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My CF is dancing in Vegas this week. She promised to call me every day. Well.... I’m not holding my breath.

Good advice from Skibum609 and gSteph. Thank you. For those who question a pretty woman’s ability to earn that amount, I harken back several years when a dancer told me she made $1,000 on a Tuesday afternoon. Her words: “Noon to 6:00; 3 Champagne Rooms, 2 blowjobs, and $100. from lap dances. - $1,000.)

I have no evidence but have read several times that The Villages in FL ( a 55+ community) has an STD rate which is out of control. I also have been told that hepatitis C rates are highest in the “Baby Boomers” age group ( I just finished my 90 day cure). So there must be more than hanging curtains and painting walls going on with women of a certain age. My concern is a lack of motivation on my part. Great insight though, Justin to Look.

She’s fairly savvy and is going with a gal who does this regularly. I don’t think that she’s worked as an escort, but could easily be wrong. My impression is that she’s been doing OTC with customers she’s met in clubs. She is highly skilled at the love making skills, and with one exception, has insisted on safe sex practices when with me. If the gal she’s traveling with is who I think it is, her friend is very well experienced at getting $$ from men for sex in many different ways. My friend is brutally honest with me, and will tell me what she’s doing. There’s a face shot of her in my photos listed as CF

Rick Dugan - you’re welcome to feel disdain for heroin addicts, but for me that would be misplaced. My ATF of 10 years is a heroin addict. When I met her she was 22 and had been addicted for 5 years. She & her BF were addicts on methadone when she & I met. He was in state prison and she had a nice neat townhouse, was paying her bills and driving a nice car. She told me that the first time she had sex for money was at age 15. She says I was her first OTC customer at age 23. She bounced in and out of active addiction for all the time I’ve known her. She is not a worse person than you or I. We’re told that addiction is a sickness and needs treatment, not punishment. But I’ll be the first to admit that after spending a great deal of resources “treating” her “sickness”, it FEELS like she made a choice when she relapses. And I’m sure that there’s a portion of the responsibility which can be recognized as a choice, but who gains what if we can make that determination? She, when using heroin, got to be so good at dosing she could get by with a maintenance dose, not really getting high, but forestalling withdrawal. She grew to hate the drug, and determined that she had to stop using when the dope started coming through with fentanyl in that she couldn’t tell the strength until it was in her body. She said, if I don’t kick the drug I’ll be dead in a month. While I was writing this she called to tell me that she had a good day, just got out of work, gets paid on Wednesday and will deposit some of the money she owes me at that time. How long will she stay clean? She takes it one day at a time. Her Dad, an addict, has been sober more than 10 years. Her brother, an addict, was sober for 6 years and relapsed. She stopped using about 18 months ago and slipped and had a 2 week run about 10 months ago. I’ve been guilty of enabling her by being a source of funding, but as she used to say to me, “ If not you, it’ll be someone else”.

Part of the reason for that is that he chooses some topics which are really unique. I love the Right Reverend’s postings, not only for his sense of humor, but for his ability to draw so many of us in. Keep it up, Rev. On the matter of the Autism Spectrum, I’d like to see us stay away from an area with which there’s a lack of knowledge and lots of misinformation. I’m not saying that we ignore personal characteristics if that’s what you find funny. But to attempt to diagnose an anonymous writer is absurd. It’s like trying to determine whether I have measles or mumps because I have a fever. And we end up offending someone unnecessarily. I realize there are some who find humor in it, but it’s usually just not knowing. (I.e. when txttity writes about “mongoloyd” or whatever and it brings back memories of my late brother with Downs Syndrome). Just an additional benefit of anonymity.

I guess you were being mooned. Amazing that you got the “diamond ring” with a cell phone.

We’ve had several dancers as regular contributors and I know I’ve appreciated their perspective. Probably my favorite was Duomaxwell.

While we, anecdotally, describe a decrease, keep in mind that the latest surveys indicate a slight decrease, there are still more than 190 overdose deaths per day in the USA.

I’ve made mention of the same thing occurring at my favorite club. Ten years ago there was a group of heroin addicts (and a couple of regular customers dealing). True story: I was once in the Champagne room and at the end of an hour the dancer & I decided to do another hour. The waitress got us new drinks and asked if she could get us anything else. The dancer whispered in her ear and 15 minutes later the waitress returned with a $40 bag of dope. She said she had to run down the street to get it. On my recent visits I’ve seen little evidence of drug use. Weed is now legal, so I don’t include that. Two dancers said they hate going outside to smoke weed so they are using edibles.

