First thing you should do is be honest with yourself about what you are actually wanting to accomplish. From some of your replies (like revenge) it sounds more like you’d like her to believe you’re moving on and miss your money rather than you actually wanting to move on without any drama. This is common especially in situations like yours where it’s been a longer term otc/stripper baby arrangement. If you truly are wanting to move on and have no further interest in this girl, including how she thinks of you or your money, then the best way to do that is like mentioned above just act like nothing happened and just don’t spend on her anymore. If asked tell her it was just time for something else. The only reason to do anything different is if you’re still wanting her attention because she misses you (re: YOUR MONEY!)) which like I said is common. If that’s the case good luck to you because it’s a never ending game of drama that you will pay for in money, time and headaches.
The dancer I was seeing over a five year period would stay the night at my house quite often. I even let her stay a week there when she had surgery and was recovering. During that time it was a mix of way too much drama and constant texts while I was at work begging me to come home and have sex (with pics). So yeah bad and good. I’m very familiar with the cigarette burns in couches, bed sheets and even the fucking shower curtain somehow! Over all this time she would ask to move in from time to time and thank god I always had the balls to say no. I have three extra bedrooms so she would always talk about bringing stuff over to make a room but the most I ever let her get in the house was clothes and a toothbrush and things like that. There were obviously good times but even those were just so chaotic (see the texts to work) that it was just something I was never willing to consider going full time with.
Met a sexy little 21 year old and got some dances with her after which she says “you’re fun I should give you my number”. After a couple months of texting and seeing her every couple weeks at the club and getting dances and handjobs I came to see her one night. I head into the club and she’s nowhere to be found. She texts me after about 15 minutes telling me she just got fired and can I follow her to another club she can work at. Then she asks if we can just go to my place. She ended up staying the night which turned into about five years of great sex and crazy drama. There’s something completely insane feeling when you don’t want the drama of the next text but still can’t wait to get it. Glad i ended it but probably wouldn’t change the journey.
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