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5 years ago
Too costly for an Uber that far. If you really want to do it take the Amtrak from San Diego to Anaheim or Fullerton then Uber from there to COI.
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5 years ago
New phone who dis?
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5 years ago
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ChesterCheetahDedicating my life to finding out Eliza-icees stripperweb handle
First thing you should do is be honest with yourself about what you are actually wanting to accomplish. From some of your replies (like revenge) it sounds more like you’d like her to believe you’re moving on and miss your money rather than you actually wanting to move on without any drama. This is common especially in situations like yours where it’s been a longer term otc/stripper baby arrangement. If you truly are wanting to move on and have no further interest in this girl, including how she thinks of you or your money, then the best way to do that is like mentioned above just act like nothing happened and just don’t spend on her anymore. If asked tell her it was just time for something else. The only reason to do anything different is if you’re still wanting her attention because she misses you (re: YOUR MONEY!)) which like I said is common. If that’s the case good luck to you because it’s a never ending game of drama that you will pay for in money, time and headaches.
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5 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
The dancer I was seeing over a five year period would stay the night at my house quite often. I even let her stay a week there when she had surgery and was recovering. During that time it was a mix of way too much drama and constant texts while I was at work begging me to come home and have sex (with pics). So yeah bad and good. I’m very familiar with the cigarette burns in couches, bed sheets and even the fucking shower curtain somehow! Over all this time she would ask to move in from time to time and thank god I always had the balls to say no. I have three extra bedrooms so she would always talk about bringing stuff over to make a room but the most I ever let her get in the house was clothes and a toothbrush and things like that. There were obviously good times but even those were just so chaotic (see the texts to work) that it was just something I was never willing to consider going full time with.
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5 years ago
Met a sexy little 21 year old and got some dances with her after which she says “you’re fun I should give you my number”. After a couple months of texting and seeing her every couple weeks at the club and getting dances and handjobs I came to see her one night. I head into the club and she’s nowhere to be found. She texts me after about 15 minutes telling me she just got fired and can I follow her to another club she can work at. Then she asks if we can just go to my place. She ended up staying the night which turned into about five years of great sex and crazy drama. There’s something completely insane feeling when you don’t want the drama of the next text but still can’t wait to get it. Glad i ended it but probably wouldn’t change the journey.
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5 years ago
Not that it matters but I did see the post he is taking about (I think a couple of days ago maybe yesterday) and it doesn’t seem to be there now.
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5 years ago
Just don’t pull on the string
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5 years ago
You have an acquaintance that is a dancer, not “used to be”. They take breaks is all. She is taking a break and figures the guy that could drop 500-600 three times a week at the club would certainly be willing to drop that for some one on one time with a possibility to hook up. Enjoy it, get what YOU want out of it but don’t let your big head go down that road of using the GF word. She is priming you to be a means of otc money whether that’s for sex, times of need or whatever. She doesn’t have her own money. She has your money and the other guys she does this withs money. Spend what you can afford and get what you want out of it but don’t be fooled into thinking a) she likes you or b) you’re special or the only one she does this with.
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5 years ago
I’m not sure about other states but here in California once you get a dui it is now mandatory (if you want your license back) that you sign a document stating that you have been informed that in the future should you ever kill someone while being over the legal limit you will be charged with murder. It is called the Watson law.
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5 years ago
Flaming bag of dog poop on the front porch daily til it ends.
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5 years ago
Successful French restaurants don’t also serve chicken nuggets just because some people think that’s good eatin’. Atmosphere counts too. There are plenty of women in this industry who physically just should not be. Just because I can choose not to dance with her doesn’t mean she isn’t changing the atmosphere of the club.
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6 years ago
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minnowAny place that interests me.
I’ve renewed three years in a row and every time I just call them and tell them I want to renew for the year but it’s too expensive. They always cut it at least in half. They originally wanted like $250 this year and cut it to something like $115.