I recently bumped into my old friend Tom, an eighty-year old rancher, in town. Tom had lost his wife a year or so before and rumor had it that he was marrying a "mail order" bride. Being a good friend, the banker asked Tom if the rumor was true. Tom assured him that it was. The banker then asked Tom the age of his new bride to be. Tom proudly said, "She'll be twenty-one in November." Now the banker, being the wise man that he was, could see that the sexual appetite of a young woman could not be satisfied by an eighty-year-old man. Wanting his old friend's remaining years to be happy the banker tactfully suggested that Tom should consider getting a hired hand to help him out on the ranch, knowing nature would take its own course. Tom thought this was a good idea and said he would look for one that afternoon. About four months later, the banker ran into Tom in town again. "How's the new wife?", asked the banker. Tom proudly said, "Good - She's pregnant." The banker, happy that his sage advice had worked out, continued, "And how's the hired hand?" Without hesitating, Tom said, "She's pregnant too."

Good point racejeff. Lux is one of only a few dancers of color. There are a few 𝘼𝙨𝙞𝙖𝙣 dancers as well. The dancers are all quite fit ( I only saw one tubby that night and I know there are many who think she’s quite attractive due to an enormous rear end). The very large majority of dancers are experienced but only a handful in their late 30’s or 40’s. I spent some time talking with a dancer who I’ve been seeing there for 8 or 9 years and she would have to show me an ID before I’d serve her. I recently checked out her FB page and saw pictures of her 3 kids and their father. Who’d have thunk? I’ve done dances with her at least 15 times cuz she’s so damned cute, but you won’t get the same level of physical attention I got from Lux. I used to be in the Champagne Rooms at least weekly and I knew which dancers had extensive menus and most of them were drug dependent.My IMPRESSION is that there are far fewer addicts on stage and far less of a Bacchanalian party upstairs.

HaHaHaHa. You used the words legislative and sensible in the same sentence. Talk about creative writing. You know, you may have a career ahead of you writing fiction for the masses.

Why on earth are you going back to lawyering? And I hope you’re not doing so on a full time basis. I first retired at age 57. I then consulted 100 days per year for about 10 years. I then spent 3 years taking care of my sick wife. After 70 I wonder how I fit all that work into my busy schedule. I saw my endocrinologist yesterday, my urologist tomorrow, having an MRI on Friday, and my urologist on Monday Another factor which I expect you’re taking into consideration is that you’ll be about 103 when the twins graduate from college. So instead of enjoying grandkids, you’ve got a chance to pamper & spoil your own children. My offspring went and got lots of academic degrees and then HAD to start their careers, then they had my grandkids. So it’s more difficult seeings how I’m old enough to be their great grandparent. Finally, retirement is a wonderful opportunity to have either a mistress, a sugar baby, or a fuck buddy. I’ve tried all 3 and rediscovered the pleasure of a nooner, the worry of an STD, and the relief when she says, “ well I’m pregnant but it’s not yours.” But it sounds as if you’ve already decided to return to the land of $85. neckties and squabbles over minutiae. At least have some fun and leave a Writ of Dumas Penis under the door of one of the partners.

I know a dancer who has feminist attributes and justifies her work as a stripper because she can make a living by working 3 shifts per week. She has a BA degree from a prestigious University. She worked in San Francisco, developed a coke habit, family intervened, got through rehab and started stripping about 15 years ago. She’s now in her early 40’s and is a single mom. AI good 8 or 9 years ago she told me about her Retirement savings, her investments, etc. She swears she’s never met a customer OTC. She has a number of regular customers and she provides no extras in the tuscl vernacular ( she swears that she turned down a $3000 offer for a blow job), but she provides what many ( or most) of her co-workers fail to provide, and that is entertainment. I’ve spent 15 or 20 hours through the years with her in VIP and the time goes so swiftly and leaving happy takes on a new definition and by that I mean pleased that an hour with her was worth it. Yes she has a great body and it is a full nude club where she’s worked well over a decade. She has confided in me and I’m aware of some of her personal “issues” and frankly they’re not that different than the issues which have led other dancers in her club into addiction and prostitution. She, because she has a good self image, personal strength, and a disciplined life has a life she has chosen, has an education, and is considering employment options for after stripping ( last year I know she was taking a welding course with metal sculpturing in mind. She personifies a blend of feminism and wisdom which most lack.

Colonoscopies are like painting a house: The hardest part is the preparation.

In the matter of age for porn, if it’s involved in interstate commerce it’d need federal age limit (18)

My ATF and I spent many nights where she would remove her thong and I would massage her feet, spreading her legs as I worked her toes to her heels, As a dancer her feet would get sweaty and a little odiferous but it was always good. She of course saw many other men and had 2 regular clients who worshiped her feet. She lived with me for almost a year. One night she told me that one of her customers was a licensed masseuse. She called him and he came to the house with his portable table. He gave me a good massage and then to her. He massaged her feet for at least 10 minutes, then moved up. She had a thing on and he massaged her ass and then her back, then turned her over exposing her beautiful breasts. He looked at me for approval to which I nodded assent. I got up and whispered in her ear that I’d give her $100 if she’d blow him. She reached out to his groin and he backed away. She talked about frtished a great deal and is still talking about a possible web site.

