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gawker
Older than dirt
I’m in my mid 70’s and have only had sex with young women (under 35) for the last 10 years. One of my neighbors sent my sister a text saying that she had a friend in her late 50’s who was “looking for a little action” and asking my sister if she thought I was “up to it”. On one hand I guess I’m complimented, but on another I’m wondering if I am up to it. Have the young dancers “spoiled me?”
My current favorite is a gal who I met 4 years ago. In a 4 or 5 month period we had OTC meetings at her apartment about once a week. She quit & moved abruptly leaving me fondly remembering BBFS ITC on her last night. We occasionally texted and she had a serious BF, told me about going to spend a weekend dancing at a club a couple of hundred miles away when she needed money, had two kids 15 months apart and then a few months ago sent me very provocative pictures and asked if I was still interested. She’d been dancing but was quite outspoken about hating being a “piece of meat”. We’ve had a few OTC hookups, but she went on a kick about a month ago - no stripping - no OTC - got a civvie job and called me crying with her first week’s pay in hand - $320 take home.
Today she called & told me she and a GF are flying to Vegas tomorrow and she’s going to try to earn $1000 a night for 3 nights. I asked if she was dancing or “escorting”? She’s going to let me know which club she’s dancing at. Are her goals realistic or will she end up hooking?

13 comments

  • JAprufrock
    5 years ago
    ^^I get the feeling it's like the Hotel California: You can check out anytime you like but you can never leave.
    They have a limited window in this career -- until their looks deteriorate -- and I get the feeling most take full advantage of it.
  • wallanon
    5 years ago
    Man I wouldn't underestimate a chick in her 50's, especially if she's letting it be known she's out for dick.
  • McNaffles
    5 years ago
    Are her goals realistic or will she end up hooking?
    Not realistic at all … possible, but unlikely. The best three days would be Thursday, Friday, Saturday or during a big conference week (SEMA just passed).
    My contacts report Vegas clubs were quiet yesterday and I've been out there tonite and its still quiet. I wouldn't think escorting is a much better a bet right now for someone cold in from out of town.
    On the plus side, airfare and hotel room overheads should be low.
  • RTP
    5 years ago
    Is she a pro's pro, or naive? Las Vegas is not a place to casually make a $1000. Lots of people have heard of it before. There are lots of dealers, pimps, and solid pros in the escorting business there. I don't know much about the dancing as I stopped going to strip clubs when my favorite shut down, but doubt you can just waltz in there a net a cool $1000.

    By the way, does she get that she will need airfare, a place to sleep, food, drink, local transportation, etc. Is the $1000 gross or net.

    Good luck to her and hope she does not learn any tough lessons.
  • gawker
    5 years ago
    She’s fairly savvy and is going with a gal who does this regularly. I don’t think that she’s worked as an escort, but could easily be wrong. My impression is that she’s been doing OTC with customers she’s met in clubs. She is highly skilled at the love making skills, and with one exception, has insisted on safe sex practices when with me.
    If the gal she’s traveling with is who I think it is, her friend is very well experienced at getting $$ from men for sex in many different ways. My friend is brutally honest with me, and will tell me what she’s doing. There’s a face shot of her in my photos listed as CF
  • bullzeye
    5 years ago
    Just looked at your photos. Not a bad one I the bunch. Damn, you can sure pull them in.

    Re: Vegas. No clue. I’m not tapped into that scene. Did talk with some dancers while I was in San Diego and it seems they all dance out in Vegas, too. My takeaway from the conversations was that even though there are tons of $ In LV, there is a ton of competition for those dollars, too.
  • Call.Me.Ishmael
    5 years ago
    No idea if her goals are realistic or not, or if she'll wind up escorting. I know that Vegas has made more people destitute in 3 days than wealthy...

    I also know that you involve yourself personally in these women's lives to a degree that I'll never fathom.

    But I guess people enjoy strippers in different ways, and this is your way.
  • jackslash
    5 years ago
    "she and a GF are flying to Vegas tomorrow and she’s going to try to earn $1000 a night for 3 nights. "

    I'm not familiar with Vegas, but this is a realistic expectation in Detroit. Dancers do not always make that much, but I know dancers who have such goals.


    "crying with her first week’s pay in hand - $320 take home."
    Most uneducated or unskilled people take home very little. I knew a dancer who quit for 3 months and worked for Ikea. When she returned, she told me she had only earned $11 an hour (before taxes). She also complained that they expected her to work all the time.


    I don't know about action with a woman in her late 50's. All I can say is that when I look at my friends' wives in their 50's and 60's, I know I could not get it up for women who look like that.

  • gSteph
    5 years ago
    Miscellaneous response

    Try the 50 something for dinner and see where it goes.
    You gotta eat.
  • datinman
    5 years ago
    a friend in her late 50’s who was “looking for a little action”

    Unfortunately, IME for women in their mid to late 50's, "action" is a code word for redecorating your place after they move in.
  • gawker
    5 years ago
    I have no evidence but have read several times that The Villages in FL ( a 55+ community) has an STD rate which is out of control. I also have been told that hepatitis C rates are highest in the “Baby Boomers” age group ( I just finished my 90 day cure). So there must be more than hanging curtains and painting walls going on with women of a certain age. My concern is a lack of motivation on my part.
    Great insight though, Justin to Look.
  • skibum609
    5 years ago
    Gawker: I club all the time and no matter how skilled they are my wife is better. Is she as hot at 60 as she was at 30? Nope, but her skilles are way better than a paid sex worker's skills. We also swing and women being great at sex in their 50's is the rule. Give her a shot. Surely saving money might be a benefit.
  • gawker
    5 years ago
    Good advice from Skibum609 and gSteph. Thank you.
    For those who question a pretty woman’s ability to earn that amount, I harken back several years when a dancer told me she made $1,000 on a Tuesday afternoon. Her words: “Noon to 6:00; 3 Champagne Rooms, 2 blowjobs, and $100. from lap dances. - $1,000.)
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