heelslvr

I typically start the OTC talk at the club, that way you know she is will actually consider it. My approach is: I hate the club making all the money instead of you, what do you think about meeting OTC and I will make it worth your time. This amount varies according to the city, where I live, day shift girls end up going home with less than $ 200 on slow days.. lap dances are $10 here...... so I found a good "hey how about we meet for a BJ OTC and I will give you 100" this when is a 30 min meeting, and sampling, or, "let's have some fun OTC, and I will give you 200, to make up what you could make in the club," typically get a hotel room and plan on 2 to 4 hours of fun. I also offer to meet Mondays- Wed, which are typically slow days anyways. Now I been successful with OTC when traveling but my success rate is less than 10% when the conversation actually happens, which is not that often, specially in cities where girls are making $500 plus. If/when it sounds to good to be truth, I am very careful, once I had two girls, and they robbed my credit cards and money.......neddless to say I was druuuuunk.... and it was New Orleans Marty Grass, so I never saw them again.

We all have the "rookie"/"how could that happen to me"/"what was I thinking" moments when we play the game, even us than been playing for 30+ years..... Good thing your mistake is only money.......... happy hunting

a must for me...lol....heelslvr.......

It oscilates from addiction to hobby... I love strippers, I have all my life, I almost married one back in 91.... I am happily married (23 years) to a hot wife, and great mom, but I still love strippers. I feel that I am not cheating on my wife if I just have "fun" at the club, and or have a casual OTC date, since it is a transaction, not a true date. The problem is when there are is other shit going on in your life, and you tend to make more visits or get attached to your CF, creating a scape from reality. I am in that situation today, I met a girl, I been her regular for a some months (lost of visits), done some OTCs, and now I find myself wanting more and more. Like somebody said earlier, it makes you feel young again. The main issue is that I know I need to stop, and find the next stripper I want to fuck, but I struggle, because if feels good, and is giving me the "feeling" of romance. I love her texts, the pics, the attention, and like the feeling......so what I am doing about it? I am quitting her, because I got what I wanted, is not going any further (or should not go), and is not healthy or good for me or my REAL situation, so I need to let her go........... Hope this makes sense, is a dangerous game/hobby/addition, it is expensive, and you could put yourself in very bad situations (DUI, STI, and others), but is FUN, and feels good....... Just be careful, and always keep a clear and realistic understanding of whatever situation you are in........ No judging what so ever......

They do 2 for 1 and a shot some nights, 2 songs and a shooter for $40.