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6 years ago
The main reason a stripper gives you her number is so she will get yours when you text. When you text her she doesn’t have to respond if you aren’t flat out talking money. But then she has your number to add to her text list when she wants to stir up business. You’ll get the same text she sent to 20 other contacts fishing for one or two to come in. Answering that text (and going in) is what’s gonna get her to remember you. Be careful what you wished for at that point.
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6 years ago
That’s called the wizard of oz when she pulls aside the curtain.
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6 years ago
Agree with twentyfive. I’d go on to say that supply and demand is kind of a give and take. Prices would go up from the median when the supply is low and demand high (night shift) and go down from the median when the supply is high and demand low (day shift). Since the prices won’t go down below that median I’d equate this practice more to price gouging instead. Prices go up when the demand is high but only come back to the median when low.
A dancer and a customer can come to whatever arrangement they want but a dancer asking for more per dance when she’s busy is the equivalent of me asking for a reduced rate when she’s slow IMO. I wouldn’t do it to a girl because it just seems like a bad way to start off and that’s the way I take it when it’s asked of me.
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6 years ago
So would it be fair expect a dancer to charge less than the advertised price for a dance during slow times? I would never pay more than what the club advertised. I get it from the dancers point of view but until a dancer offers me a discounted dance because she’s not busy I’ll stick to the actual price. And if a girl tried to say her dances cost more after the dance Id have a good laugh at that. It’s all up to each person to decide what they’re okay with but like I said you don’t see girls in $20 dance clubs offering $10 dances just because it’s slow. And as a customer just try offering half price for a dance “because she’s not busy” and see the reaction you’d get.
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6 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
If she’s refusing your money it means she probably wants you to see her in a different way. Either that or she’s expecting that you’ll pay anyway and she’ll earn some points with you. Either way not your problem. She’ll either get pissed you didn’t offer to pay or she’ll get back to business next time. Why sweat it until she starts asking for more of you. When she does that’s when you shut it down.
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6 years ago
10 man brawl in the parking lot...no cops
Try to get a pair of nail clippers on a plane...cavity search
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6 years ago
Nothing wrong with spending money like that as long as you understand that’s what she’s there for. Not every hustle is about cleaning you out. If you’re good with it just enjoy it but be ready for the drama and demands to increase. You mention that you like to be a provider. That is exactly the type of personality that I was talking about before. There are girls that just want someone who will “take care” of them in that way and are happy to have you spend money on them in the club or otc in return for company and sex. The problems only come up when the provider feels he has earned more and doesn’t need to provide as much or when the girl starts wanting more. You should have the full understanding of what this relationship probably is though and not assume it’s just a friends with benefits deal. Even if you end up friends with benefits with no cash exchanging hands the drama that comes with most of these girls will make you wish you just coughed up the cash and left it as business.
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6 years ago
Illegal to stiff a whore? I thought that’s what they get paid for!
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6 years ago
Titus I didn’t mean that to come across as an attack so glad you took it for what it was meant. The point I was making is the same as what others here have mentioned. Take this for what it is and nothing more. You say you aren’t jumping in with two feet but these girls, with their combination of beauty and drama, have a way of sucking certain personality types in without you even realizing it. You have already spent a couple grand (money can be replaced to a certain extent), spent a night worrying about her well being, posted mutiple threads on multiple sites trying to comprehend what is happening and now are discussing her living arrangements with your family. These girls can develop some feelings for a guy that “takes care” of them but the hustle is always a factor. Be prepared for it and it will help you recognize it when it comes.
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6 years ago
I’ve seen some of your posts on SW and I think you’re leaving a lot of that out on this site. You’ve already spent a couple grand on this girl so the hustle is real. She’s seen that you have the money so don’t assume this isn’t a long con. Also, you already mentioned the drama she caused when she called you wanting to die and had you drive an hour to pick her up only to have already left (without telling you). My point is that this isn’t the rainbows and sunshine “she likes me for me” situation you’re making it out to be. Either that or, since you also stated that you are very new to strip clubs, you just don’t realize it yet. Tread carefully. The signs are there you just seem a little too willing to hope for the best right now. At the very least you should be highly concerned about bringing this person into your home life with a young child around regardless of whether your wife approves.