loco (asshole)
2 years ago
They say shit like that coz customers like papi chulo want to hear it and feel disarmed by it
TheeOSU
2 years ago
dipshitscrub is racist against fruit flies because they evolved from maggots into flying insects whereas dippie's destiny is to remain a maggot throughout eternity.
VanessaM
2 years ago
I’m dying 😂😂😂

Also I never spoke bad about a blk man to a customer, I’m no bedwench and men of all races get on my nerves equally.

I hate when my people tap dance for others cause all it does is make conversation as this one.

Also a lot of yt escorts will not deal with blk men as well. They definitely vocalize this on Reddit a lot.

I think it’s the crimes blk men have an infinity to like pimping and robbing. I also think it makes sense if am escort does not want to see them. I’ve never had a problem.

As far as who is the nastiest or perverse all men all the same
rickthelion
2 years ago
^
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You’ll be able to recognize me because I’ll be wearing a stylin’ suit. Also, I’m a frickin’ lion. ROAR!!!
conan_mac_morna
2 years ago
@Rick man every time you post I think of Jubal Early from Firefly.

Simon: "Are you Alliance?"
Jubal: "Am I a lion? I don't think of myself as I lion. I do have a mighty roar."
rickmacrodong
2 years ago
Icee not everything a stripper says is a manipulative lie meant to get people to buy dances. It’s laughable to claim strippers are morally good then also say they should rob tricks and that every word that comes out of their mouth is meant to play tricks. Why would escort ads state no AA , sometimes no one under 40 or 30. You think they put that in the listing because it’ll help attract racist customers? Laughable.
Icee Loco (asshole)
2 years ago
Troll someone else dumb bitch
sideshow_bob
2 years ago
SWs of all colors are just irrationally racist against black men even though it costs them money. It has nothing to do with them being generally bad and dangerous clients who are not worth the risk or trouble.

SWs need formalized anti-racism training. This is not who we are as a society.
623
2 years ago
You are dreaming if you think this is not who “we” are. Look around, humans are afraid of anything different, and that is where racism is coming from and where it will continue to come from.

Sorry but face facts. That’s why rich ppl have disdain for poor and poor dislike rich ppl. Men and women don’t see eye to eye and don’t get me started on young vs old distrust.
sideshow_bob
2 years ago
Black SWs also discriminate against black men.

gammanu95
2 years ago
Is it racism if it's true? No, denying facts about a demographic is more racist than admitting the facts if they are, in fact, factual. Racism is only present if the things being said come from a place of hate and fear based purely on the subject's race.

I've met a couple of dancers who do not want their FS customers to wear rubbers because, frankly, it is much less fun. I wouldn't fuck those girls with your dick, but they do exist.
RTP
2 years ago
The interesting thing to me is that the dancers Shadow is discussing are very good friends (at least it seems that way). Takes us back to the the bare discussion. I have gotten dances from both dancers. Think I am done with the white girl.

Just my opinion, the real issue here is that she is doing it bare, not the race of the person she is doing it with.
booty_lover92
2 years ago
You know the saying “it be your own people” this is common jealousy for BLK women when a black man is dating a white woman nothing to see here
shadowcat
2 years ago
RTP did point out what I omitted. I too have scratched the white girl off my dance card for safety concerns.
Icee Loco (asshole)
2 years ago
Gammanu is ironing his hood and robe right now...
Studme53
2 years ago
“cunty” is how I would describe the gossipy dancer
VanessaM
2 years ago
@booty_lover92

Please wtf r u talking about blk women r jealous?

I’ve walked with a yt man and gotten the same energy from black men. You keep coming on here with that narrative.

At the club this blk man wouldn’t tip me because he thought I only like yt men. The irony is that time the yt man questioned if I only like blk men because I didn’t approach him

I learned that night most of what we perceive is bullshit. Often times people project.


This is what I’m talking about when I say when blk people get in front of others they tear their own down. Same as that stripper talking about blk men. SMH

Do better 🚫



Tetradon
2 years ago
@Bharlem gets it. A lot of projection.

