Miscellaneous ramblings
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I’m in my mid 70’s and have only had sex with young women (under 35) for the last 10 years. One of my neighbors sent my sister a text saying that she had a friend in her late 50’s who was “looking for a little action” and asking my sister if she thought I was “up to it”. On one hand I guess I’m complimented, but on another I’m wondering if I am up to it. Have the young dancers “spoiled me?”
My current favorite is a gal who I met 4 years ago. In a 4 or 5 month period we had OTC meetings at her apartment about once a week. She quit & moved abruptly leaving me fondly remembering BBFS ITC on her last night. We occasionally texted and she had a serious BF, told me about going to spend a weekend dancing at a club a couple of hundred miles away when she needed money, had two kids 15 months apart and then a few months ago sent me very provocative pictures and asked if I was still interested. She’d been dancing but was quite outspoken about hating being a “piece of meat”. We’ve had a few OTC hookups, but she went on a kick about a month ago - no stripping - no OTC - got a civvie job and called me crying with her first week’s pay in hand - $320 take home.
Today she called & told me she and a GF are flying to Vegas tomorrow and she’s going to try to earn $1000 a night for 3 nights. I asked if she was dancing or “escorting”? She’s going to let me know which club she’s dancing at. Are her goals realistic or will she end up hooking?
My current favorite is a gal who I met 4 years ago. In a 4 or 5 month period we had OTC meetings at her apartment about once a week. She quit & moved abruptly leaving me fondly remembering BBFS ITC on her last night. We occasionally texted and she had a serious BF, told me about going to spend a weekend dancing at a club a couple of hundred miles away when she needed money, had two kids 15 months apart and then a few months ago sent me very provocative pictures and asked if I was still interested. She’d been dancing but was quite outspoken about hating being a “piece of meat”. We’ve had a few OTC hookups, but she went on a kick about a month ago - no stripping - no OTC - got a civvie job and called me crying with her first week’s pay in hand - $320 take home.
Today she called & told me she and a GF are flying to Vegas tomorrow and she’s going to try to earn $1000 a night for 3 nights. I asked if she was dancing or “escorting”? She’s going to let me know which club she’s dancing at. Are her goals realistic or will she end up hooking?
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They have a limited window in this career -- until their looks deteriorate -- and I get the feeling most take full advantage of it.
Not realistic at all … possible, but unlikely. The best three days would be Thursday, Friday, Saturday or during a big conference week (SEMA just passed).
My contacts report Vegas clubs were quiet yesterday and I've been out there tonite and its still quiet. I wouldn't think escorting is a much better a bet right now for someone cold in from out of town.
On the plus side, airfare and hotel room overheads should be low.
By the way, does she get that she will need airfare, a place to sleep, food, drink, local transportation, etc. Is the $1000 gross or net.
Good luck to her and hope she does not learn any tough lessons.
If the gal she’s traveling with is who I think it is, her friend is very well experienced at getting $$ from men for sex in many different ways. My friend is brutally honest with me, and will tell me what she’s doing. There’s a face shot of her in my photos listed as CF
Re: Vegas. No clue. I’m not tapped into that scene. Did talk with some dancers while I was in San Diego and it seems they all dance out in Vegas, too. My takeaway from the conversations was that even though there are tons of $ In LV, there is a ton of competition for those dollars, too.
I also know that you involve yourself personally in these women's lives to a degree that I'll never fathom.
But I guess people enjoy strippers in different ways, and this is your way.
I'm not familiar with Vegas, but this is a realistic expectation in Detroit. Dancers do not always make that much, but I know dancers who have such goals.
"crying with her first week’s pay in hand - $320 take home."
Most uneducated or unskilled people take home very little. I knew a dancer who quit for 3 months and worked for Ikea. When she returned, she told me she had only earned $11 an hour (before taxes). She also complained that they expected her to work all the time.
I don't know about action with a woman in her late 50's. All I can say is that when I look at my friends' wives in their 50's and 60's, I know I could not get it up for women who look like that.
Try the 50 something for dinner and see where it goes.
You gotta eat.
Unfortunately, IME for women in their mid to late 50's, "action" is a code word for redecorating your place after they move in.
Great insight though, Justin to Look.
For those who question a pretty woman’s ability to earn that amount, I harken back several years when a dancer told me she made $1,000 on a Tuesday afternoon. Her words: “Noon to 6:00; 3 Champagne Rooms, 2 blowjobs, and $100. from lap dances. - $1,000.)