Being a little bit older than other contributors here, I know 3 of my high school classmates who’s names are inscribed in the long black wall. Albert sold me his paper route when he was 15 and I was 13. He died in battle. I went for my physical exam and flunked.(4F) became my draft card designation. It wasn’t bone spurs but it might as well have been. I’ll never forget a friend who was home on leave helping me and a couple of friends polishing off a couple of cases of beer. It was well into the evening when he started crying, telling us how a Viet Kong fighter dropped out of a tree pointing a rifle at him. My friend had his on full automatic and literally cut the person in half with his gunfire. He then saw that it was a 13 year old girl; the same age as his little sister. He cried every night. Another friend was a helicopter pilot who was evacuating ground troops who were surrounded & under heavy fire. Mark made 5 trips in and out but on trip #6 an RPG took the tail off. His copter pinwheeled into the ground. Mark lived but he had 38 broken bones. The pain was excruciating and he was totally surrounded. He was trying to reach his sidearm to end the pain when another copter saw his movement and dropped down to save him. War is Hell. My hat is off to all who have served. My prayers are with those who survived.

There was a former stripper with whom I maintained a relationship for quite a few years. She told me that she was doing some cam work and I checked her out online and she invited me to come watch at her house. She “broadcasted from her bedroom and spent a great deal of time in preparation - her appearance and the room’s appearance. She had a small vibrator she got new batteries. Watching from behind the camera or from the side was kind of hot. She offered me the process to be on line with her, but I didn’t think anyone would pay to watch an old man defile a young woman. My ATF would do just about anything for money when she was an active heroin addict. She asked me to investigate camming and in the process I spoke with a dancer, who crammed about 10 hours a week plus she had videos which she sold on another web site. She told me that she had about 10 videos running from a 4 minute video of her taking a shower ($5.00) running to a 30 minute video of her having interracial sex including anal, vaginal, and oral sex with a stud which ended with her having a mouthful of cum. That was for sale for $75.00. She was working 2 clubs, doing the camming, selling pre-made videos and would also make videos to order. She said the fetish market was the most lucrative, but that by busting her ass ( so to speak) she claimed to be making about $200k.

I know a dancer who in an afternoon shift took home $1000. Three Champagne rooms, 3 bbbj, 2 of them cum in mouth. I did a Champagne Room with a dancer who I’d been lusting after for 8 weeks. She assured me on the way upstairs that she didnt do extras. An hour later she’d given me a very good HJ and I’d enjoyed DATY. I asked her what I owed and she just stated the posted price ($300/hr). I had a regular dancer with whom an hour Champagne Room cost $190 to the house & $200 to the dancer. I’d tip $100 for a BBBJ & BBFS . This quickly turned into $500 per hour at a hotel. I had any complimentary rooms at Hilton and Holiday inn. She later told me that she had a sliding scale. She had a couple of “hot guys” that she’d have done free but they offered to pay so she’d take a $100. She had a customer, seriously overweight, and she referred to him as smelly Kevin. He was obsessed with her and she’d charge him $600 for a covered BJ. At one point she was meeting 3 regulars, all OTC. I paid $500/hr., the dentist paid $600, and the contractor paid $1000. I paid for out hotel, the other two had her get the room and usually paid some of the cost. These prices are for a dancer who knew how to please. She let me take nude photos, a few video tapes etc. she told me that the contractor was quite heavy and unattractive. He’d never take his tee shirt off, wanted porn on TV, had some trouble getting it up and she was patient and when he fucked her he stayed on his back and she’d “ do all the work”. Like anything else, the value of anything is determined by what anyone will pay for it.

I listened to a speaker on NPR today advocating the decriminalization of prostitution. According to her it’s a full time job.

In the 60’s I had a hippie dippy gal who had the requisite long blonde hair and we used to sit cross legged, smoke bud and look at the pictures in the Book. Frankly, we never truly mastered the missionary position so it was a waste of time. Some of my partners in the past decade have encouraged new and enticing positions and I’m not sure they learned them from a book.

I doubt if they’d be eliminated. While they don’t seem to attract the level of comments (and readership?) that they used to, they are an additional draw for the few members able to maintain interest on a single subject for more than 7 minutes. I took a look on xnxx.com and their “sex stories” are pure fiction but appear to be a huge draw if the figures printed are anywhere near accurate. They are substantially longer and it looks as if many are multi-part. I’m not advocating fiction, although Pole-dancer’s contribution today was nice. Flesh that out to include a little character development, a plot, and other than getting dripping cum on your hands it could work. I’m guessing that advertising revenue is directly affected by the number of readers. Somewhere I believe is a compilation of the number of hits and for how long each “visit” has occurred on commercial web sites. So anything which brings people here to read benefits Founder; ergo helps the site itself.