I've dated a ton of black women, and there's a big difference between the ones from America, Africa, and the Caribbean. And between black men from each about interracial dating (their own or others).

Non-American ones seem to have a lot less baggage about it, and often look down on black Americans whom they say don't appreciate the opportunities that America provides. My last girlfriend (a black woman from East Africa) said she thought black Americans just wanted to get money and shopping trips from guys.

Strippers just want whomever they think pays. Some races that have a reputation for being cheap, overly gropey, or scammy, have their guard up for them.

And like Bharlem says, a lot of guys get inappropriately offended about "their" women dancing for other races. They need to get over themselves.
skibum609
2 years ago
"cunty" is how I would describe the joyless and useless piece of shit named Icee. Wah. By the way: Everybody sucks.
twentyfive
2 years ago
Everyone projects to some degree, seems strange to me how some folks turn everything into a racial, religious, or political issue.
I haven’t got time to hate anyone, there are however some folks I prefer to spend my time with and some folks I’d prefer weren’t in the same vicinity with myself.
Icee Loco (asshole)
2 years ago
Indifference and color blind racism are just as much of a problem
ilbbaicnl
2 years ago
Banking strippers are willing to talk to 100 worthless assholes in order to find 5 PLs they can bank with. They are observant and learn how to talk to PLs, so they can tell if a PL is a real prospect fairly quickly. Dumb, lazy strippers think they can identify the good prospects just by occasionally glancing up from their phones. Non white PLs, and young PLs are more likely to be broke. (And broke people are in a strip club because they at least have enough for some decent stage tipping, or they are stupid assholes). So a lazy stripper throws out the baby with the bathwater because lazy.
oscarlomax
2 years ago
Being a black man, I've had conversations with different dancers about this very topic. Some of the dancers have said that in many cases they think the black man is a pimp trying to recruit them so they stay away. I've also heard this from some white dancers. I think it's about one's lived experiences and maybe those experiences were so traumatic, they couldn't get over it. And sometimes it's just silly racist non-sense bourne out of ignorance. In the end, money is green, and that is the deciding factor with many dancers.
Icee Loco (asshole)
2 years ago
Cacaplop you're too obvious
TheeOSU
2 years ago
Same as you are dougeeboi lulz
booty_lover92
2 years ago
@Bharlem you are a hypocrite you said in your post that you can see why a YT escort wouldn’t want to see a black man due to the perceived notion of them being pimps or robs. That is racist and stereotypes, like every black man walking is a gangster or something you are apart of the problem.
Lockjaw
2 years ago
I have been with a dozen black sugar babies and dated numerous black women. Every single one of them talked bad about black men. I heard a lot of stuff on how they only fuck white men or they would only marry a white or Asian man.

One girl had a black boyfriend that tried to force her to carry his baby. When she refused to get pregnant, he set her apartment on fire. Another got beaten by her black boyfriend and ended up for days in the hospital. She has scars on her arm and back from where he cut her with a steak knife. It is not the skin color. It is the nigga culture. Lots of escorts won't see black men. Too many AA men think they don't have to pay or are extremely violent or want to become the hooker's pimp.
booty_lover92
2 years ago
Hey Lockjaw watch how you use that N word buddy, 500 dollars you wouldn't use it in my face. They are dealing with the wrong black men. Statements like that are dumb because their are plenty of shitty white dudes out there as well.
Icee Loco (asshole)
2 years ago
Everyone says nigga. It's not a bad word. Nigger is the bad one.

And

Black dancers say shit like that to disarm white men.
gammanu95
2 years ago
I laugh out loud every time a black man writes "I bet you wouldn't say 'nigga' or 'nigger' to my face." As if skin color automatically denotes a person's toughness, ability to fight, or self-defense knowledge. Plus, to be typing that from behind the safety of a keyboard and the internet is hilariously hypocritical!

Yes there are plenty of terrible black people, shitty white people, lousy latinos, asshole asians, idiots indians (feather and dot types). This is why ALL LIVES MATTER.

And don't be an internet tough guy. Just don't.
skibum609
2 years ago
People are like Christmas presents. Wrap my new skis in beautiful paper or toilet paper. All the same, because it's what's inside that counts, not the wrapping. Same with people. Forty years a lawyer and all I can say is people in general suck and it has nothing to do with the wrapping.
motorhead
2 years ago
I’ve never tried to see an escort ever in my life, but on occasion I’ve browsed sites like “Skip the Games” for some fun and to see what’s out there. (No much)

If no one has ever looked at escort sites, you’d be utterly shocked how many ads are clearly marked “no AA men”

Where’s the outrage from the liberal left? Seriously, can you imagine if Burger King or Target or Home Depot had signs that said “No African Americans Allowed inside”

Do all of these women have racist grandparents who witnessed the “colored only” drinking fountains?
oscarlomax
2 years ago
It's interesting that some white dudes who've slept with a number of black women make certain statements. There's a difference between the perceptions of the two. Bill Maher, liberal that he is, sometimes feels a little to entitled because of this very thing. Strip club culture has a lot of underworld elements about it so a lot of folk that indulge, of all persuasions, might have certain unsavory tendencies. The women that have encountered problems with men from this world are not always dealing with "upstanding" citizens in any regard. Notice I didn't say "all." There's a greater chance of jeopardy in this environment. People make choices. And yes, racial dynamics is a part of everything because it's tied to economics. I'm constantly learning and adjusting my perceptions so I can continue to have fun.
prevert
2 years ago
Sounds like mostly bullshit to me.
booty_lover92
2 years ago
You guys are dumb as fuck I’m aware that people use the word freely but connotation is everything. And my color has nothing to do with me being tough sometimes I can’t stand colonizers 🤷🏾‍♂️
8TM
2 years ago
The CDC stats are very clear that blacks in America have a much higher infection rate than whites and Hispanics. Both men and women.

It just is what it is. Go ahead and try to find a source that proves me wrong.

Obviously it’s trashy as hell to say “she keeps getting STD's because she keeps fucking black guys bare back” but that comes with the territory of strippers talking shit.
gammanu95
2 years ago
"colonizers"? LOL, okay, AOC. I should point out that Africans are as foreign to the soil of the Americas as Europeans are. You are really plumbing the depths of hypocrisy by calling Whites "colonizers" as a black man in America.
booty_lover92
2 years ago
Colonizer meaning your ancestors occupying lands that don’t belong to you
Tetradon
2 years ago
@Booty_lover, we're all descended from some group that kicked the shit out of another group to take their lands. Probably a conqueror who raped a bunch of peasant women, leading to our bloodline.

That's why I laugh at "land acknowledgements." Native Americans were killing and raping and enslaving one another long before whitey got there. Africans sold one another, and Arabs sold them, to white slavers.

I laugh extra hard at "colonizer." People use that language to make excuses for their own failures and inferiority complexes.

I've dated a lot of black women from sub-Saharan Africa, anywhere from Ghana to Zimbabwe. They're the most caring and sweetest women on the planet. And they hate wokes more than any MAGA WASP.
Icee Loco (asshole)
2 years ago
Self hate is powerful

gammanu95
2 years ago
Tetradon nailed it.

booty_lover - you are occupying this same land and by your own definition you are a colonizer. HYPOCRIT!

By my definition, and the definition of the law of the land I occupy, it does belong to me. I own it. I paid good money for it. I have complete and legally binding documentation that said land does belong to me. It cannot be taken from me except by equivalent legal jurisdiction.

So, booty_lover, the law is against you. The facts are against you. All you can do is jump up and down and call me names. "Colonizer", LOL. Yeah, it's good to own land.
Icee Loco (asshole)
2 years ago
Gammanu shouldn't you be ironing your robes???

Pretending like you don't know what colonization or occupation is makes you look retarded. Feigning ignorance or semantic games don't change sociohistoric facts
Tetradon
2 years ago
Pretending like "colonization" or "occupation" entitles you to your ancestors' grudges, or is responsible for your low position in life, makes you a loser.
gammanu95
2 years ago
I like to quote Orlando Bloom's character from A Kingdom of Heaven when discussing the Muslims' grudges against the Christian kingdom of Jerusalem:

"We are being asked to account for offenses we did not give, to people who were not alive at the time to be offended."

So, yeah, it was 155 years ago. The British Empire fought to end the Slave Trade by Africans. The United States fought to end slavery in the Confederacy. Get over it.
Icee Loco (asshole)
2 years ago
History and its consequences are fluid processes not static points in time
skibum609
2 years ago
Colonizer = successful society -- Colonized = failed, loser society.
twentyfive
2 years ago
The most amazing part of history, is the biggest losers are always whining about their place in it, and we all know history is written by the winners
So Iceefag shut the fuck up you’re a boring person and a loser.
skibum609
2 years ago
If you look at the globe objectively one would notice that the vast majority of successful countries are in the north and the vast majority of failed countries are in the south. Why is it that successful societies seem to emanate from cold, snowy climate unfriendly locales and failed lands emanate where farming is 365 days per year, and you can live outside without shelter for most of the year? Couldn't it possibly be that you have to be smarter, work harder, plan ahead, save more and become tougher living in a harsher place than people who simply could survive with less effort? Why people somehow think being colonized means they are owed anything is ridiculous. You had a huge head start on civilization and failed the minute you came in contact with cold weather societies. Yeah, New Zealand and Australia are in the spouth and blimey that is a rotter.....
Icee Loco (asshole)
2 years ago
Like I said history is fluid. Even skibitch agrees. That's why former colonial exploiters are better off than those they exploited. Colonialism genocide andslavery allowed for the accumulation of wealth for modern day capitalism and resulted in wealth condensation among the inhumane powers.
ilbbaicnl
2 years ago
So, 8TM what's your point? You can have unprotected sex as long as you don't have sex with black people? You might as well get syphilis. Worst case, it causes brain damage, which would be moot in your case.
Estafador
2 years ago
I agree with 2Icee. SWs say majority of their clientele is white statistically (dubious but whatever) and since it's illegal to escort anyway, why not be racist. who's the guy going to report you to? the johns always get harsher punishments than the sw. and i think the amount of raceplay doja cat has done to appease her white fans show you say what appeases your audience. green over everything. and the ones who truly believe that are usually bottom of the barrel
Estafador
2 years ago
@Bigthirdeye why is there a subsection specifically called blacked dedicated to interacial porn. to appease a certain audience.
Wakawakamoo
2 years ago
12% of Americans aged 14-49 years have genital herpes. 1 in 8. More if you consider that the younger half of the group may get it later.

So clearly you don't have to fuck black people bareback to get it. It's almost normal.
shadowcat
2 years ago
If you're going to quote facts, quote the full facts.

"HSV-2 infection is more common among women than among men; the percentages of those infected during 2015-2016 were 15.9% versus 8.2% respectively, among 14 to 49 year olds. 2 This is possibly because genital infection is more easily transmitted from men to women than from women to men during penile-vaginal sex. 5 HSV-2 infection is more common among non-Hispanic blacks (34.6%) than among non-Hispanic whites (8.1%). 2 A previous analysis found that these disparities, exist even among persons with similar numbers of lifetime sexual partners. Most infected persons may be unaware of their infection; in the United States, an estimated 87.4% of 14 to 49 year olds infected with HSV-2 have never received a clinical diagnosis. "
skibum609
2 years ago
You missed the point icee. You're roo stupid for words. Isn't it time you killed yourself because you got dumped?
Icee Loco (asshole)
2 years ago
Estafador. The guys here are the types that black dancers talk shit about black men to coz it makes them feel good. They get off on thinking a black woman prefers them over her own. It feeds the delusion that old white men are desirable. When in reality they're just easy marks.
twentyfive
2 years ago
^ Rich men are a commodity no matter what age they are, morons like you are a dime a dozen, the only purpose you serve in life is as a poor example of how to live a life.
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